Speaking of "I shit u not" category!
I know this is goofy/somewhat silly, but I sometimes find myself hesitating on what to refer to providers as in email correspondences. Once you use up their "stage" name a couple times you need something else. Providers liberally seem to use honey and sweety and darling and sugar in their emails. Is it okay to use those terms back plus babe, little minx, hotstuff etc.? Is that too familiar or strange? They also use huggs and kisses etc. as a salutation, I find thanks a little stale after that! LMAO
not sure what other girls like.
1st email from gent will be Hello Kitty, Dear Kitty, I always reply with Dear (first name of gent).
Only after our fisrt date, we call each other sugar candy sweetie etc (are we running a candy shop? ;-p)
In the 1st emails I dont feel like to be called too too hot names.
its really depends on you guys feeling about each other..
Happy Hunting
Seriously, how inappropriate could any subsequent name be when your stage name is Kitty? Do you have sisters named Snatch and Trim and Beaver and Gina? LOL Sorry, couldn't resist!
I, too, am wondering about this. If I have exchanged several emails, and have seen a provider a couple of times, is it ok to call her "sweetie", or some other familiar nickname? My style would probably be to ask her if it would be ok with her if I occasionally called her "sweetie" , or "sugar" or some other name like that. That's just me, though.
snookums
honey-bunny
poopsy (or poopsie)
snuggle-bunny
sweet patootie
huggy bear
schnookie puss
schmoopie (copywrite Seinfeld)
kissie poo
pumpkin pie
sugar bush
baby cakes
angel face
sweet-ums
sweet bazoo
Now don't complain about not having something fresh to call your best gal anymore.
8o)
Just make sure you don't combine those last two...
sweet-ums
sweet bazoo...
and call her sweet bazooms.
Unless you're sure she'd like it. ^_^
Speaking of "I shit u not" category!
If she is calling you honey, baby, etc, you do the same. If she's using your name, which I assume is the real one, use her real name.
Doing so shows that you've been paying attention to what she says and establishes a good rapport, a key for communication. When you're contacting a lady for the first time, write as if you've long known her and you're good friends.
A principle of psychology is when you are warm and sincere your positive energy affects others also and make them comfortable with you.
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