Who would come up with such an outrageous, controversial topic?  Oh yeah, that would be me.  

Well since I opened this can of worms it's just polite for me to state my opinion (sorry Larry for dragging you into this debacle  lol).  I'm sure it won't surprise you to know I'm a fan.  Especially if you've read some of my reviews.  And too afraid?  Me, no. I'm game for anything.  Well except for needles, or anything sharp or pokey, and fire, or high voltage, or breath play, or getting kicked really hard in the balls, or being mummified in saran wrap.  Ok, it turns out I'm afraid of quite a few things - but prostate massage - never!

It's not something I do every time, but more like sometimes when the feeling is right when I'm with a cool gal that enjoys giving pm's.  Speaking of taboo and all that you can tell real quick if a lady is into it or not.  Some say they are pm friendly but either don't know what they're doing or just want to put that in their profile for advertising purposes.  But the ones that are really into giving them - make for a truly mind blowing orgasm.  And I mean like life changing.  

Much like rimming, many guys and girls find it isn't for them and that's totally cool.  Nobody is looking to convert anbody.  But if you are on the fence and looking for some adventure - grab your favorite, open minded gal and head for the bedroom.  Oh but stop by the shower first for sure.    All the hygiene recommendations for rimming apply here as well.

Make sure the lady takes her time, uses plenty of lube, and is very careful with her nails.  Some ladies that have long nails or are just concerned with hygiene put a condom on their finger (or first two fingers depending on your tolerance).  There are many videos on the net regarding how to give a good direct prostate massage.  And a good pm on a guy is very similar to g-spot stimulation on a girl.  Which I've always found interesting. Some folks use toys/vibrators as well, whatever you want to try with your partner is great.  I do prefer fingers though, it just feels better and more intimate IMHO.

But that combined with some bbbj action may be one of the best O's you've ever had.  I guarantee it.  Well, actually I can't guarantee it - as it's not for everyone.  But that has been my experience for sure.  

That is if a woman knows her way around and knows how to perform it properly, I can be a great finish with a BBBJCIM

Many, many years ago on my 21st birthday my two best friends dared me to go into a local AMP (we, being the sophisticated gents we were, called them "steam and creams") to "celebrate" my birthday.  Of course being a dare I had to (ladies - it's a guy thing, you wouldn't understand).  Not exactly sure where this adventure began but several titty bars and large amounts of alcohol were involved.  And a dare is a sacred oath of honor amongst bro's so my fate was sealed that day.

Anyway, I went in (after showing my license) and met a sweet asian lady named Penny who was approximately twice my age (I'm being kind).  She got me undressed, laid me on a table, soaped me up and scrubbed me down.  I must've been as pink as a baby's bottom as she led me into her lair to do her work.

She mentioned something about options and donations and I'm pretty sure I handed her everything that was in my pockets (have no idea how much it was - again, alcohol).  I'm sure she decided to take pity on me as a favor at some point.  Also I'm pretty sure she does the math on how long I'm going to last.  As she starts giving me a mediocre (in retrospect) massage, flips me over, and no surprise I'm hard as a rock (ah, youth is wasted on the young).

She then does the move of applying a condom with her mouth.  Now, I had been sexually active for many years by this time *blush* but thought this was the classiest, most high brow move I had ever seen in my entire life.  This girl was magical.  She then (as I'm getting the cbj) spits on her finger and slides it into my ass (didn't even ask first btw) and starts massaging my prostate.  I thought my head was going to explode.  Or more accurately, I thought both heads were going to explode.    And one did - not too long after that (again - young, don't judge).  I've never been quite the same ever since.  I'm sure she forgot all about me even before I was high-fiving my drunk buddies in the parking lot.  But I do still remember her to this day.

Penny - why? Why? Why did you ruin me for all other women?

LOL

At least I think she said her name was Penny.  She had quite an accent and I was very drunk.    Now you know the rest of the sordid tale.

I love providing pleasure and

... I love to be in control.  

Asses are glorious. They are beautiful and deserving of admiration from afar (seriously, I'm not the only person who looks at butts here), and they are a treasure trove of nerve endings and sensation receivers.

I like playing with asses because I know that it feels wonderful. On a side note, I like giving rim jobs because I love receiving them - it's not that I'm doing it in order to get one returned; its that I know how getting a rim job feels so of course I want to share. Besides, its the best way to warm up an asshole for anything more structured or larger than a tongue.  

And what can be better than feeling your partner sigh and release all the tension in his body with subtle, deft movement of fingers gently swirling, lightly pushing on the sphincter, slowly making way towards the prostate?  

I love seeing men let go of their inhibitions and eating up the pleasure that comes from their own bodies. The prostate can control your orgasms independent of any other organ; its socialization that has led us to believe that men shouldn't/can't recieve pleasure through insertion. I'm not that interested in puritanical ideas of what's right and wrong for grown men and women - I'm a sensuous being here to promote hedonism.

Like I said, I'm a sensual creature. So of course I take it slow, remind folks to feel their bodies and concentrate on their breath. These days I'm more into fingers than toys, but that waxes and wanes given my play partners and what tools best fit the um, situation.

I hear you that prostate play can be an end-move. Like, at the end of a session you could go for the BBJCIM with some FIR or whatever acronyms y'all are into. But sometimes taking a nice swath of time to really feel each and every shudder that travels up and down your spine, only to have the most over-the-top orgasm at the end... that's where it's at. I love dates where men want to be edged for over an hour or even more, teased by my mouth and fingers until they are literally begging me to let them pop.  

