hobbiests. So, it is possible that when her profile was originally added.. she did not have one!
I've resigned myself to adding 4-8 yrs to whatever age they list, but I just saw an ad that says TATOOS - NO and then in the pics there is an obvious large tat above her butt in several shots. I mean seriously these are recent pics and there is no way she got it removed so why so blatantly LIE???
I've even seen a site where they airbrushed a big ugly tat out of most pics but not all - and then listed no tats.
Fudging age a tad is one thing but subtracting 40 lbs or saying no tats when they have big fugly ones is just too much IMO!
I too have encountered some less than truthful things written in profiles, and I wondered the same thing--is it a warning signal? One provider I was researching clearly stated on the profile that she had started providing in Dec. of 2005, but when I spoke to her on the phone she casually mentioned she's had no problems with LE the whole 5 years she's been doing this. I'm sorry, but Dec. 2005 to today does not add up to 5 years. Would little slips like this bother a more experienced hobbyist out there?
I just don't like that they have to lie on their own website as well.
I had one provider telling me about her almost 17 year old daughter and she said she had her when she was 19. Now she lists 29 as her age. No biggie, but one day she asked me if I could guess how old she really is - she blurted out that she fudges in ads. I said 36 ( she might be as young as 35 but no less ) and she countered 33 - I just let it pass because I didn't want to embarass her and I don't mind that she is probably really 36! But just because they can't do math doesn't mean...
The month and year a gal started in the business isn't a detail you usually see on her website.
Dec 2005 was likely when she was first reviewed. Who knows how long she had been in the business before she was discovered.
hobbiests. So, it is possible that when her profile was originally added.. she did not have one!
I fully understand that profiles here are not done by the provider and therefore could have some inaccuracies that are not her fault. I am talking about THEIR OWN ADS and the profiles they have ON THEIR WEBSITES. I thought that was clear!
...but they may have just been wanting to make sure.
I agree with you on this matter. Why can't they just be honest. I saw one provider a second time, bout 6 months after our first session. Her website pictures had remained the same. Well, when I see her for the 2nd time, her appearance was drastically different. Hair was shorter and had changed color, she had gained probably 20 lbs, and she had probably 10 to 12 additional tattoos! The only one that really bothered me were all the tats! I commented to her that she'd gotten a few more tattoos since our last meeting. Perhaps I failed in trying to hide my disappointment, b/c she flat out refused it, saying that she'd not had any recent work done. (Of course to her, "recent work" would mean in "the last few hours" LOL!!) Ironically, her service towards me that session was MUCH BETTER than it had been before, and the very next day her site had new pics of her (and I had refrained from suggesting that).
Another chick introduced herself as "xyz" and quickly corrected herself by saying, "I mean 'abc'". So, I pretty much knew that "xyz" was her real name. Well, when we got to doggystyle, I bout busted out laughing as "xyz" was tattooed right above her ass! LOL!!!Now THAT'S the kind of honesty I'm talkin' bout!
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I don't blame providers for using stage names and not wanting personal info divulged, so the xyz thing is not a concern to me. I do get a kick out of it when they do reveal their real name to me - and I am somewhat surprised how many do that even on first appts. You know they trust you when they do that! It's probably a trick some use to make us feel "special", LOL.
It's the physical specs/stats, pics and descriptions on their sites that I feel should be reasonably accurate. If a girl has changed a lot in 6 months since I last saw her, I'd probably not be too down on it as I'd only be repeating because I liked the whole service package a fair amount. May make it be my last appt though if she'd added 12 tats and 20 lbs and was now much less attractive to me - not that those two things alone are the only thing I'd base the decision on though.
OK so you found some lies. Report it in your review. If you are totally grossed out say something and negotiate a gentleman's release. Otherwise realize that this is a buy/sell agreement. We owe it to each other to report such issues but rest assured people lie..... Money will make you do things you would not normally do.
I've noticed a lot of fudging in the age. 39 really means over 40.
The funny thing is -- I like women in their 40s (and in their 30s and 20s, too), so when they round their age downward, it could be detrimental when I'm searching for a provider in her 40s.