That might as well be the question, expect that even a spitter allowed me to CIM, so it's not I'm going to get mad at a girl who spits.
I guess maybe a better analogy is "lobster or fish sticks, which do you prefer?" Obviously there is no real choice here, but fish sticks will do in a pinch if they have to.
CIM is a must- swallow is first choice and spit is second. Had great sessions with both.Cheers.
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Or about cumming. 
Swallowing is a nice touch as it adds to the intimacy/heat of an encounter. But spitting is ok, too (well, for me). I know quite a few girls (and guys lol) don't like spunkmouth, so if they are going to get up and gargle and get a washcloth anyway - spit/swallow what's the difference?
A while back I had been seeing a girl who was known for being a spitter, and after I was a regular for a while one time she surprised me by swallowing. Her eyes got real big but she didn't panic or give up - she was a trooper. I asked her why the change and she said she was willing to try it with me. I asked her what she thought and she said "it's not so bad". And so she became a swallower - well for me anyway. It was a nice perk to being a regular with her.
Like with many things sex related it isn't all about your pleasure alone. A good lover puts his or her partner's needs first. I'm sure that girls swallow because we guys like it. And I'm sure there aren't girls that just love the taste (but they would be wife material lol). So they do it for us and that's very cool.
Speaking of taste, I was watching a video of a woman giving blowjob instruction (it's important to do research to share these tips with your girlfriends) and she had an interesting technique. She said that since tastebuds are on the tongue, if you can deepthroat as the guy is cumming (a handy skill to know for many reasons) there isn't much taste. Of course you run the risk of gagging, but we all have our crosses to bear. Hey, I'm just trying to help. You know I'm very altruistic in that regard. 
For those interested in further research I suggest you google Heather Brooke (or Harmon) for many fascinating and educational examples of her technique...
I do think it's an interesting double standard with girls that don't swallow or even allow CIM are just fine with us guys daty'ing to our heart's content. Not to be indelicate but when I'm down there for a good 20 minutes getting a girl's motor all revved up I'm sure I get some fluids as well. Arguably more than I may give her in return. So I don't buy the "ewww that's gross!" counterargument when it cums around to my turn.
Fair is fair.
Am I right guys?
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I can go either way, but prefer the added sensation of the swallow, but its not a dealbreaker if she spits. CIM is CIM either way.
If she will keep it up until I am all the way done, I may not even know which one she did. And from that point forward she is, in my humble opinion, a wonderful human being who shall be forever regarded warmly and held above reproach for any spitting or swallowing she chooses to do in the future!
Swallow. Or she can let it slide out her mouth dribble down he chin to
Falling on her breasts. Of course it would be a bonus if I could scoop it
With my fingers and she licks them clean while commenting on how good
I taste and beautiful my cock is.
Or she can spit.
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You seem to have wicked sense of humor on occasion....
I like CIM in general because it's not messy and doesn't interrupt the flow of things. However on a personal level I really enjoy CIMNSNQ, it's kind of like getting a gold star, you know you've done a good job It just turns me on for some reason.
That said, I can totally understand why some ladies prefer swallowing, or no CIM at all (I do not enjoy COF for example) because everyone has their preferences and comfort levels. And BBBJs can easily be fore play or combined with other things so I don't think it would be a deal breaker for most guys. Actually CIM is almost always my idea, I've rarely had it specifically requested.
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CIM definitely shows appreciation and extends the intimacy. Why cut short that afterglow with her scampering to the sink and washing out the sounds of snuggling with gargling? I would offer for her to share the deposit. Plus, by returning some of that sauce, we swirl up some DFKs that could lead to another round.
...and I orgasm while performing to completion. I believe that BBBJNQNS is the ULTIMATE EXPERIENCE and have had very few in the recent past that wanted otherwise and absolutely NONE that demanded otherwise.
Though I have had a few that wished they had passed because the intensity affected follow-up performance.....so sorry, Honey
a girl does a BBBJNSNQ with out swallowing until your finished and then uses your cum to continue a BJ/HJ combo until you come a second time and swallowing the second one until your bone dry and convulsing from the intensity. Followed by a kiss with leftover cum running out of her mouth for some snowball action.
If it taste good....GULP! ! If not....spit.
word of advice guys...PINEAPPLE JUICE 
Hugs and kisses
T
Years ago, that let me CIM and let a little cum dribble out of her mouth. Damn that was sexy
I wonder who could that be?
When doing a double snowballing is so hot.
