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Re: I like photos of hard dicks.teeth_smile
adventurer2011 520 reads
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Are you serious?
I thought it was just us men who would get turned on by what we see.  

Regards

adventurer20111253 reads

Has any one been asked by a provider to send a picture of yourself for screening purposes?
I just had this situation and I actually provided one. I was verified though.
Now that I think about it, it wasn't so clever.
I'm thinking about not booking appointments because of that.

Do providers actually request pictures of new clients?

Thanks

A

I, like you, was VERY skeptical of doing it.  The only thing that gave me some comfort is that she was well known in the community.  The circumstances of her request also increased my hesitation.

This happened about a year ago.  I had contacted her the day before and we set everything up for the next day.  Once the next day came and I got close to the location I txt her and called her a couple of times and no response.  I figure standard NCNS and/or overbook situation.  I begin my search for a replacement and she txt me that she was out running and was back and ready at the hotel.  Aaaaahh OK.

Then she asks for verification via reference.  I say huh, really.  Too late for that and why DIDN'T you ask for it yesterday?!?!  She says "sorry" and we can do alternative with picture ID and business card sent via txt.  At this point it became a challenge to me as I thought she figured I would not do it and simply cancel appointment.  I say "fuck it" and send the info.  She responds "fine, come on over."  I get to her location and it turned out to be a 9/7 session as her performance did not meet the hype of her advertisement.  

I probably would NEVER do that again regardless of how comfortable the provider made me feel in doing it!!!  Providers are fickle and stuff sent digitally last FOREVER!!!!!

However, if the situation is making you uncomfortable now. I would ask the lady to delete your information, and not see her. If you go into with anxiety, your asking to be disappointed.

I'm a smallfry compared to some of you big players here, but I would never, EVER, give out my photo for screening. I'd rather give out my real name, SSN, and home address before photo. Once you send out your photo, it has too much potential to leave copies around everywhere and it's pretty much impossible to retrieve it. Who knows it might turn up 10 years, 20 years later? Who knows your family/friends/LE/employer/enemy might run into it?

I had a provider ask me to send a photo AFTER she screened me, on route to the hotel, so she can "recognize me". I said no way, and gave her a description of me and what I'm wearing. Once I arrived at the location, she makes me wait 30 monutes, and texts me she had a "family emergency" and had to leave 1 hour ago.  Whatever.

freakydeaky556 reads

would I ever provide a photo. I have and will give a physical description of myself during the screening process but I would NEVER provide a photo. Can't say that I would ever provide last name, SSN or home address etc... again either... and DEFINITELY not my employment info. It's not even no, it's HELL NO.  

All I usually provide these days is First Name only, phone number, email address, and P411 id. I mean, that's why I have a verification service with okays and references to begin with anyways... to vouch for me that I am a reputable hobbyist and not LE. I have also been lucky that my references have responded back to other providers promptly and favorably about me, so thank you to the ladies who are diligent about keeping up with that and responding back to reference checks. At this point, to provide more info about myself than that would feel unsafe and would surely be thinking with the wrong head.

If someone has elected to screen with his personal information i.e. name, Linkedin account, employment information, etc. chances are I've already seen a photo of him that way.

I will sometimes ask for another more casual photo to help me confirm that the photo of the guy on Linkedin that he's claiming to be is the same person I'm talking to.

I would never require it as part of regular screening though.

Although it turned some men off of me, many others were willing to oblige. I did this along with a litany of other redundant screening techniques but I didn't know any other way.  One man said it was easier to get a home loan than a date with me lol. My hard screening was eventually seen as a  commitment to discretion and safety and , I feel, it helped me become more established. Now, I've streamline the process but I still ask my potential pals to provide either a face pic,a  link to social media site like LinkedIn or Facebook , or a detailed self description. Of course,  there is a risk associated with submitting you photo no matter who you see but, by doing your research and entrusting your precious info only with reputable ladies, you'll lessen the chance of having a bad experience.  Happy Hobbying!
 Sincerely,  
 Erica Sweets

Posted By: adventurer2011
Has any one been asked by a provider to send a picture of yourself for screening purposes?  
 I just had this situation and I actually provided one. I was verified though.  
 Now that I think about it, it wasn't so clever.  
 I'm thinking about not booking appointments because of that.  
   
 Do providers actually request pictures of new clients?  
   
 Thanks  
   
 A

digem-all509 reads

I have never and would not ever provide pictures, places of employment, etc to any provider.  Are you completely clueless to the risks associated with that.  Granted, most of our ladys our cool and can be trusted to a degree, but the only thing that needs to happen is she get popped by LE and then suddenly all that verification info is available.  And even is she did delete it from her computer, unless she is savvy enough to have the right software, that info can be easily recovered, not to mention the email trail that is left behind.

You guys need to think with your bug head instead of the little one.

adventurer2011541 reads

Thanks!
I think I have good feedback to make a decision.

... lol if anything I get people sending pics without my asking so a little funny to see some guys go HELL NO. I don't require a pic as part of screening (optional).

BadMotherfucker550 reads

What the fuck is she thinking?  Providers already have a lot of leverage over us with our personal info and shit.   No way in HELL I would give any more leverage than they already have. Fuck that shit

When a guy goes on a  date, his worst fear is that she will laugh at him.

When a girl goes on a date, she is worried about dying.

While I would never give a photo (but its moot if you know the name), I understand the perspective of the other side of the phone.

so if she has my name, the pics are just a step away. No way for me to change that, except to avoid giving out my last name or mentioning anything about what I've done in my life. Makes for boring conversation. Therefore, I don't overly worry about it.

GaGambler396 reads

I would still NEVER send a picture of myself for "screening" purposes, nor will I ever fill out one of those insipid screening forms.

as a wise man said once

"I will beg for pussy and I will pay for pussy, but I will NEVER beg to pay for pussy"

Jumping through these endless hoops for hookers is akin to "begging to pay for pussy" and I flat out refuse to do so.

I dunno, after reading some of the comments here, maybe I should be more careful, but I have often sent my picture to providers as part my introductory email.  They've never asked for a picture, but several providers have responded that they really appreciated that I included it.

And not to toot my horn or anything, but I once included my picture in an email to a very high-end, somewhat well known VIP provider ($1,000 + / hour).  I told her that I probably couldn't afford the $1,000 / hour rate, but that I was a bid fan of hers and that I would like to see her someday.  Anyways, she responded immediately, told me she appreciated my email and liked my picture, and offered me a session at less than half her normal rate.

!!!!!537 reads

Which body part?

So I can be turned on and slightly creeped out at the same.  Interesting combination.

Jessie

adventurer2011521 reads

Are you serious?
I thought it was just us men who would get turned on by what we see.  

Regards

Oh nooo you made me laugh out loud!! HaHa. Well I read it at first, the heading and thought to myself NO WAY. But when you said turned on and creeped out at the same time .... You said it perfectly.  

 Dick pics are tricky things.

I use to cruise Casual Encounter just for the dick pics.  Yes, women can get turned on by what they see.  I love looking at pussy photos even though I am not bisexual, or maybe I am and I don't know it.  I get a vicarious thrill out of being that bold to show a spread shot, holes gaping.  However, if you are going to send me a pics, don't just send me a pic of your face send one of your dick too...please.   Oh you better have been screened first, otherwise that gets into the tricky dicky thing.

Jessie

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