by civvie chic w/o paying directly for sex, on scale of 1-10, 10 being the highest possibility and 1 being the least possible, what you think your chance is to get tempted when you see someone you really like to pursue?  

Like Oscar Wilde said... "I can resist everything but temptation..."

-- Modified on 8/31/2014 1:07:49 PM

Hobbying Hands down is best. However, bust by SO is still in full effect.

Hell, I'm getting scared that I prefer hobby hook ups over the trouble of pursuing civvies.  As each year passes it seems the civvie world grows in drama filled frustration so now I don't even bother.  Whatever happened to a good ole fashioned NS affair/booty call.  

The biggest payoff is that in the hobby world you can have it your way, or at least 90% your way.....looks, persona, actual sexual preferences, etc can all be agreed upon up front.  In real world there is a much greater chance at disappointment i.e. "I don't give head;" I don't like this, I don't like that; I don't do this, I don't do that.  And once out of their clothes you're chances of disappointment are greater i.e. too much cottage cheese, too many stretch marks, etc, etc.

And if you do have a SO don't get careless you can be busted as I've experienced.  The fact that the risk of late night unsolicited phone calls; "I love you drama....;"  "you don't spend enough time with me drama, etc." One can develop a false sense of "security."  Don't do it !!!!  Operate/protect your hobby life like it's a full blown love affair that you don't want found out and you should do fine.

As the old saying goes..."there is NOTHING free; your time or your money."