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I noticed alot of African American providers and Caucasion providers say race is no issue to them and they service all. Do you think that most really prefer to stay within their own race or does it create even more interest or enjoyment that someone of a different race prefers to be with them. In other words, do they really have force themselves to make it through
the hour when possibly they learn the client may not be the same race as their own?
People are people and variety is very nice. Sounds like you are the one with a problem.
Providers do not think with one mind.
They are as varied in their thoughts/likes/dislikes as the rest of the population.
Your question makes me wonder about your own personal prejudices and pre-conceptions.
What providers prefer is a well mannered client who arrives on time, is clean and places the donation in plain view without being asked for it. Treat the lady with respect and, if she is a true professional, she will show you a good time. That is her job.
I would agree with Bostonguy. I would think a provider would mind more if a client was rude, disrespectful or had poor hygiene.
Of course, everyone is different. I've seen ads, where providers state preference regarding race.
Speaking for myself, a beautiful woman is a beautiful woman. I don't care if she's white, black, asian, latina, etc.
My guess is that race is an issue for you, otherwise you wouldn't have asked such a question
I agree with Carrie on providers having veried thoughts on the issue as I have seen web sites that specify race then again with others it is not an issue.
Although I am not going to wonder about your personal predjudices as I do not know what your experience has been, maybe the question came about because you were rejected because of the issue or you may have just come across one of those web sites and that triggered the question.
If that was the case just move on as there are a lot of others that it is not an issue with.
Personally I would rather have them post it on their web site if it is an issue with them rather than have them use their right to turn down a requested visit without an explanation or to find out it is an issue upon arrival for the visit.
when I sought out providers who were African-American because it seemed so exotic.
However, over time, I've found that this is no longer an inducement.
Now I find that I click with the providers who want to provide a close personal encounter and enjoy those meetings, be they caucasian or otherwise.
I could care less on the lady that I see. If she's beautiful she could be any color. I like them all.
I apologize to you, Bill, on behalf of all the cretins here on TER. You asked a fair question. Here are the answers that I know to be true:
1. All white women, providers and civvies alike, prefer to be with black men. They will say things to a white guy like, "oh, size doesn't matter" and "it's what you do with it that counts" but they don't mean it.
2. All black women prefer to be with white men because they pay more, and because it is over with much quicker.
3. Jewish women like cuban pool boys.
4. Asian women like british men because they are polite and don't move around much, and because they apologize after they cum.
and 5. Puerto Rican women, who fuck everybody with gusto, but prefer other puerto rican women.
I hope this answers your questions.
This is a legit question and actually was the subject of a couple of long posts a few weeks back. From the responses I've seen here, people got nothing out of it.
Statistically speaking it would be almost impossible for someone who is racist to be able to make any kind of living in the hobby. Sticking with one's own group is a surefire recipe for reduced income. I have heard of a few providers who do screen for race ahead of time, but I consider that a service - it saves you from wasting your time.
While it may comfort conservatives and liberals alike to think that racism is only limited to a few errant individuals, it is simply not the case. We live in a racist society but are afraid to deal with race, which is why I think so many people started criticizing the original poster.
Those of us are not white and receive bad service, in any industry, must always consider race as a possible factor. Of course, it's best to consider all possible explanations, and have some actual evidence, before coming to any conclusions.
Empirically speaking, the answer is no, I think the majority of providers are open-minded and will see people of any race. At the same time, I think it was wrong of the many responders to try to dismiss the question.
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