I always ask! I have always tried to do my best to do it to!
It is sooo much fun, especially since I have so many costumes already! (And excuse to buy more!) Come on think about how many women love Halloween bc it is the one holiday you can dress slutty in whatever way and it is totally ok! (Btw I have a hooters outfit! Lol) From schoolgirl to Wonder Woman to playboy to cheerleader... Or even a sexy secretary it's all fun!!The NCAA's are complete and Spring Break is over, so that means it is back to having some fun. The guys have missed the ladies, and I know that I have, and the ladies have missed the guys. Well, perhaps some of us anyway.
My topic suggestion of this week is dress requests. Gentlemen, are there dress requests that you like to request for a meeting, but do not? What would it be? Should you make the requests how do you find that the ladies respond? Do they follow through? To the ladies, what do you think?
I will respond to this to start things off. I admit that I have requests in mind, but I am shy to request it. I have a booking planned for tomorrow. For the first time since being back to this, I have made a dress request. This one should be easy. She has a new pictorial and she is wearing the requested outfit in about half of the images. I have the agency assurance that it will be passed along. I await the result.
My ideal? As a very young lad, the ladies style was mini skirts. Then in the 1980's it was pantyhose all over television. To me tan shade pantyhose, which I bring, a short skirt, simple pump heels. Now my real fantasy, is to have a provider in a complete Hooters girl outfit. It will never happen, but I can dream, can't I? Hey, if anybody is offended, I apologize but just saying.
My past experience is that it rarely happens. I have experienced better results with indies compared to agency girls. Also, with older, and I mean later 20's and older, than with younger providers. I got where most of the time I just stopped asking because when missed, in my mind, it just got things off on the wrong foot. I just stopped asking.
That is my story. Lets please hear the story of others. Ladies, you're thoughts are welcomed.
Have a great week everyone. To the nice ladies, I please say - "stay pretty and stay safe please".
Don't give up so easily - if you want a certain outfit, just ask. Unless it's something exotic the lady should be able to accommodate your wishes. And if not, find one who will. Remember, this is about bringing your fantasy to life. Don't settle for anything less.
My wardrobe requests for romantic encounters are generally easy to satisfy as I like simple elegance - for example a nice silk robe. But if I am engaging in role play, there could be any number of outfit requirements (schoolgirl, secretary, maid, leather domme, etc.). Obviously those need careful planning and coordination, but the right lady will be happy to make your deepest fantasy come true.
Again, the point of this whole thing is for you to fulfill a fantasy and leave satisfied. There are ladies out there that want to help you achieve just that - I guarantee it. Now go find one. Or a few. LOL.
My topic suggestion of this week is dress requests. Gentlemen, are there dress requests that you like to request for a meeting, but do not? What would it be? Should you make the requests how do you find that the ladies respond? Do they follow through? To the ladies, what do you think?
I will respond to this to start things off. I admit that I have requests in mind, but I am shy to request it. I have a booking planned for tomorrow. For the first time since being back to this, I have made a dress request. This one should be easy. She has a new pictorial and she is wearing the requested outfit in about half of the images. I have the agency assurance that it will be passed along. I await the result.
My ideal? As a very young lad, the ladies style was mini skirts. Then in the 1980's it was pantyhose all over television. To me tan shade pantyhose, which I bring, a short skirt, simple pump heels. Now my real fantasy, is to have a provider in a complete Hooters girl outfit. It will never happen, but I can dream, can't I? Hey, if anybody is offended, I apologize but just saying.
My past experience is that it rarely happens. I have experienced better results with indies compared to agency girls. Also, with older, and I mean later 20's and older, than with younger providers. I got where most of the time I just stopped asking because when missed, in my mind, it just got things off on the wrong foot. I just stopped asking.
That is my story. Lets please hear the story of others. Ladies, you're thoughts are welcomed.
Have a great week everyone. To the nice ladies, I please say - "stay pretty and stay safe please".
I like it simple. Nothing like opening the door and having a gorgeous lady standing there in dress. I have had a few show up in tight short cocktail dress that knocked my socks off before things even got started. I am happy with her having panties and bra on underneath or if she wants to put on stockings and garters that's great too.
Hummm the Hooters girl outfit might be a nice fantasy too especially if she was a Hooters girl. 
Majority of the ladies might very well have the clothes you request or are willing to accommodate your request. If not, just ask if you could bring an outfit (new because most won't do used).
I for one am not up for that type of request but I always make sure that he knows that and he knows what he is getting into. Of course he could read my reviews and know that too.
