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Speaking of fantasy...

Leave it to Master Zen to both class it up and take it up a notch!  That tantra chair has very interesting possibilities.  I also liked the video.

Tantra chairs, sex swings, St. Andrews Crosses, massage/milking tables, kinky toys, bondage gear, ticklebots, spanking benches, orgasmatrons, etc. will most definitely set you apart in this business.  Some of those things are novelties (and some I just made up, lol) and will attract gents that want to experience something new or different.  But what I like about these niche sexual devices is 1) it shows that you are open minded and willing to try new things and 2) you are committed enough to your craft to invest in them to give your clients a top notch experience.  That is cool.

But my original point remains.  Trying a new novelty may get us gents to drop by to see you but it will be outstanding attitude (and performance) that will keep us coming back.

As usual, I probably provided too much info but it seems like you got my message.  Yes, the incall is important but the overall experience is what is most important.  What makes outstanding courtesans outstanding is their attitude.  The attitude that they are going to do everything within their power to show you an amazing time - to fulfill your fantasy.  And having a nice (upscale) incall is only one aspect of the overall experience.  But a very important one.  And it was thoughtful (and savvy) of you to ask for our opinions.

If you want to get a tantra chair, I say so much the better to get a leg up (heh) on the competition.  Anything you can do to set yourself apart in this market can be a good thing.  And if you follow that up with great attitude and exceptional service then you will certainly be at the top of every gent's list.

In the meantime I'll keep watching that video in the hopes of someday trying out some of those moves.  ;-)
 
Posted By: alyssaxanderson
I was thinking along the lines of what Electron said - this is your fantasy, and most of you probably don't fantasize about a dark hole of an apartment in the hood with bare bones furnishings.  Well, maybe you do, also fine.  I'm quite a chameleon.  ;)  
   
 I like that most of you seem to appreciate the smaller things, all the little touches that add something to a visit.  I like the idea of being able to pour a drink for you in the kitchen while you shower, having a fully stocked restroom so you're not wishing for a particular item, and I definitely like the idea of a sex chair.  I've got to visit that thought, seriously.  I need that.  

And not just area, but the entirety of the apartment.  Obviously central location, ease of access are important factors.  But how much does the interior of the apartment matter?  Do you guys feel more comfortable in an apartment that looks warmer and cozier, or do these things go mostly unnoticed?

I decided on re-entering the arena after a few years away, and am spending the next few days updating my new Buckhead location.  Just wanted to get some thoughts from the gentleman on the things that matter to them concerning an incall atmosphere.  Anyone who knows me, know I aim to please. ;)

You are correct that being able to get to and find the place.  As well as parking are important.  That it is a safe location.  I don't want to have to worry about my car when I am inside.  

The first thing we are going to notice when you open the door is you.  So I would say it is very important to have current pictures, etc. published.

As far as the interior cleanliness is important.  It should be comfortable and not look like it was purchased at Goodwill.  The apartment should also not consist of simply a bed.

Beyond that I am not sure it really matters.  A nicer interior is going to be more pleasant but when it comes down to it we are there for you not the apartment.

After a couple years in the business prior, I definitely know the importance of accurate photos.  

I've worked mostly in upscale hotels and only had one incall apartment before a few years ago, so I'm just curious if guys notice if we take the extra steps to make it a little bit luxurious.  Or maybe that's a woman thing.  ;

I like a nice place.  I think it sets the mood and the standard to expect.  A high end girl in a high end location will keep me coming back.

A high end girl in a dump is still fun :) but just not tell same.

You and I met a long long time ago and you were out of the world hot.  I had a great time and cannot remember what the apartment looked like:)

Hope that helps

yes its important to have easy access and really as long as the bathroom doesn't require a shave
and the bedding is "clean" and the room doesn't smell like smoke or micky D's it good.

Do I prefer a 4 star hotel or a nice apartment ? sure but I'm there for the woman.

My review of Alyssa remains a favorite.

