The brothel had a camera at the front desk. When she saw it was me, she refused to meet me. She said (through the girl that came out) she wouldn't meet me because I was familiar with her other life. It may have been that she just didn't fancy me. Don't be surprised if you get turned down
Okay. This is a question for the ladiies. One of our babysitters appears to be in the business now. She is European, been in the US for 6 years. She last babysat for us about eight months ago. She is not our usual nanny and was never our full-time nanny. Mid 20s and very sexy. Gorgeous legs and ass. And yes I certainly noticed when she would come over to watch our kids when we would go out for a date. Of course I thought about it. Now my dilemma, she has not watched our kids for eight months and we have not had any contact with her since then. I have not hobbied for probably six months or so. But I was thinking about finding someone recently. I looked up an agency that I formerly used. And there's a picture of a new girl, gorgeous, who is 90% I'm sure our former babysitter. Seriously a striking resemblance.
I am not in your community. I am posting this from another large citiy in the US so as not to alarm anyone. Question, ladies how would she feel if I showed up as a client. As I said she works for an agency that would be doing the verification, which they already know me so it would be very light and she probably would not know I was coming for a date.
Is this super. Creepy, Or super erotic. I know how I think about it super erotic. However this is clearly not something I would want to come back to my home. I don't think we will be using her as a babysitter in the future. Or I would not even consider this. We have nannies and other people now in simply haven't called her since last year.
As I said she is a new provider. Should I give her a month or so into this to see if she continues. Then would it be okay. Would she be more comfortable about her situation at that point. Or am I a sicko and should stay clear away from the situation. Or is this clearly about fantasy and Could I try it out. Oh and if it matters I'm 40. I'm asking the ladies for your feedback on this. Guys I think I know what your answer would be right. You are rooting for me like it's an ncaa final four game
I think that it would freak her out. It could scare her. Providers are very protective of their private lives. This would mean for all time that you know this about her. Providers get busted too many times by family and friends.
Keep the fantasy. Move onto other girls.
My two cents....
Ladies??
This could be a disaster. A hot fantasy, but you both have way too much to lose. Keep the fantasy and find someone else to act it out!
This is one of those situations that sounds great in a fantasy but I think there is much more risk than reward in reality. Two things to consider:
1) She could react badly (as has already been mentioned) to you approaching her in this new role. She might not be interested or there might be too much baggage or tie in with her real life. The odds aren't really in your favor here. Crossing the boundaries of real world and hobby world should only be undertaken with great time and care. A relationship like that gets built over a long period of time - with a lot of trust developed on both sides. And of course both particpants need to be aware and willing of this evolution. To just step into her life as a new client, especially with herself being new, is likely to be emotionally jarring.
2) She already has intimate knowledge of your situation. Where you live, who your SO is, likely where you work, etc. Think about it. This could easily turn into a blackmail or forced Sugar Daddy type of situation if things don't go well. You have too much to lose IMHO.
I understand the lure of such a situation, but I suggest you find a real pro companion to your liking that is open to some Daddy/babysitter role play. And play it out to your heart's content. I think that is the safer (and saner) alternative.
Every provider you see knows all your personal shit. Don't fool yourself thinking otherwise.
If u wait that long u run the risk of missing your opportunity it probably wont freak her out all money is green. Yall might have awkward laugh at first but it willall be ok if shes a professional go for it
Bang her brains silly.
The brothel had a camera at the front desk. When she saw it was me, she refused to meet me. She said (through the girl that came out) she wouldn't meet me because I was familiar with her other life. It may have been that she just didn't fancy me. Don't be surprised if you get turned down
You are one creepy dude! First of all did you really spend this much time writing this post? Next, you are having a conversation via this post about you being married, babysitters, escorts and in some small way children. I get you are not a pedophile but you have real issues combining marriage, babysitters, escorts and kids.
Move on and let it go before you get yourself in real trouble starting with your wife.
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