Especially if the appointment wasn't an outlier but a truer representation of service provided.
Recently we had a brand new provider in the DC area who got 9/9's right out of the box. Turns out she was asking for the scores to be posted. When she was called on it in reviews, she went to asking for 10/10's. nothing wrong with asking, but per TER guidelines she wasn't eligible for some of the scores she was getting. Also, some of the guys were being verrrry generous with that second nine. Just because a provider ticks all the boxes it doesn't mean she's actually earning that score. It does a disservice to the board and the providers who actually work hard to get top makes. We're here to help each other. And if you think your experience is what people should expect when they visit, they say so. If your experience closely matches other reviews then I think the savvy client can read what is there and make that conclusion without piling on.So do I more of a responsibility to report my experience for my fellow hobbiest, or more of a response ility to protect her feelings and not post a review?
I recently had a meeting with a young lady, that did not go as expected. Now I can't decide if I should post a review. Ithat she read her reviews, so I dont want to hurt her feelings, but at the same time I am not about to pretend that the appointment went better than it did either.
So do I more of a responsibility to report my experience for my fellow hobbiest, or more of a response ility to protect her feelings and not post a review?
And in my value system, I don't think you are under any obligation to report anything to anyone. You can keep the whole thing to yourself. And certainly you should not write a review, if it was discussed beforehand, and you agreed not to post anything.
However, if you do decide to write the review, you are doing disservice to your fellow mongers and in a way to the provider herself, by not reporting what the truth it. The truth, as it relates to the appointments, not personal things mind you, needs to be told should you decide to pick that pen and write the review.
I typically don't worry about hurting anyone's feelings when writing reviews, but that's just me.
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Some things are subjective (chemistry is one of them) as well as looks.. If it is something related to safety, bait and switch, old pictures, or something deceiving to what she advertises, I would say write the review.. Other than that, I would say writing derogatory things about providers such as "I didn't like what she was wearing, too much makeup, she looked tired" are a double edged sword, unnecessary and give us a bad taste about the person. We are humans and nobody is perfect, most of us try our very best to please everyone but sometimes that is not possible..
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Write the review. She will never learn to do better otherwise not to mention other mongers should have that info. I recently saw a girl with 24 reviews. If more than exactly one of those 24 guys would have told the truth maybe I wouldn't have wasted time and money seeing her. And before you think opinions vary and stuff, this was horror movie bad, not an off day I'm talking about.
Write the review shane
Writing honest reviews has benefits but has risks.. One should weigh both before writing anything...
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The purpose of this review site is to provide information to other end users so they can make an informed decision. Think of it from the other perspective. Would you want to know the information before seeing that provider? If so I would submit the review.
Even though I am a provider, and saying this may reflect me negatively in the future, I am a very genuine and sincere person who believes in factual representation of a situation.
When looking up restaurants or nail salons on a review site, I want to read the negative reviews.
* To challenge what the other person wrote and see if I can get better results/experiences
* To know who/what to potentially avoid asking for/ordering
* To have a general idea of what to expect from the service/establishment
Ignorance is not bliss.
I am actually a little offended that people rate me as a 9 for attractiveness.
Makes my reviews seem fake, imho.
Blargh. 
However, if you decide to, you need to keep to the facts. Do NOT embellish, do NOT speculate, etc.
If the young lady did or said something wrong, out of line, etc., you will alert the entire community by writing the review.
Just realize that she may not be aware that you were not satisfied. Have you discussed this with her yet? If you were polite and being a gentleman, she might have taken that as a sign of acceptance.
Hard to say and too many unanswered questions but the bottom line is, if you decide to write a less than stellar review (and it is YOUR choice), do so with care. Choose your words carefully and keep to the facts and you should be fine.
Personally you aren't under any obligation to anyone here. If you are upset with the appointment because you just didn't click with the girl, that happens. If it was something more maybe you should tell her, or maybe you should of brought it up to her during the appt? Maybe if you spoke up while with her if it was something simple, you could of made the appt better.
Reviews are good in that they help the guys out and the girls out. But sometimes the way they are written by some show a lack of care? Meaning I have read reviews and aside from the facts comments were made that ended up just making the reviewer look bad. In cases like that providers will choose against seeing the client.
Now if you saw the girl and it wasn't the girl in the pics for example or she upselled you, I guess that's worth mentioning. But if you aren't sure about writing the review, then don't. If you are worried about hurting her feelings then don't post a review. If you do post it, will it make anything better for you? Will it benefit you?
Some things to definitely think about.
Have a nice weekend!!
Someone is going to write something honest. Of course, most girls will want the best possible review so asking the girls would be pointless unless it's a girl who has a true sense of reality. If all guys were covering stuff up for the girl, what's the point of these reviews? It'll turn more into a useless and fictitious erotica with inflated scoring. It is already suffering from that. On the other hand, there's no need to be cruel if you care about the girl that much. You don't need to write a review unless you want others to know that she's a turn off.
Especially if the appointment wasn't an outlier but a truer representation of service provided.
Recently we had a brand new provider in the DC area who got 9/9's right out of the box. Turns out she was asking for the scores to be posted. When she was called on it in reviews, she went to asking for 10/10's. nothing wrong with asking, but per TER guidelines she wasn't eligible for some of the scores she was getting. Also, some of the guys were being verrrry generous with that second nine. Just because a provider ticks all the boxes it doesn't mean she's actually earning that score. It does a disservice to the board and the providers who actually work hard to get top makes.
We're here to help each other. And if you think your experience is what people should expect when they visit, they say so. If your experience closely matches other reviews then I think the savvy client can read what is there and make that conclusion without piling on.
So do I more of a responsibility to report my experience for my fellow hobbiest, or more of a response ility to protect her feelings and not post a review?
not every one clicks with everyone. I'd say do you best to be honest without trying to hurt her feelings. This will help readers and she can assess should she change her ways or was it the two of you just did not click.. With subsequent reviews showing a trend all can judge..