It's not that big a deal in the grand scheme of things tbqh

It happens to all hobbyists. Not too long ago, the same thing happened to me except it was 10 minutes before the appointment.

In the words of John Lennon - 'Life happens when you're busy making plans'. I certainly wouldn't get irate about it.

I once had a provider come over for an outcall and we chatted for a bit.  When she got up to take off her panties, she started spotting.  Needless to say, the session ended.  She was overly embarrassed and apologized.  I couldn't believe she didn't know it was her time or maybe she thought she could get in and out first.

Another provider and I went to dinner first.  During our meal, she got up to use the restroom and came back and asked to stop at a gas station on the way home.  That session also ended after dinner.

I've had others cancel ahead of time because of this, so it happens.

I assume with birth control, that periods are more predictable, but apparently not - or not all providers use birth control?  Did she at least offer you a reduced session for your troubles?

On her side there is a lot of communication with other people not just you.   Easy for mistakes to happen.    On your side this is a business agreement and service.    A lot of nice providers out there.    Take your business somewhere else if dissatisfied.

Hello:

I offer to you my regrets to what occurred to you.  I have experienced this as well, but fortunately not too often.  I know the feeling as a looked forward to expectation is set for a girl of choice, then bang "a drop". Here are my thoughts

1. The lady always has the right to take on a booking or to cancel it. That you had to contact her to determine the status was bad form on her part.  Informally, I also believe that the "period" excuse rather blows.  This has somewhat of a "low rent" overtone to it. The combination of the two looks bad.

2. Given that I have mentioned that she has to right to take on the booking or cancel, you also have the right to inform the marketplace of your experience.  Fairness goes both ways. There are always two sides, and to be frank we don't know her side, as is understood, from this posting.  Write your side and let her rebut, if she wishes.

3. I would write a review, other fellows would be well informed based upon your experience.  Full knowledge leads to a better hobby scene.  That full knowledge allows the professionally focused providers to shine.  If this becomes a habit on her part then its time to "name and shame" as some call it.

Again, she had the right to cancel.  Her lack of notification and provided excuse; however, make her look shabby.

responded: "Easy for you to say, but I'm the one driving around with a big lump in my pants!"  We still laugh at that.  As Ginger said above, it does happen and how it's dealt with is what matters most.  It is also important that the lady realize your situation.  Some guys have lots of freedom and flexibility: reschedule for tomorrow, call someone else for later, etc.  Others have a lot less.  You have to take time off from work.  Others have to arrange a window free from "where have you been?"  Etc.

got an email. She just got her period and her grandfather was dying. She had emailed just ten minutes prior saying our meeting was on.

You never really know what's up, and maybe it's best you don't know.

later.  Didn't have the sea sponge (or whatever) handy so inserted a differently shaped sponge - perhaps a makeup sponge or similar.  I knew nothing of the issue, we had a great time and I went my merry way.  The next day the lady told me that she was unable to get the sponge out herself.  She was staying with a friend - one of Atlanta's present top providers - and the friend had to take the sponge out for her.  I subsequently have seen the friend several times and we still laugh about "spongegate."

Just a quick update.  First - thanks for all the input.  When I reread this I came across as somewhat of a whiner for which I apologize. 2nd - something very good came of this.  I contacted a 2nd provider, who even though I didn't have all the prerequisite references for verification, went the xtra mile and did a very great deal of legwork to verify me by other means.  We plan to meet this weekend.  This will give me the two references most providers require before they will see a newbie.  I plan to give her the original amount I would have given to the first provider as well as her fee.  She deserves it.

act that way. Because of the very high reviewed there are only a few and they all have stellar reviews. I think your only telling your side of the story. But to answer your question newbie, it rarely happens (if at all) with well reviewed providers, so I think there's some lame in your game. Maybe you should start with some agency girls first and work your way up, or you could just quit being a whiney ass.

Highly reviewed providers usually know that guys review them and therefore, without good reason, won't usually do something that might hurt their reputation.

I had this happened probably once, with a highly reviewed pornstar provider in L.A.  Her reason was even worse.  About an hour or so before, she said she was tired from cleaning up the 4th of July party, though she immediately rescheduled for the next morning and we met the next morning.  

Also, highly reviewed provides do really care about their performance and might not meet with you unless they're at their 100%.  

An interesting flip side is that highly reviewed providers might not actually care much about losing one potential client or so because they probably already have a solid client base and established reputation, whereas providers trying to build reputation might care more (since one or two bad reviews can hurt them, and at that stage, every potential client matters).  It might not have been coincidental that about the only time that this happened to me was with highly reviewed top dollar high class pornstar provider.  I mean, at my professional career, I remember caring a lot more about each and individual client earlier in my career, and later in my career I don't care much bc I have so many more other ppl to attend to.  

Another reason might be that one of her important regulars or big money clients wanted to schedule.  

Whatever reason, this doesn't happen often and it might have been legit and it probably wasn't personal.

Best providers are the ones who aren't totally newbies (so that they aren't nervous and can provide comfortably) but aren't also very high established (so that they are still working hard to ramp up their reputation and client base).  When I search through reviews, I often find myself focusing on girls with maybe 10 - 20 reviews.