Most of us charge for our time and not for specific services

I couldn't imagine that someone would be offended that you know what you want (and don't want) and that you'd like to take some time to explore other modes of sensual expression.  

Have fun!
xoxox
Tori

I have on occasion used my time with a lady to give her a nice sensual massage.  It usually leads to a happy ending for us both.  I like to stay in practice giving massage, so this is largely for me.  There is something very therapeutic in the giving of massage to another.  Plus, I enjoy connecting to that special someone and providing her relaxation.

Not to mention I get to rub my oily hands all over a nubile, female body.  

The experience. Like someone else said most of us charge for our time. Combined with how she depicts herself in her marketing tends to tell you if the provider is right for you. Tyoically her online persona will leave you wanting something you can't quite put your finger on but you must have it and you wouldn't neccessarily find it on a menu of sorts, i.e. the wonderful sensual experiece you are seeking.

To reiterate what Tori said

Most providers, particularly ones who view companionship holistically would honor your request with open arms. I've had several clients who wanted to move at a less (or more depending on your view) traditional pace. I would encourage you to select a provider you think you'll get along with mentally as well as physically, so you can have a fully engaged experience. Your limits are your limits and all reputable providers should have no problem respecting them. I think what you have in mind sounds lovely personally. I'm a big fan of wine and cuddling, especially in tandem

Good luck!

-Ava

Personally I would not feel insulted at all. I am confident enough not to be offended...

And I think that is is hypocritical to claim to be open minded only when it comes to kinks and fetishes or else. Being open-minded means being exactly what the word suggests: having an open mind when it comes to people with all sort of different preferences. In this case I see no reason to be any different x

No offense but unless u have lo T, I doubt you will be able to hold back

Trust me bro it can really be fun to go all the way

Peace be with you!

You would be an ideal Client for any of us as Providers

Regardless of us as high end providers being available and accommodating to each and every upscale guests' particular needs, we are women "first and foremost".  Every woman loves to get to know someone mentally and develop chemistry "first and foremost".  

As "providers", we aren't always "provided" that luxury due to obvious reasons ranging from time constraints to just pure "carnal desires needing to be fulfilled & nothing more".  We understand & accept it as our professional responsibility to satisfy any situation.  However, it means something when a man can withhold his "carnal" needs long enough to explore our "emotional" and "mental" desires for stimulation.  In return, you would find that ANY woman, whether we are in this profession or outside of it...will unlock and share herself in the most torrid of ways that would rival the steamiest romance or even XXX love scenes if you so desired to receive that part of us.

You seem to be a gentleman and that is very appealing...