I have never blacklisted anyone. Specifically because I have yet to encounter a truly bad person as a client.
Plenty of gents have threatened to leave fake bad reviews, but I know it is only because they are frustrated. I hope that they have not done so due to reason, but until I am stiffed money or assaulted, I see no need. Screening is important. If the ladies are screening and not asking what your schedule is, thats pretty poor planning. If life happens and rescheduling needs to happen, thats just another day.
Outside of 2 ladies I met who were great this summer, I've had a rough time with scheduling others. Here are the issues and as always happy to hear thoughts.
1. Times: I normally work until 7. This means the ideal time for me to meet is 9 pm on a weekday. I've had numerous ladies tell me that's too late. I guess I am regulated to the weekend. I pissed off one lady trying ti schedule later and am now on her blacklist (No harsh language used. She just thought I was playing games).
2. Role play and grooming: Made a request to a younger lady about role and mentioned a grooming preference. Not welcomed by her anymore. I should have realized different ladies have different tolerances. I guess I was used to ladies who are a little more liberal (I think this lady blacklisted me too - like one above no graphic language on my part).
I've been in the hobby over 10 years, but I'm still learning!
Sorry - venting on the board.
Instead of reserving it for truly dangerous clients, smallest argument or disagreement lands guys on BL. Don't worry about the BL part too much. The smart ones know not to read too much into it. The ones that don't would probably end up putting you on one again, so its good not to associate with such in the first place..
As far as actual advice, I don't think you need much of that since you have been around the block for a while. Have you considered taking couple of hrs out from work in the middle of the day to get some action? Plenty of providers offer noon sessions.. Just a thought !
on the blacklisting either...
#1 she may have only put you on her personal blacklist site and none
of the other ones.
I am sure you will find someone else to meet that meets your
desires and you will have a blast.
Dc...is a great city and I for one cant wait to come back!!
Makenzie
You might want to see reviewed bp providers for your situation. Some of them are nice enough to take last minute appointments and listen to your suggestion on grooming requests etc.
The problem today is that so many guys are using the hobby to only get a release and not for fun. The ladies know this and that why many don't do anything extra. It has gotten to the point that if you want quality you might have to pay premium dollars for service.
I have never blacklisted anyone. Specifically because I have yet to encounter a truly bad person as a client.
Plenty of gents have threatened to leave fake bad reviews, but I know it is only because they are frustrated. I hope that they have not done so due to reason, but until I am stiffed money or assaulted, I see no need.
Screening is important. If the ladies are screening and not asking what your schedule is, thats pretty poor planning. If life happens and rescheduling needs to happen, thats just another day.
if you use the search engine you will find that the highest concentration of providers with review score averages of 8.5 or better fall into the 260-300/hr bracket in this market....
now I've seen ladies who were asking premium rates and in some cases they were certainly justified -
but overall the idea of a rate / quality of service correlation is a myth
I've seen some real bargains who delivered some of the best service I've experienced - witness my latest review.....
I completely agree that the "mid range" ladies are great I can't remember the last time I felt the need to spend over $300 hr to find someone that I was completely 100% happy with, but that's not the price point that WRPS07 is talking about. He is more the $150 hr BackPage type, and at that price point, both service and appearance are at a much lower level than what you and I encounter at the $250-300 hr price point