First time I've ever seen a provider throw up a PSA under a "looking for" post about the posters "reviews."

FYI, client's cannot post something like you just did under the ad board section as it is considered against the rules.

BTW, I have seen you in the past, so try not to flame to hard.

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I don't know the guy, but did you actually look at the other reviews and averages of the ladies he's seen before issuing your "warning"? In the following list the first pair is what he gave and the second is the provider's averages.

1. 6/7  Looks 6 / Performance 7
2. 6/8  Looks 6.3 / Performance 7.7
3. 7/7  Looks 6.55 / Performance 6.64
4. 5/5  Looks 6.23 / Performance 6.27
5. 6/8  Looks 7.44 / Performance 8.28
6. 7/8  Looks 7.45 / Performance 7.68
7. 9/9  Looks 8.75 / Performance 8.56
8. 7/7  Looks 8.29 / Performance 8.58

Other than number 8 in the list, which was his first review, and I guess number 4, these don't look horribly out of line with the ladies' other scores. Looking at it using some simplistic averaging, you see that the average looks score he gave is 6.6 while the average of the looks scores for the ladies he reviewed is 6.3, and the average performance score he gave is 7.4 while the average of the performance scores for the ladies he reviewed is 7.6. I can't figure out why this warrants a Public Service Announcement warning, it really doesn't look unreasonable. Yeah, he doesn't give out a lot of high scores, he just tends to give pretty average scores.  

Did you have some sort of bad interaction with him? You seem pretty worked up about it.

First of all, my review history here on TER in no way is anyway near my total history, its cool you think you know me, but you dont know jack.  I come to TER rarely.  

Lets talk about the reasons a guy writes a review, in no particular order...

1.  To relive the moment for himself.  Not something I do.
2.  To gain VIP access to read other reviews.  Yep I do that.
3.  To inform other guys about either positive or negative aspects about a provider.  Yep I do that to.
4.  To do a newer lady a favor by giving her positive press.  Yep I've also done that.

Take MsMocha for example, she has history everywhere and tons of positive reviews.  If I saw her tonight and had a very similar experience to what has already been posted about her numerous times, then the only reason for me to write a review of the session on TER would be to gain 14 days of VIP access.  However, if I saw her tonight and had either a much more or much less favorable time with her than her previous reviews indicate, then I would have a second reason to post a review, to make other guys aware of that either good or bad info.  Since I dont review here often, I typically choose to do a review that accomplishes 2 things rather than just one.  Call it my good deed for the day.  Since I dont often see newbies, if I am doing a review here and looking to not only gain VIP access but repay the favor countless guys have done before me and provide the hobbyist community with some intel, then I am going to pick a lady to review who I have some insight on that hasnt been mentioned before here.  And yes sometimes that can be negative intel.  Lets face it, 70%+ of the reviews here or anywhere else are Penthouse Forum fantasy BS.  Guys are afraid to post an honest review for exactly the reason I am sitting here typing this novel now.  If you post a negative review, chances are a lady is going to bash you for it.

Also, due to TERs guidelines I cannot review every girl I see.  I can only review a girl with a personal website or a girl advertising on P411 or BP.  I cant do a review of a girl who is active and well known if she doesnt have an additional online presence.  That limits who I can and cannot review here.

Next lets discuss TER's review guidelines.  And I quote -  

"In order to keep our performance ratings consistent, we set up the following system: An escort provider is only eligible to earn up to a 7, unless she is willing to perform one or some of the following during a session: Kisses With Tongue, Bare-Back Blow Job, Really Bi, and Anal Sex, or More than One Guy. For each of these services that are offered, her potential max score is raised by one point, with 10 as an absolute maximum.

This does not mean she earns extra points for offering the service(s); just that she is now eligible for a higher score. Her maximum eligible score is based on what is offered, not what is performed during your session with her. You may or may not be interested in the “extra” services she offers, but the fact she offers them makes her eligible for the higher score.

If your review rates a provider higher than her maximum score, the score will be adjusted down to her maximum."

Therefore considering I dont care if she's bi, I'm not really into anal and I dont bring other guys on appointments with me, the MAXIMUM score I can give a lady is an 8, or a 9 if we DFK.  Thats the MAXIMUM, because I dont do a Q&A session with ladies I see about services I'm not interested in  Perhaps you would like me to carry a little survey to my dates and ask them to fill it out so I know the highest score they are eligible for?.  "Excuse me Miss Provider, while I am freshening up, could you please fill out this brief survey so I know the maximum performance score you are eligible for on TER"  She would either laugh me out of the room, or throw my sorry ass out.  So my giving a lady an 8 or a rare 9 (if we tongue kiss) is really my giving her a 10 because thats the highest I am allowed to give her.  By using math, one can deduce that my giving a lady a performance score of a 6 is more like giving her an 8.  I would direct you to my reviews of Samia, whos performance I rated a 9 and Desiree, whos performance I rated an 8.  In both cases those were the MAXIMUM scores I could give them under TERs guidelines based on my time with them.  Read both reviews, as far as performance goes, they are about as glowing a recommendation as it gets.  Yet I cannot rate them a 10 because of TERs guidelines and I assure you, BOTH of their performances were absolute 10's in my book.
   

