A favorite of mine and I used to play porn show and tell.  I'd ask her to bookmark a video she liked and I'd send her the link to one I liked too.  We'd lay on her bed and spoon and watch them on her laptop.  And talk about what things that really turned us on about them.  And sometimes play out that scene if the mood was right.  It's a great conversation starter.  And it can get you to try some things you never thought of in the bedroom.

I would talk about limits (obviously) and keep things on the milder side until you know her well.  You'll learn some very interesting things about each other I guarantee it.  In my experience, most girls are way more kinky than we give them credit for.  LOL

PS:  I haven't tried Cock Hero yet.  I mean not with a partner.    Interesting...  I imagine that would be a pretty good workout.  For both parties.

Hmmm... I guess that should be their marketing slogan.  Cock Hero - a new game for developing hand to eye coordination, cardio, fitness, strength, intimacy, and stamina!