We won't get mad for simply asking. We'd rather you be happy and be happy with our time together mutually. Worst case is we shall say no. So what? You can chose to still see us or not. The well reviewed would rather see someone who is happy with whatever we are doing vs wishing they could have gotten something else different.
With a bit of role play mixed in.....just one of my many fantasies lol!
I often love seeing a woman meeting me at the door nicely appointed in a beautiful dress or skirt, especially when I know she has some very sexy lingerie underneath. That idea of unwrapping the package adds a lot to the experience.
As several of the posters have mentioned, sometimes you may have a taste for a "theme" or "role play" attire, if that's the case, just make the request when you set up your appointment. In my experience, I've found the ladies that I enjoy seeing are more than willing to accommodate request and usually love the idea of making the experience customized for you. However, if there is a specific look you are interested in experiencing, don't be too bashful to make that request upfront.
Here's another tip, check their website out, or as you began to build rapport with them, find out their favorite stores and honor them with a gift card to help facilitate providing your future request. They will certainly appreciate it, while not necessary, it's always a nice gesture, especially with your favorites
Provide the hooters girl outfit have the girl put it on for u but dont let her keep it . I actually have a regular client that does something similar weekly, because he likes young new to the industry girls and books kinda of last minute but like u pointed out dressing a certain way usually comes with industry experience
I was pleasantly surprised. I had no idea that was an option. It did not take long for me to reply with my suggestion.
I prefer the casual 'girl next door' look. Don't get me wrong, I've never been disppointed if she opens the door wearing sexy lingerie. However, if she asks, I always suggest something casual. Even if she does not ask during our scheduling emails, I'll sometimes tell her to please not trouble herself dressing up too much for me and let her know that I prefer the 'girl next door' look. I also prefer little to no makeup and perfume, the more natural, the better.
With my 'girl next door' requests. I've been greeted by the ladies in a variety of outfits. Anything from yoga pants and a small tee shirt, to cut off jeans and a tight tank top. (and barefooted or flip flops always works well with the GND look).
Now that Spring is here, I imagine a sun dress might be a great 'GND' look too.
Have a great Sunday, folks!
I found it be more fun without clothes.
You are wise to request something in the pictures. There's a better than good chance she has the outfit. If I have to invest in something outside of my wardrobe (especially on short notice) I'll probably decline. I include an office attire description on my site to give the reader a sense of how I normally present myself in a meeting. Those options are comfortable for me. I would imagine there are plenty of providers that enjoy dressing in a myriad of looks for their meetings but I would not make a good Hooters Girl.
If additional visual appeal is all you seek, there's no harm in asking. If you want to role play, I think you'll want to see if she's into it. I suck at improv which makes role play awkward for me, especially at a first meeting.
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You suck at improv? Concerned about your role play skills? There's really nothing to it - when your partner makes an outlandish statement or request, you just say "Yes, and..." and add to the premise. It's simply adult play along.
If you come to the ATL I'd be happy to give you free lessons. (This is the part where you jump in with "Yes, and...".) 
Of course if you sign up for my advanced classes you will also learn "No, but...". As in, "No, I'm a good girl (can't you see by the Catholic schoolgirl outfit I'm wearing?) so I won't do that super naughty thing you are asking. But, as a consolation prize, I would do ...(insert a slightly less naughty thing)... for you Headmaster. Would that keep me from being expelled?".
All that said it's pretty rare for me to role play on a first date, I usually save that for ladies that know me well. On the first date I want to get to know a lady's "real" personality (and vice versa).
If additional visual appeal is all you seek, there's no harm in asking. If you want to role play, I think you'll want to see if she's into it. I suck at improv which makes role play awkward for me, especially at a first meeting.
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The first time I ever saw my ATF, my previous fave introduced her to me. She had this amazing fit body that she got from working out about 5 or 6 days a week. With that figure, she could literally wear anything and make it smoking hot. She would buy lingerie quite often to look good for me and I would occasionally buy stuff as well just to spice things up. Damn, I miss that girl!
First time I met her she was wearing a sleeveless red dress with a v-neck and a slit up the side of one thigh. It was an amazing sight that I'll never forget!
my favorite is a sun dress or sweat suit/shirt,
Full disclosure - I have only done this with independent providers I know reasonably well and it does require some planning and coordination.
Amazon gift cards can be purchased nearly anywhere for cash. You can set up a hobby Amazon account off your hobby email and access it through your hobby browser. Amazon does not care whether you give them a real name - they only care what address it gets dropped off at. And the packaging is non descript.
