I sometimes like to be a voyeur and I’m also somewhat of an exhibitionist; where else to fulfill both of those needs/wants at the same time than at a swing club, right? I’ve been to the Trapeze a few times before, but my most recent visit left me feeling…bleh!  
   
 My prior visits were either with a group, so we more or less got our freak on in public, but not with any of the “strangers in the crowd"; or with a date, and we agreed to “see and be seen”. This last visit was supposed to be one of those see and be seen dates, however, while we were getting it on, some random couple parks it next to us and the guy just starts grabbing on me. He even took my date's towel! Who does that? I brushed it off, and said to my date “Let’s try something new” and we went elsewhere.  
   
 My question is, isn’t there supposed to be some kind of consensual agreement between parties before you just start grabbing on someone? I mean, just because I’m naked in a room full of naked people still doesn’t mean it’s ok to touch without consent, right?  
   
 Also, I thought that no one was allowed in the back with clothes on? I must have been there on Investor’s Night because they were giving fully-clothed “tours” of the facility all night, wtf?  
   
 I think in the future, I will just stick to the sexxxy parties that some of the ladies here in Atlanta throw every now and then…I love an orgy, just not with randoms lol!  
   
 Xoxo  
 Caylee