I know that I'm good at the things I do and I know how give people some of the most intense orgasms that they've ever had. This is why I proudly talk about my interests in my ads and on my website. I want to draw to me the people who are looking for this kind of play.

Anyway, long story short, I enjoy it. I really do.
xoxox
Tori Valentine, your Playful Pervert

....I love to poke, probe & massage and have a general love and fascination for the human body. So...all of that has a part to why I like to do it. I like seeing a man moan and squirm and to watch a guy have some of the hardest orgasms one can get which is via the "male g-spot". I'm never afraid to go there as long as he prepares well beforehand. Common courtesy...he doesn't want to ride Hershey highway on his dick (anal) and I don't need it on my sheets or hands (even with finger cots or gloves on). Gotta get clean before we can get nasty lol

I guess I always had kind of an aversion to anything even thinking about going in my ass. The thought of prison is only really scary when you factor in ass rape. Then here on TER there was mention of "more powerful orgasms", and even "the most powerful orgasm you can imagine"...

Hmmm, me thinks. Even stronger than these I've been having? Shee-it, sign me up! Well fuck and alas, I've now tried it a few times. The first time, it did indeed make me come quicker. It was way exciting because to me it was kinky as hell, but the orgasm was really no different. After that first time, it quickly became something that reminds me a lot of a pebble in my shoe. It doesn't feel good, it doesn't really hurt, it's just something distracting and I need to get that outa there!

It's an art of sorts, but it's kind of like finding a woman's g-spot (in an anal kind of way lol)

But, in reality it has many benefits that many might not know about!

Many men suffering from impotence find that regular prostate massages help to return them to normal sexual function. While sexual impotence can be caused by muscular constriction, as mentioned above, and prostate massage will increase seminal fluids and can, over time, help a man to overcome impotence issues.

What Will be Happened After a Prostate Massage?

-Your pain can melt away, day by day.
-BPH and other symptoms can gradually disappear.
-Urine flow can improve dramatically.
-You can have better sleep and not have to get up 6 times a night to relieve your bladder.
-You can start to feel really good again.
-You can regain the sexual activity that they thought was over forever.
-As time goes by, you'll feel better all over. You'll have more energy, you'll be happier and your sex life will take back its former sparkle
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The Benefits of Prostate Massage:

-Prostate massage can loosen the tension and stress in the muscles, as well as in the nerve endings in the prostate area. Men could truly feel relaxed when the muscles of the gland are massaged, but not the gland itself.
This massage therapy could help determine the existence of any cancerous cells growth or infection in the male prostate gland.
-This massage therapy also aids in draining the seminal fluids, which have been collected and creates pressure in a lot of cases, inflammation.
-Prostate massage can increase the circulation to the prostate gland, providing nourishment and oxygen and also cleanse the prostate.
-Prostate massage therapy makes masturbation not necessary and usually, it would even remove the desire for it. Prostate therapy can protect men from the occurrence of threatening prostate gland cancer.
-This therapy can aid men who suffer from a serious case of prostate enlargement. This massage technique can help men fight and prevent the development of certain prostate disorders.
Prostate massage therapy can help men overcome impotence by stimulating the flow of seminal fluid and increases circulation.
-The swollen prostate can be alleviated with the help of prostate massage. It could be really uncomfortable when you suffer from a swollen prostate gland, most especially when sitting down and pressure would build around the prostate.

And I love giving, and when I can give someone a release that not only feels good but is good for them why would I not want to do it!

And it's pretty awesome to get someone "there" and they collapse when they overwhelmed with both pleasure and relaxation.

That to me is the ultimate pleasure- to give yet get satisfaction in the gift of ecstasy.

It is what it is

XO
SR

I love prostate massages as part of any session.

I did have one that was a bit out of the ordinary, though.

I was in Vancouver, where they have a bit more liberal attitude and legal approach, and was looking for a massage.  Massage providers open advertise PMs and from what I could tell, was completely legal.

I found a Chinese lady who offered PM along with massage not too far away, so I made an appointment.

Her set up was more medical looking than most, as if she was a nurse or other medical professional.  I got undressed and on her massage table.  She was an older Chinese woman, not pretty but not bad, and she stayed completely dressed.

She gave me an excellent massage with me face down, using techniques that were unfamiliar to me.  I guess there was some oriental influences in her style. There was quite a bit of excellent glute massage but no hint of anything more.

Without saying a word, she gloved up and lubed up and proceeded to give a totally amazing prostate massage.  Since I wasn't really in any kind of sensual massage (as ones I had before), I was totally free to just experience and enjoy what she was doing.  She went slow and took quite a bit of time.

She then stopped and made motion (English wasn't her primary language) for me to flip which I did.

She place a square of a wax paper like material on my stomach and proceeded to give me a fantastic hand job, which didn't take long to conclude with her pointing my cumming dick toward the wax paper for minimal clean up.

I certainly prefer the sensual experience with a beautiful naked lady, but this experience was well worth it

I have a difficult time maintaining an erection while a finger is up my ass.  I used to love the massages I would get from Romy, when she was in the biz.  Now it's difficult to find a good fbsm provider that will also do prostate.