No It's Not OK

This forum only works when honest objective reviews are posted be they good or bad.

Write the review, and if you feel that your dissatisfaction was more chemistry than her performance say that in the review (especially if she is already well reviewed).

All sessions are subject to the YMMV caveat, but unless everyone posts reviews both good and bad, how can we determine what was a YMMV or a bad day on her part and what the rest of us can reasonably expect if we choose to visit her?

-- Modified on 7/26/2007 2:11:26 PM

Re: To review or not to review?

I'm gonna have to disagree with bakdor. I recently had a date with a very well reviewed porn star. It didn't go as well as I had expected and it was all my fault. I don't know if I was just too tired or what. But, it definitely had nothing to do with her.
Would it be fair for me to give her a 7 for performance, when she usually gets 9s and 10s?  I don't think so

Did you have reasonable expectations?
Did she make an honest effort to meet them?

If this was the case, then you have no reason to complain.  Take the gentlemanly option, and keep it to yourself.

Unfortunately, not every encounter goes as desired!!!

Having been the subject of a few less than raving reviews, my inclination would be to say - be a gentleman and let it go......buuuut that is the business oriented selfish side talking LOL.

The purpose of this site though, is to provide objective, fair, and honest reviews. So yes, write the review using those guidelines. Flatter and compliment where it is appropriate, and be honest about your experience. If she is a quality lady with multiple reviews, one review that is less than glowing won't kill her. Your contribution though, is no less valuable than the next hobbyist who raves about how wonderful she is.

No lady can honestly expect to have nothing but outstanding reviews. The reality is that no matter how hard we try, we aren't going to be everyone's cup of tea. One or two mediocre reviews just reflects that she's human.

It is still your decision though. If you prefer not to write a review, that is your choice, but there is no reason why you shouldn't. But don't worry, for the most part, we ladies have thick skin. We can take it

appearance, attitude, performance, etc.; not about how well you clicked.  As was said earlier, you can always add YMMV to the description.  Personally, I've had a few sessions that could have been better, but I have written reviews to let others know her performance was not up to the expectation level.

If you think the hobbyist community might benefit, I'd encourage you to write a review but ultimately, no one here can make you do anything.

I've seen two providers in the last month and have not yet written reviews because I've been too lazy.  One is a well-reviewed provider who has lived up to her previous reviews so I don't feel as compelled to write it anytime soon.  The other has no reviews so I feel like I should write it so others know what they're getting into,

Do what makes you comfortable.

An exception is that if a provider asks you not to write a review, talk to her about it, and if it seems reasonable, don't write it.

As you can see, I have no reviews (yet) so take this with a grain or two or salt.  I have read many negative reviews of otherwise well-reviewed providers where I have thought "this guy is an a##hole, no wonder."  But I have also read several negative reviews of otherwise well-reviewed providers where I think "think guy is just like me and he didn't have a good time", so why spend my money on her for a similar experience?  It's all about being able to find someone who fullfils your fantasy expectations.  So by all means, write a review.  Be fair and honest, but please, let the rest of us know what didn't "click" for you.

I would be honest with the community and give her an honest rating.

Everything is subjective and one less than stellar review won't hurt her.