I have found it useful to have providers set up wish lists on Amazon related to any requests I am interested in. Sizing (which I absolutely suck at..) is then not an issue. Further, I have found that the providers are really good at picking out what they look good in. So - if you want a school girl outfit - she can pick one out down to the saddle oxfords and white panties if that's your thing. My requests have been considerably kinkier than this but the principle should work.
This also works with sex toys - Amazon has anything that Starship has - with alot more and, frankly cheaper... As an example, I gave one provider her first Hitachi that way... she liked it... alot... The only issue is that it takes a week if you use free shipping...
From my point of view these things are just additional session expenses to add that extra zing and I find them highly worth while..
from short skirt and tank top to specific types of lingerie. Mostly I get "Dress casual" or "dress for a nice dinner". If the request is something I wouldn't wear in public, I will bring it with me and change when I get there. Many, many times, a gent has sent me a VS gift card and requested I buy "something pretty" for our next meeting, and it's always fun to surprise him! I've also had many gents bring me lingerie to wear for our evening. Also, if it is something I don't currently own, I will require the gent to purchase it.
For a younger lady, I don't see why a Hooters outfit would be out of the question. It would be easy enough to do. You could always buy the outfit for her.
I mean who would want to explore some refined but slightly tacky fun
This thread was very informative for me. I definitely will incorporate some things I just read about into my new website thats being created. Thank you to everyone that gave input on this one. : )
Thank you, Lisa.
Your response does speak to why I sometimes post these Topics of the Week. Sometimes for the fun of it, to get some talking going on. Also, they are informative, both clients and providers alike. Feedback that I have received over the years on this topic includes that providers are sometimes frustrated in that clients do not ask for, or know, what they really want.
Agency girls that I spoken to, many but not all, said that yes they would do dress requests of they knew of them. Sometimes that does not come across to them. Understandable sometimes because the call desk can get busy. Others well, the call desk only has so much control.
The tread became a bit more counsel to me than on the topic. I am thankful folks took for their time to offer it, but it was not my goal. I messed up when I put my own example in the original post. I knew better, bt did it anyway.
Yeah, a lot of providers would do more of this if they knew what clients wanted. Now other providers don't. That's cool. Choice should go both ways.
Thanks, Lisa. Have a great week.
Lisa, PM if you want more of my feedback.
I always ask! I have always tried to do my best to do it to!
It is sooo much fun, especially since I have so many costumes already! (And excuse to buy more!)
Come on think about how many women love Halloween bc it is the one holiday you can dress slutty in whatever way and it is totally ok! (Btw I have a hooters outfit! Lol)
From schoolgirl to Wonder Woman to playboy to cheerleader... Or even a sexy secretary it's all fun!!
You say women love Halloween as it's the one day they can dress slutty with impunity. Did also you know it's the guys' favorite holiday for exactly the same reason?
I vote everyday is Halloween!
Wonder woman? hmmmm
It is sooo much fun, especially since I have so many costumes already! (And excuse to buy more!)
Come on think about how many women love Halloween bc it is the one holiday you can dress slutty in whatever way and it is totally ok! (Btw I have a hooters outfit! Lol)
From schoolgirl to Wonder Woman to playboy to cheerleader... Or even a sexy secretary it's all fun!!
...I usually ask to be surprised and have not been disappointed, however, lately I had a thing for ladies in a little black dress.
...you can never go wrong with this classic look.
I like both of those looks very much - casual elegance is underrated. Little black dress and business (sexy) casual - most excellent choices.
When I don't request the silk robe, I'm usually going for the earthy, girl next door look. I'm partial to a nice cotton tank top, jeans and bare feet. I really like the impression of just dropping by the girlfriend's place as she's hanging out/relaxing.
Jessica Lucas wears that look particularly well. Of course she wears everything well. Excuse me I just drooled on my keyboard..
I wore this outfit to dinner last night!
I don't mind outfit request at all! I love to dress up for the guys
Hugs and kisses
TL
In fact, I often ask if the gentleman I'm seeing has any if he has yet to mention it. Full disclosure: I love clothes and never really outgrew playing dress up, so one of the most fun aspects of being a provider for me is having an excuse to buy and wear fancy clothes and lingerie (oh dear God lingerie). But aside from that, it often tells you something about the gentleman that allows you to hopefully connect better and give him an experience he will truly enjoy. That's why I'm here.
Now, there can be an issue, particularly with outcalls in warm weather, with wearing an outfit in public that would cause undue attention. But of course there are creative ways around that (I have some cotton wrap dresses that often come in handy for this purpose).