is always there. Just remember that she alloted this time for you and no one else. Took the time to get ready, possibly drive, and otherwise prepare.
It is only polite to compensate the lady for her time.
Hello,
I've had about half a dozen successful encounters with providers (thanks to advice and info from this site). I'm getting ready to make an appointment with a new provider, and I've always wondered, what would happen if she opened up the door, and you weren't happy with what you saw? Could you back out of it at this point (basically saying, "thanks, but no thanks")? Would you give the provider a portion of the fee? I guess I'm just wondering if there's a polite way to back out if you get a bad feeling. I've never had this happen before--just wondering. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
is always there. Just remember that she alloted this time for you and no one else. Took the time to get ready, possibly drive, and otherwise prepare.
It is only polite to compensate the lady for her time.
aged 10 years and 25 pounds since the pics. If you are looking at what you expected and get 2nd thoughts, you should give the lady some compensation for her time in preparing for your get-together.
If you just got cold feet, or you decided that she wasn't really your cup of tea after all, then yes, you should probably offer her something for her time and hassle -- I'd suggest at least a third of the hourly donation. However, if there was a significant misrepresentation, feel free to say something like "I'm sorry, you're not the person I thought I was going to be meeting", and leave with all your cash still in your pocket.
Be fair about it -- if it's just that she's wearing different shoes than she was wearing in the picture, that is bullshit on your part. However, if her pics are ten years and 100 pounds out of date, or if the lady in the pics is a tall blonde and you're looking at a short brunette, that's known as "bait & switch". Always bail on those experiences, even if the lady you're actually presented with is someone you would normally have considered seeing; if they'll switch on you, there's a very good chance that they will rip you off as well.
If you are backing out because of cold feet, in my opinion, you should offer some donation to make up for the provider's lost revenue.
If you had unrealistic expectations? You book a 40 year old provider (she says that on her site) and you expect her to look 20? You thought she was taller, but her site said she is 5'4. IN this case, its your fault for not doing your research.
You have a "bad" feeling about the appt. You suspect LE or someone in the other room (pimp)... All I can say is (in the words of Beanie).. RUN Cecil RUN!!!
If she has grossly misrepresented herself! If she is not the person in the photo... again... then you should leave as you were mislead.
Just use your good judgement!!
SINfully sinthia
Thankfully I've never had to back-out of a meeting....there was one that I wished I had afterwards!!! But it was just because we really didnt click....nice girl, nice time, great body but just didnt click....
In my opinion, either party has the option to backout for whatever reason they feel warrants it....think about it, it's a decent amount...if I'm not getting what I think I should, why should I stay around?!?!?
Also, reviews, reviews, reviews....I tend to only date ladies that have 5 reviews and those reviewers have posted more then one review....call me silly but I've never ever have had a feeling of LE issues nor have even come close to a bait and switch....