Come show me another good time.  Bedding will be clean and it'll smell like a meadow in here.

And I ALWAYS smell like flowers. ;)

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As long as you get those two done- I am OK.  And even that isn't very important...

I recommend that you decorate it any way that makes you feel better.  You feeling better about your workplace environment should help you better serve your clients-- and customer service is what it is all about!

Ok, you opened up the suggestion box - so here goes...

Incall location is important but honestly anything north of downtown would probably be ok.  Buckhead, Marietta, Sandy Springs, and Perimeter Mall all seem very popular locations.

Gated, safe, available, free parking is a plus.  Nosy neighbors or people just hanging around are a minus.  Safety and discretion are always key factors to consider.

As far as interior, I have several thoughts - they are just my opinion so take it for what it's worth.  A clean and uncluttered incall is important.  Yes, we come to see you but remember you need to deliver a top notch overall experience if you want to hook some regulars. You don't get a second chance to make a first impression.  As far as decor - I prefer either a romantic or relaxing (spa like) atmosphere.

A nice comfortable bed (obviously), but also a chair or sofa is a great alternative to sit and get to know each other.  A mirror by the bed is also a nice touch (guys are visual creatures after all).

I would love all incalls to have some place for us gents to hang our clothes.  Ladies love to cater to "upscale" gentlemen then they expect us to throw our nice clothes on the floor.  ;-)

In the bathroom, please have plenty of towels and unscented body soap.  There's nothing more frustrating than having to choose either smelling like rose covered lilacs with a side helping of lavender mint or Axe body wash.  I don't want to be a girly girl or a manly man.  I just want to be fresh and clean and me.  Not to mention I'm allergic to cheap scents.  Please don't get me on my Axe body wash soapbox (get it?  soapbox) - nobody wants that.

Just a clean bathroom, fresh towels, and some unscented soap would be very much appreciated.  And a warm washcloth afterwards is also a nice touch.  Cold wet wipes aren't what us "upscale" gents are looking for.  :-)

Candles, tv or music can be nice but music is a whole thread unto itself.  I would suggest you ask your gent if he has a preference first.  But either way it's probably best if you keep it at a low volume as mood music.  You don't want to drown out conversation.

And my personal thing is please just turn off your phone.  Looking at it or playing with it is a huge mood killer.  Even hearing it vibrate away on the nightstand is distracting.

I also think it is a very nice touch that ladies stay undressed until us gents leave.  I saw a top rated provider several years back who (as I got out of the shower and getting dressed to leave) was sitting on the edge of the bed fully clothed, texting away on her phone.  I never saw her again and was quite surprised that she got to be a top ranked provider.

Ladies - remember, this is our fantasy.  Please make it feel like one.  I can't stress that strongly enough.  If you want us gents to keep coming back as regulars do everything you can to make it an unforgettable experience.

Welcome, it says very nice things about you that you are asking our opinion.  Kudos.  And I wish you the best of luck.

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Not a long walk from parking to the door and no steps/stairs.  

I communicated with you some a while back when you were helping another lady. You are such a sweetheart to deal with. Always hoped you would return. Hope to see you soon!!

Welcome back beautiful!! Can't wait to get re-acquainted.

close by, for sure. Enough people traffic to allow us to remain unobtrusive.  

Interior... hard to add much to what has already been said. Clean and uncluttered are key. Clean bathroom and towels. Smoke or pet smells are definitely a turn-off for many.

I don't need luxurious. Comfortable, in a spa-like way is great. Some background mood music for sure. I'm not a fan of overly dim lighting or too many candles.  

I often like to bring a bottle of wine or the like, so a fridge and some glasses are nice.  

Definitely not just a bed! A good sofa and chair that are sturdy enough for some play, a strategically placed mirror or two... really, really good.

I'm guessing some might want to watch some porn with you (not my thing, but it seems to be mentioned from time to time) so a TV for that, possibly.  

