Well, put sir at times it can be a vexing point for Provider and I am positive with the Client. Bad feelings on the behalf of the Client can arise and as a result for a Provider it should be a troubling point as well. One point that I do not see noted is that at times for an Agency Provider the situation may arise where the Agency has booked too tight of a schedule to accommodate extra time allowance and no matter her good intentions or bad feelings about it she must find herself on the short end like the Client and suffer the consequences of his hurt. It's too bad for us both in such cases. C'est la vie? Suzee xoxo
I have seen in many provider's ads, on different ad boards, 'no rush session ' or 'not a clock watcher '. What is the reason for mentioning those statements?
In the past, I've had the misfortune of being with a few clock watchers or ladies who are constantly taking notice of the time either because they can't wait to get it over with or they have another appointment booked immediately after yours. To me, this lessens the experience and makes me feel like a John. "No rush session" is one of those marketing terms that always gets my attention...that along with GFE.
I personally try to always be very respectful of a ladies time but it's nice to be with someone who isn't trying to kick you out the door immediately after you finish.
I'm also very respectful of the time we scheduled for our appointment. I'll actually mention the time first and start getting myself together to leave unless she drops a hint or comes right out and says there is no rush.
Occasionally, I've even had a lady tell me right up front, don't worry about the time. Obviously, this is after we've seen each other more than once. Even in those instances, I make sure not to take advantage and overstay my welcome by too much. This gesture by her makes our time together so much more relaxed and enjoyable. We can take our time, let everything happen slow and natural and I'm not thiniking about the time in the back of my mind. I'm totally focused on enjoying our intimate time together.
One particular lady told me the first time I saw her that our 'scheduled' time together does not start until we hit the bedroom. This was after we had just spent 10-15 minutes chatting in her sofa, sipping wine with some heavy petting and kissing.
Again, I do NOT expect this every time or with every lady. I go into each appointment thinking that the time we scheduled that day is exactly the time we will be together. If there is any 'extra' time, it will always be her idea and what she feels comfortable with
that say photos 100% real or its me or its free.
Just some reassurance I guess.
I agree with the other gents, it's a bit of marketing tactic the ladies use. Kind of like "low volume", "upscale", and "elite companion" it looks good on a resume - but I don't know how much actual value it has.
I try to be very respectful of the provider's time, but if she encourages me to stay and chat a bit afterwards I always appreciate that. Getting to know your partner a bit is a nice perk of the hobby. But I certainly don't expect it for free.
I do think there is a bit of an art to this "extra time" on both sides. If a gent is asking questions about setting up the next session - such as things she likes, if she's into something (fetish, role play, or doubles for example) it's likely in her best interest not to push the gent out the door too quickly. I would say discussing future business is an important reason to possibly allow a gent to stay a few minutes over.
A good provider (and businesswoman) should always have her antennae up to pick up on clues that there will be a next time, what items are of interest to the gent, and any possible things she can do to facilitate that next encounter (such as helping get a doubles session arranged).
Of course it's up to us gentleman to not take advantage of a lady's kindness and hospitality if she does offer us some "extra time" and don't kick our sorry butts out the door. Like they have every right to. LOL
Well, put sir at times it can be a vexing point for Provider and I am positive with the Client. Bad feelings on the behalf of the Client can arise and as a result for a Provider it should be a troubling point as well. One point that I do not see noted is that at times for an Agency Provider the situation may arise where the Agency has booked too tight of a schedule to accommodate extra time allowance and no matter her good intentions or bad feelings about it she must find herself on the short end like the Client and suffer the consequences of his hurt. It's too bad for us both in such cases. C'est la vie? Suzee xoxo
Thank you - and that's a good point. I do tend to think in indy terms as that largely is where my experience lies. I agree - depending on the agency, the ability to grant a client a little "extra time" may be discouraged. But the other side of that argument for agencies is that they are often better at accommodating last minute date requests than an indy.
I'm not sure that I've used it often, but when I do, the point I mean to push across is that I'm not staring at the clock, or in a rush because I have someone coming in right behind you. Usually my clients have to remind me of the time. Maybe I was out of the biz too long and have just become used to civvie sex, or MAYBE I just absolutely hate be rushed in any sense. Too stressful. I feel like if a guy notices me watching the clock, he's going to be thinking, "great, I've got seven minutes left to cum." We don't need that kind of negative energy in our lives. Considerate of the time? Yes. Down to the second? No way.
But yes, selling point. Naturally you want to market your desirable attributes. Great ass and pretty face are just part of the package. 
I have had sessions (fortunately a very small percentage) when it was obvious the woman's goal was to get you in and out of there (pun intended) in as short a period as possible.
Some hookers have what they call an "up to one hour" session, which basically means "you cum, you go" and their goal is to get you to both cum and go as quickly as possible. I have had some of these women start complaining barely 15 minutes into the session about "how long" I am taking, and start in with the "cum for me baby" crap, which has the exact opposite effect on me. One of the advantages of getting older is I can hold back for as long as I want to, I can last two hours if I really wanted to, but who wants to last for two hours with a woman who clearly can't stand what she is doing?