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Re: What a girl wants...
CindySpice See my TER Reviews 1386 reads
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Maybe civics say they like rough and rugged cause then they can have an excuse for NO sex.;-)

I like great hygiene , no hair on balls , soft and metrosexul ............big turn on as an escort and in my private life ........but I also love the SEX in both lives ;-)..............well if I had a private life.

Y'all know those sections you read on most providers' sites?  You know, the ones where a lady says her turn-ons are: a gentleman, someone well-groomed/shaven, with manners & what not?  And her turn-offs are dudes who are rude, unhygenic, etc?

I was wondering how true this is, or if it's more hobby jargon than anything else.  You know, code lingo telling prospective clients "hint-hint.....so long as you brush your teeth, wash your ass, and act nice.....you're fine by me".

I just find it interesting, cuz the vast majority of civvie women I've come across have been the exact opposites (luv the rough/rugged "bad boy" types [who sometimes even treat them like el crappo] and think that gents are "soft" or "metrosexual").  If what the ladies say on their sites is "really real".....then maybe I should consider dating a provider.  Sure sounds like she'd be easier to please and keep happy!  :-D

But no, seriously, I'm curious.  Doesn't make a difference....as I'll always be polite & hygenic upon meeting a provider.....just sheer curiosity about those "turn-ons" and "turn-offs".


-- Modified on 7/10/2007 6:29:05 PM

Just putting yourself in her shoes for a minute I think it is accurate to say a turn off is a smelly guy who hasn't shaved.  In order for the encounter to have a maximum chance of success "brush your teeth, wash your ass" seems like the bare minimum a lady would request.  I'm not sure that qualifies as an actual turn on, but avoiding turn offs will certainly help things along...IMHO.

You'd be amazed at how many guys show up unclean, unbrushed, and smelly/dirty down there!

Some have left skidmarks on sheets, poo on washclothes, on the floor, in bathtubs, etc.

Nevermind the smegma/ dragon breath/ what is that? issues.

That's why those turn-ons and turn-offs exist.

A guy can be rough/rugged and still be clean.  Turning up unclean just shows a lack of respect for the provider and a lack of self-respect.

Is a stinky, dirty, unshaved guy expecting the same from his provider?  

Really, it's just good common sense if you really want to have a good time.

Swim

I too noticed for years that I kept getting passed by on the civie dating circuit for the rough and crude types.  They seemed to have a certain animal magnetism that I lacked, even though I surpassed them in the manners and civility departments.

A few women with whom I became close Platonic friends with admitted as much.

However, in the escort world, just the opposite rules apply.

Perhaps this is the crux of the difference between the civie world and the escort world.  In any case, I do now know which world I like better and in fact, have decided to date an escort and I'm loving every minute of it.

Maybe civics say they like rough and rugged cause then they can have an excuse for NO sex.;-)

I like great hygiene , no hair on balls , soft and metrosexul ............big turn on as an escort and in my private life ........but I also love the SEX in both lives ;-)..............well if I had a private life.

Hmmm... this might have been discussed in the past, do providers have any consistent preference whether guys "parts" are shaved or not?

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