Simple question- Has anyone fallen in love with their ATF?
New potential hire fall in love with her first client she was like tell him i would love to see him again and maybe a few times a month i had to break it to her that hes just notthat into you just likes to hit it and quit it (the envelope) was so u can leave lol
That's why I have to have more than one ATF.
Is to know what true LOVE is. Once that is clear, it's easy to seperate infatuation, lust, loneliness, friendship, etc. from the real thing. Confusion of these emotions can lead to a lot of pain, sadness, anger...bad stuff. This hobby is best played by mature personalities who can enjoy intimacy with honesty and realistic expectations.
Good thread, OP!
TONY
Over the many years I've been in the hobby I suppose I have done so several times. But reality always wins out and at best I see them a couple times and then they move on. In most cases it gets started with knowing her real name and then starting to learn about the circumstances of her real life and that results in an intimacy beyond the purely physical.
Because I was getting too attracted to her. I knew the feelings were not going to be reciprocated. There was also the problem of telling the SO. 
It's funny that the 'ole in and out describes so much of what we do in this hobby. Sexually, going to and leaving locations.....even falling for a partner, which is best ended at the same time as the session ends.
I have had two or three that were so damn good at what they did and so damn sweet and hot that I liked it too much you know. But after enough visit to wear the new off it, I moved on...LOL.
Her claims of being into me, plus her stunning good looks, and the great sex, made me seriously consider trying to have a real relationship with her....but in the end she was really just looking for a sugar daddy. And she found one, it just wasn't me. Really turned me off to the hobby for a while.
fall as you wish
One and done, hit it and quit it; with an occasional repeat, if she is a seriously depraved woman.
I love what they do, but I don't know shit about them.
What's the saying? "We like our friends for their good qualities, but we love them for their bad qualities." I don't know enough about them to care either way. I try to keep it to 5-10 min of small talk and focus on the sex, the room or the weather. And I have to tell you, the ladies like it that way.
We're not there to be friends (you don't have to buy your friends), we're there to be friendly.
What's love but a second hand emotion?...lol! Good song!
It takes more than spending an hour or two at a time with a woman before I will fall in love. When I was younger I thought I was falling in love but it was really lust. I have to know more about a woman to really fall for her.
.......I'm quickly awoken from my love struck stupor. The envelope keeps things real and reminds me this is simply a business transaction, nothing more nothing less.
I have had more than a few men fall in love with me, all with completely different results. The first one took me out of the business and we were together for four wonderful years and we're still friends twenty years later. A few of them viewed it as trouble for themselves and their current situations and cut off the friendship completely except for an occasional birthday card or valentine's wish. I have two right now in love with me. I'm totally smitten with one. Thank God he lives far away. The other is totally delusional. He has no idea who I am. He hears what he wants to hear and is blind to anything that doesn't fit his fiction. If you would like to have a private conversation about it, I would be open. Love is a wonderful thing. Lillian