 
Finally lets discuss expectations and reality.  If I see a girl whose rate is $300/hr+, I expect to receive an 8 or better in performance.  Granted everyone has a bad day and people dont always click, but that is the expectation in that price range.  So if you are charging $300/hr+ you had better have a file full of reviews with 8 or better.  Not every girl I see is a $300/hr+ girl.  If you notice the rate portion of my reviews you will see I have reviews for $200/hr girls,  $300/hr girls, $350, $150, etc..  When I see a $200/hr girl, I go in expecting a 6 for performance, 7 tops.  Thats one of the reasons why she's charging $200 and not $300+.  Thats not scoring BADLY, that is scoring in REALITY.  What percentage of girls do you really think actually earn 8+ scores on their appointments on a regular basis???  I can tell you that number is a lot closer to 50% than it is 100%.  Again, thats not scoring BADLY, that is scoring in REALITY.  

 
I hope you now better understand TERs review system and why so few guys write HONEST reviews anymore.

And just to make a point, I TRIED to give Samia a performance score of 10 and here is the message I got from TER:

"Thank you for submitting a review. Unfortunately we couldn't approve it, because according our policy, her performance score according her profile ads up only to a 9, and your score is 10."

I couldn't figure out why you reacted so strongly, it just didn't make sense. His reviews just aren't outside the other scores being given for the ladies he's seen, but then I reread your response to my post (you know, the one where you call me an ass hat for stating the facts of the scores involved), looked at your website and your reviews, and it hit me. You received a couple of 7s a year ago and it really pissed you off.

In your reply to me you state "A decent woman might see him and get a 5,6, 7 where it isnt warranted"; but what's your basis for saying any of the scores he's given aren't warranted? The provider he gave the 5/5 has other 5s, a couple of 4s, a 3 and even a 2. I don't know the lady, I'm not passing judgement on her, I'm just saying his review is not a single low data point among a list of otherwise stellar scores. Likewise the 6s he's given are not unique when you look at the other scores for those ladies. And the lady he gave the 7/7 to only has a couple of reviews that are higher, she has a couple of reviews that are basically equivalent to his score and all the other reviews are lower than his score.

I think it's telling that you make the statement that your purpose is to "warn other women about a guy who is judging on his warped terms", followed up with "I dont worry about that since I have a following and haven't had a review in almost a year." I think this tells us what's really behind your rant. Last April you got your first 7s in several years, and after that you have no more reviews. Are you now asking clients to not submit reviews? I don't know why else reviews would just stop otherwise if you are still seeing clients.  

Asking all clients not to review is certainly better than pushing and threatening clients to only give high reviews, I'll give you that. But its still pretty disingenuous if what you are doing is trying to hide the fact that you're afraid your scores might be slipping a little as you get older. Don't get me wrong, I love mature providers. I almost exclusively see MILFS and what I suspect might be a few GILFS. I personally think that's where the best talent is, at least the best fit for me. And I think their beauty transcends any shallow, physical comparison with a 20 year old. But I think it worries you when even an 8 review for looks contains what I suspect you take as a backhanded compliment: "doesn’t look anywhere near the age of 40 as she claims." Ouch, he really liked your looks but isn't completely convinced you're not older than you claim to be. If you're really obsessed with these things, that's got to sting. And your website has a number of statements like "I’m in my 40’s with an age defying face and body.  My face is very beautiful.  I have heard that a million times over the years and simply state it as fact."

So you see the OPs posting and look at the scores he's given without looking at how they compare to the other scores given to those ladies, come to the conclusion that the scores he gives are unwarranted and decide that you need to send out a warning to all the other providers out there. Wow, talk about an unwarranted judgement

Firstly, OhCharlie is spot-on.  Girls who are in the body-parts rental business have the absolute right to decide what part of their bodies are for rent and under what circumstances.  If they want to limit their services, they are free to do so and if it does not get them above the 7 level of services, it does not make them an outcast.  Much the same with the guys.  While I sometimes break my own rule, I have a floor of 30 years old - I like 40 better but, they are hard to come by.  There are some definitional issues with the rating system but, it is what it is.  

The train wreck that Rayen started is the reason I don't take sides in matters such as this: however, I do know which side I am on.  If a guy is blackballed for giving a 6 or 7, what is the point of the review system.

I don't write many reviews nor post for a couple of reasons: I have slowed down and I don't like getting beat-up on the boards.  The dangers notwithstanding, here goes.

Regarding appearance, most of the 9s, i.e. "Model Material" are not in fact "Model Material".  Most models are 5'9"+ and 115 lbs+/-.  Kate Upton at 5"10" and 134 lbs is borderline "over-weight" and her tits are too big for the modeling world but, the camera treats her so well in terms of being able to pump out sexuality that she can be borderline over-weight, have a nice pair and still get lots of modeling work.  In short, if, for example, you are 5"7 and 130 lbs with a a B+ cup...you don't make the cut for in the modeling world.   As for 10s? Some guys are serial 10-givers, which makes me wonder if how many lifetimes they have had....how can you have more than than one "once in a lifetime"?  The 7s?  Absolutely nothing wrong with a 7.  Most of my repeats are 6/7s.  Yeah, some are up a notch because I did not want to damage their reputation.  When I look at a review, I usually give it a mild haircut.

Performance?  If certain services such as DFK, BBBJ or bi services are important to a guy and he only sees women who provide those services, the ratings are likely to be above 7.  I have given a couple of 9s but, that was very generous.  Since I do not do drugs, drink before a session and am not delusional, I was always aware that it was a service.  OhCharlie is absolutely right (IMHO), the 7s performers are not "shitty" girls, they just choose to limit their menus.  OhCharlie has an extensive menu so; there is a lot of opportunity to get high reviews.  However, if a woman did not want to provide CIM or other services that are important to the customer, which is her prerogative, a 7 may be appropriate....it does beg the question: if she is reviewed and the service that is important to the customer is not in the profile, what is he doing there?!

Anyway, that is my 2¢...and no, no one has to defend their 9s and 10s.  The rating system is what it is.