If you like toy play, maybe have one or two faves in sight to pique our interest and keep things moving without a break to search through drawers and luggage?

If you want to add something really fun and unique, maybe a swing or one of these awesome guys:

http://www.tantrachair.com/works/#video_235

for sex chairs and the like.  Following links to all sorts of other places, and now I'll just die if I don't under under-the-mattress ties and a Tantra chair.  

Sturdy sofa, sturdy arm chair - check.  Oh, the things that could happen.

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But regardless of all that -  if you can do the forward split position in that video.... the rest of it is really not all that important.

PS - You can find the sex chair locally at the Liberator Factory Store near Doraville...  Highly worth the visit.

I have quite a collection of fun things from Liberator :D They are friendly but give you your space while shopping. Always a good experience.

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The black label Esse might be the best piece of furniture I've ever sat in. Oh wait a minute I really wasn't sitting and it

Posted By: Meena Valero
I have quite a collection of fun things from Liberator :D They are friendly but give you your space while shopping. Always a good experience.

-- Modified on 7/9/2015 8:35:49 PM

Do they still make the Esse?  I would LOVE to have one!  :)
Hugs and kisses
TL

I was thinking along the lines of what Electron said - this is your fantasy, and most of you probably don't fantasize about a dark hole of an apartment in the hood with bare bones furnishings.  Well, maybe you do, also fine.  I'm quite a chameleon.  ;)

I like that most of you seem to appreciate the smaller things, all the little touches that add something to a visit.  I like the idea of being able to pour a drink for you in the kitchen while you shower, having a fully stocked restroom so you're not wishing for a particular item, and I definitely like the idea of a sex chair.  I've got to visit that thought, seriously.  I need that.

Speaking of fantasy...

Leave it to Master Zen to both class it up and take it up a notch!  That tantra chair has very interesting possibilities.  I also liked the video.

Tantra chairs, sex swings, St. Andrews Crosses, massage/milking tables, kinky toys, bondage gear, ticklebots, spanking benches, orgasmatrons, etc. will most definitely set you apart in this business.  Some of those things are novelties (and some I just made up, lol) and will attract gents that want to experience something new or different.  But what I like about these niche sexual devices is 1) it shows that you are open minded and willing to try new things and 2) you are committed enough to your craft to invest in them to give your clients a top notch experience.  That is cool.

But my original point remains.  Trying a new novelty may get us gents to drop by to see you but it will be outstanding attitude (and performance) that will keep us coming back.

As usual, I probably provided too much info but it seems like you got my message.  Yes, the incall is important but the overall experience is what is most important.  What makes outstanding courtesans outstanding is their attitude.  The attitude that they are going to do everything within their power to show you an amazing time - to fulfill your fantasy.  And having a nice (upscale) incall is only one aspect of the overall experience.  But a very important one.  And it was thoughtful (and savvy) of you to ask for our opinions.

If you want to get a tantra chair, I say so much the better to get a leg up (heh) on the competition.  Anything you can do to set yourself apart in this market can be a good thing.  And if you follow that up with great attitude and exceptional service then you will certainly be at the top of every gent's list.

In the meantime I'll keep watching that video in the hopes of someday trying out some of those moves.  ;-)
 

Posted By: alyssaxanderson
I was thinking along the lines of what Electron said - this is your fantasy, and most of you probably don't fantasize about a dark hole of an apartment in the hood with bare bones furnishings.  Well, maybe you do, also fine.  I'm quite a chameleon.  ;)  
   
 I like that most of you seem to appreciate the smaller things, all the little touches that add something to a visit.  I like the idea of being able to pour a drink for you in the kitchen while you shower, having a fully stocked restroom so you're not wishing for a particular item, and I definitely like the idea of a sex chair.  I've got to visit that thought, seriously.  I need that.  

Good to see you back :) if you want to shoot me a pm I can tell you where to get some fabulous furniture and supplies ;)  
Hugs and kisses
TL

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