I really enjoy extended dates because it allows enough time to get to know each other better.
How do providers feel about getting requests for extended dates that include a lot of non-sexual time together? I'm talking about things like dinner, conversation, and so on? Do they generally like that, or does it weird them out?
I myself, LOVE extended dates. I really like to provide a total GFE experience, and for me, that includes a few drinks, maybe dinner, sometimes a play, and then 'dessert' : ) But then I have friends that generally just like to stick to an hour only. They are uncomfortable spending additional time with a gentleman. To each their own, but if it's something you're interested in, make sure the lady you seek out is on the same page : )
I'm a social person and love to get out and about experiencing new things...especially with a special someone 
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Big +1 on Alexandra's reply btw .
I don't do hour appointments because it's too rushed and awkward for me. I much prefer to spend some time talking to get to know each other, over a meal is even better! My best dates, without exception have been 3 hours or more in duration. It's about the experience after all, and I think more time and conversation/non intimate activties are a big piece of creating truly memorable ones. My goal with each client I have is to give them a beautiful memory.
I really enjoy extended dates because it allows enough time to get to know each other better.
hmmmm, tough one
I've been to some M&Gs and I've looked in the mirror recently as well. We hear about "unhygienic", "bad attitude", "rushed" and the like about women all the time, too.
It's not necessarily "EASY" for clients OR providers all the time, eh?
I don't believe that being cynical, cheap and condescending brought me anything other than short-term benefit, either... whether in business or other relationships, here or in civvie-land.
It's a good thing when everybody gains from a deal. No one wants to simply be fucked all the time.
PS: I have no problem with anyone who prefers a quickie over an evening out. I tend to prefer a shorter session until I am confident a longer one will work out well. I am commenting solely on the premise of "easy" and the condescension it connotes in the context used - both to providers and to clients who enjoy longer sessions.
Not true. I would make more money doing 3 hour only dates ($1,500) than going on one 3 hour date ($1,050). But, I enjoy the longer dates, so my rates encourage them : )
I'm highly doubting you could turn over 3 different dates in 3 hours, but maybe you can. More power to ya. Wouldn't wanna be guy number 3 tho
The LAST thing I want is to have to fill in the silences of a conversation with a gentleman who's an introvert. If I've met you for a briefer meeting or our time at a M&G went well, I would consider it. I can talk to nearly anyone on any number of topics but dragging a conversation out of someone isn't sexy.
The deal usually gets sweeter the more hours you book if the lady enjoys extended dates. If you look on a lady's website on her rates page and you don't see more than two hours listed or if her 6 hour rate is nearly 6x her 1 hour rate, then you know she doesn't enjoy them.
I personally love extended dates because it feels more like a real date. I used to have a dinner date minimum requirement for outcalls. But, I had to change it because it wasn't smart business, but a girl can dream....
So, yeah....take a look at her rate structure and you can tell what she likes most and likes least. For example, I dislike one hour outcalls. You can't talk me into commuting home from work for an hour, getting ready for an hour, driving an hour to your outcall (because I live far from the hobby spots) in this Atlanta traffic to see you for an hour and then drive another hour to get home for just my one hour rate. Not going to happen. So, I've got a two hour minimum plus a fee. lol
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I do those type of dates all the time I can't speak for others however, I enjoy them. I enjoy people in general
Sorry folks... couldn't resist.
But that obviously depends upon their skin care regime....
I couldn't resist either....
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......as you're not a creep and have a wide open wallet.