Do they assume that a 19-year old won't be any good in bed? Maybe, but I'm sure they've had a few 25+ year olds who aren't up to snuff either.
I once had a provider who told me she wouldn't go with anyone her son's age. It would be like doing his friends. Whether I agreed with her or not at least she gave a reason.
Instead of patronizing bullshit [good call Anna] how about a rationale?
BTW if you ever come to the US, please make NYC a scheduled stop.
Hey im just a 19 year old college kid...about to move out of Atlanta in two weeks and I had some free cash on hand to spend....is there an age limit for this hobby...18? and would a lot of providers go for a college kid? are they picky? i dont have any references obviously but i am kind of scared of LE...how common is it to get busted?
always serve and protect will go after someone committing a crime. Crime does not pay. Do you intend to break the law in this hobby? If you do, first befriend with some politically connected people so your crime would be pardoned later.
Seriously, try study hard and party harder in your school.
I can't speak for everyone, but I try to keep my gentlemen's ages at a certain minimum. I set my limit for 35 and up. Every once in awhile a late 20's to a 34 yo may sneak in, but they are the exception.
You're 19. Go hit on a coed. No, the result is not guaranteed, but live and learn. Fine tune your pick up lines and have fun.
...for the age limit? I could speculate but I'd rather hear it directly from a source.
Hey pretty lady ....how about you and me get some Strawberry Shortcake.
Thank you
and here I GO>>>>
Get a girlfriend...and come back in 10 yrs!
Happy 4th everyone!
BJ
But I am sure you will find provider anyway. most girls dont accept gents at least younger than 30.
I think warm suggestion from JismJ and LadyBJ is better idea. find a gf or hold a party with your school kids......
kittyasia is right:
I know a lot of providers who won't see gents younger than 30. I am one of them.
In my regular life, I never dated anyone my age. I felt more comfortable around older gentlemen than the younger ones.
19 is too young to be involved in the hobby. I suggest finding more productive ways of spending your money.
I agree, you should be using myspace to find a girlfriend your own age.
You're nineteen???
Bring it on baby!!! Damn I wish I was in the US...;o(
Ladies: each to their own, you have reasons for your choices but I'm fascinated with some of your patronising tones to this lovely sounding young man; he's not a kid and can spend his money on what he wants! Most of you don't seem to have UPPER age limits so your choice to be the result of your own insecurites. After all, older are men more grateful and thus easier to please. I've no idea why you'd otherwise deny a perky young thing!
My advice baby boy: choose a lady with NO hang ups for a really fun time!!!
x x x
I wish you were in the US too, Anna. You and Carrie.
Swim
I know you've stopped by before, but it was before I was the mod, so let me say WELCOME ABOARD! The contributions of ladies with your reputation always welcome here on the newbie board.
jazz32
Do they assume that a 19-year old won't be any good in bed? Maybe, but I'm sure they've had a few 25+ year olds who aren't up to snuff either.
I once had a provider who told me she wouldn't go with anyone her son's age. It would be like doing his friends. Whether I agreed with her or not at least she gave a reason.
Instead of patronizing bullshit [good call Anna] how about a rationale?
BTW if you ever come to the US, please make NYC a scheduled stop.
I was a horny as hell teenager once and I started to hobby when I was about 22.
Back then all there was, was street action and personal ads; I chose the later.
Age didn't come up then and it was law of the jungle time. Fortunately, I came through pretty unscathed.
Now we have the internet and TER. That's good, but can make things more restrictive, especially for horny teens such as yourself.
Here's my advice:
First, study the TER instruction manual from top to bottom.
Second, get VIP membership and review a list of providers in your area and find some whom you have an interest in.
third, write to those providers who DO NOT explicitly state that they have an age restriction and explain yourself. The more mature sounding you seem, the better your odds of hooking up with them. (Note: spelling and grammar do count!)
If and when you do hook up, you'll have a reference and that will be the key to your future hobbying.
I wish you good luck.
Hey thanks for a straight response....well i have a steady job and go to college...but the thing is...almost everyone i meet will say im at least 25...and more when i am unshaven....anyways...Im in atlanta for three more weeks or so...then ill move to Athens....so I was just trying to take advantage of all the fun here before my time in the city expires.
Go for it.
You've obviously put some thought into it (by researching & posting here). So take mrfisher's advice & be dilligent with your selection. Post any questions here & you'll be getting plenty of advice.
Good luck!!
Many providers will check id for new clients, myself included, and even if you look or act older, you need to be honest or risk losing your chance at a date. Best of luck,
XoXo,
Marea