I am new to this hobby and a tad nervous. If I get busted my life is over. Not sure if I want to risk it.

but here is the question:

How do I know she is not a cop? She is an independent. She is on a few review websites (including this one). Only has reviews from about 5 people in the last 2 months. (all good)
I haven't set up a time with her yet.  (try to do that now)

First, her website has naked pictures of her. I thought I read somewhere in this board that if you see the provider naked on her website it means she is not a cop. Is that true?

And if she isn't a cop can she be a part of a sting if she was busted by a cop. (like she would get a lighter sentence if she helped the cops out by busting me)

If she is a cop or working with cops at what point can they bust me? She works out of her apt. If I show up can I get busted. If she is naked and I am naked am a past the danger zone.  What are the clues that she is cop? What can I do to prove to her I am not a cop?

Thanks

Trey