i was looking for that red link for the TER handbook but couldn't find it. could you just post the link. thanks.
I am getting a little discouraged with some of these providers. I dont want to be with some average woman. I have been searching for above average providers in looks and in performance, the problem is that all these women need referrals from other providers, to ensure their saftey and to ensure i am legite. how am i supposed to see providers when i need to see average or below average providers first? what gives? is there any way around this? I have even had one of the upper end women say that she wanted companions, not fucks, and that she didnt want someone who fucked everyone in the city, but once again she needs referrals?? how ironic is that?
Here's the best way around it:
Write to a number of providers that you are interested in and explain that you are new at this and just starting out.
If you are sincere, come off as well educated (spelling and grammar count), and, most of all, persistent; you should eventually succeed.
It is also important that you show good faith by revealing as much personal information about yourself that you can including home and work numbers and addresses, and anything else that they might be interested in.
You can also find more information about this in the TER Instruction Manual, which is the red link just above the "ten top posters" link at the top of your screen.
When I started Hobbying a few months ago, I had the dual issue of being self employed and having no references.
Wasn't a problem though, by researching well known ,in my Southeastern city, providers here on their market presence, physical description and basic area and mode of operation, I was able to name drop them and their practices on other providers as having seen them before and even offering to call the fake referrals to alert them of an incoming reference call, a bluff that no one called me on.
Then, of course, I got real references to run on.
Learn the data and rehearse your rap, it will work on most, I believe. I was after independents, since I believed and still do that they provide better service.
IMO, there is a lot of deceit on the providers end of this business, who says hobbyists have to play by their rules?
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It's people like you who force me to put in the extra time to screen clients. I ALWAYS check references (two required) and never take anyone's word for it. My safety is #1.
Some of us do not deceive and have no reason to, BTW. Well, I do lie about my name...
i was looking for that red link for the TER handbook but couldn't find it. could you just post the link. thanks.