I had about a four hour session this afternoon, overnight dates on both Friday and Saturday, an all day date on Friday during the day, and sessions on both Wednesday and Thursday.
Right now I am trying to to decide if I'd like to see someone else tonight, or if I should chill for the evening to rest up for my all day date tomorrow. so much for "basking in the glow" I guess.
I can't imagine going without sex for an entire week on purpose.
BTW I am no kid either. I am well into my mid fifties, with the prospect of nearing sixty staring me right in the face.
But like I said, it's all a matter of appetite, and I don't believe that I need to trade quality for quantity. I want it all, and I think I deserve to have it all.
I was just wondering what is the average frequency that most guys hobby?
I know some guys are single and fairly well off financially, so they can hobby several times a week, but I have a tough time believing that is the majority of the people here?
Yes - I know this has been discussed in the past, but I couldn't find it in a search.
Before joining TER and P411 I used to hobby quite often with the girls on BP. It was for the most part a terrible experience. I had to go through a lot bait and switches and no shows before running into a decent girl.
But my new strategy is to focus on quality and not quantity. I plan on seeing maybe just one or two ladies a month but of much higher caliber. So far I have only one date scheduled for August. But the lady I am meeting averages 9+ in both appearance and performance.
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I have gone through periods where I saw a frequent amount of lower service ladies. What I have found is that if I see someone for a $100 or $150 quicky, I am back looking for another appointment the next week. If I see someone of much higher service, I am generally good for a couple of weeks
while seeing $100 hr BP girls is most likely sacrificing quality, I see mainly ladies in the "average" range for my market which is Dallas Tx and the "average" range here is about $300 hr for a quality lady.
I am one of those happily divorced guys without child support or alimony and I like to get laid about once a day, twice when on vacation. This comes from a mix of P4P and the occasional civvie GF, but as long as I don't ever have to go more than a day or two without getting laid I am a happy camper. I honestly don't know what I would do if i had to go weeks on end without pussy. Hopefully I won't ever have to find out.
For the record, I am on vacation now, I spent almost all day with one lady, had an overnighter with a different woman, and I am planning on finding someone else to keep me company tonight.
Lather, rinse, repeat is my motto. lol
While I could have no problem getting laid at least every other day; if I have a balls to the wall quality session I can bask in the glow for at least a week without having a strong need to book a session.
We all have our own definitions of a quality session. But when I have mine it's usually of the 2 - 3 hour variety and the provider is versed in all the features of my definition of a "quality" session. When it's over I can replay the tape in my mind for at least a week to include the fact that after the session I was reduced to shooting dust as I was depleted of all bodily fluids.
I had about a four hour session this afternoon, overnight dates on both Friday and Saturday, an all day date on Friday during the day, and sessions on both Wednesday and Thursday.
Right now I am trying to to decide if I'd like to see someone else tonight, or if I should chill for the evening to rest up for my all day date tomorrow. so much for "basking in the glow" I guess.
I can't imagine going without sex for an entire week on purpose.
BTW I am no kid either. I am well into my mid fifties, with the prospect of nearing sixty staring me right in the face.
But like I said, it's all a matter of appetite, and I don't believe that I need to trade quality for quantity. I want it all, and I think I deserve to have it all.
With a few exceptions- some more, some less
Depends on schedule and talent
I "hobby" a couple of times a week in addition to nailing my administrative assistant at least once a week and keeping my girlfriend happy....
I got 1 to 3 times a week. Either 2 half hour appointments or 1 one to 2 hour appointment. If the wife does catch me with an erection in the morning I will hobby that day.
depending on my travel schedule and other commitments. It's a helluva lot easier to hobby when I travel!
though I do also go for a massage once a week - as I just really like the caring touch of women.
All you dudes must be making some serious coin!
Yes most guys who hobby make over 6 figures in salary. Many were smart enough to start saving for retirement at an early age and did not hobby in their 20's. Kids are in college (with scholarships) or graduated from college or flunked out of college. That helps out a lot too.
If you have kids make sure you push them hard so most of college is funded via scholarships. If they mess up they are on their own.
...but not nearly as much as many here I'm sure (I'm a $600 2 hr date guy), so I really do feel the cost of this (no early retirement for me lol!).
With my line of work, the income can be a roller coaster ride and usually is. When finances are good I have hobbied everyday for three weeks straight. When they are bad, i have gone 4 months without no play. I also stopped hobbying recently for several months because I had a GF I was quite happy with her, so being monogamous was no problem.
When single and with OK finances, I usually hobby between 3 and 6 times a month. If I hobby more, it starts to eat away at my social life and hobbying becomes my social life. Not exactly its intended purpose.
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The life of a day trader. I don't know how you guys can handle that much anxiety every day
You guys need to get with the times. Commission based day trading is the old way of doing it. I get paid a fee to manage client accounts. No need to trade constantly. Just a fee trades here and there.
is normal for me. I prefer longer dates, so usually this is one or two extended dinner or lunch dates or maybe an overnight, and 2-3 hours sessions otherwise.
Sometimes more frequently, sometimes less. It depends upon how busy my life is at the moment, how well my hobby fund is doing... many factors.
was April/May. Next time will probably be August or Sept.
There are different reasons for the varying frequency . Sometimes family issues and sometimes i'm just not in the mood. Honestly, the biggest factor is how I'm doing in the (stock) market. That's where I get most of my disposable income to supplement hobbying. (and that is feast or famine.
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I respond with this alias cause this thread captures why even named this alias what I did. Given my current stage in life I wish I could quit being a hobbyist but when nature calls and the civie/wifey outlets are tenuous at best I turn to the lovely provider community and really appreciate their service/s. Makes me wish I coulda found that lady who could be that "...lady in the street and freak in the sheets.." but I don't think she exists.
I'm a six figure guy but I have all the stuff that goes with it; mortgage, three kids to educate, and trying to put some away for retirement. Looks like my oldest will have her college paid for as she is a straight A student.
But as needs arise in the household it will impact my hobby plans significantly. There have been times when I was looking forward to having a 3 session week but had to adjust the plan or simply go blue balls due to the need for this or that by any and/or all members of the household.
Hence, trusty BP will have to due in a pinch to simply fight off blue balls and the pent up demand loading down my sack.
But my job is the rate limiting step. Lol
Prefer 90 min or two hours.
No weekends.