I think you would come out a lot better on the financial end. Although my first advice would be to establish a good repore with a civvie or provider you've seen a few times... you'd be surprise to know the perks that come along with having a good personality.
I won't mention her name but a beautiful brunet who post regularly on the ad board offered to buy me dinner after our second session, although I declined........ the offer spoke volumes about her. Thinking about it now I should have accepted because she sat and ate her food right in front of me lol. And I know of guys who've taken providers out for a bite to eat without them being charged, chances are if you have a good personality, you can luck up and get some time OTCI really enjoy going on dinner dates and have the whole GFE experience (dinner out, wine in the room, then on to dessert) however most of you know the can become expensive with a reputable lady. Sometimes my budget don’t allow for me to complete my fantasy. So I discovered on of those pay for a date sites and thought that might be a great away to get everything I want for less.
I know providers cannot afford to take less for the dinner dates because they would be losing money on clients that might be booking another hour or two appointments during that time. However watching someone eat for 300-400 an hour gets a bit extreme at times.
So after finding this exists I thought you can offer 100-200 to take a college cutie out to dinner that would not go for the dessert afterwards. Then book a reputable provider for an hour appointment. In the end you have had your dinner date out with an attractive lady and your dessert afterwards with a sure bet. Cost example 400 for provider 200 to have dinner with a college cutie so 600 for a 4 hour event vs. 1000-1200.
What’s your thoughts on this guys
I just can't see paying the "college cutie" anything to have dinner with me if I know in advance that's all I am going to get. Now I have been known to take a civvie girl out for dinner, knowing full well I probably wasn't going to get dessert from her, and then seeing a provider immediately after getting my good night peck on the cheek from the civvie date.
I guess I don't find myself starving for company the way some guys do. I don't need arm candy enough to be willing to pay for it. Unlike the hooker mantra that we pay for "time and companionship" I don't pay for companionship, except perhaps as a part of a sexual date. I am perfectly happy seeing a provider and then having pizza with the guys, but paying a woman strictly for "time and companionship" just isn't my cup of tea.
BTW one of the benefits of taking out a civvie date knowing that you have a pro lined up afterwards is that it takes all the pressure off to "score" and your civvie date will wonder if she has to "work harder" to get your sexual attention, or at the very least think you are quite the gentleman for the "No strings" dinner.
Sounds a bit complicated to me, honestly. If it's all about eating in a nice restaurant with a companion I understand why you are proposing it. But you are trying to do it economically - which is difficult. My motivation is a little different, it's just an idea - but it might give you some things to think on. For me it's really about spending some intimate time with someone I want to know better (over a nice meal and some wine).
Here's a compromise - how about an indoor picnic? Dining in is like having your cake and eating it too. Occasionally I want to share a meal with someone special but traffic and scheduling headaches stress me out. So, sometimes I'll pick up something nice to eat and drink on the way to their place. We can eat in an intimate setting, enjoy pleasant conversation, then move onto dessert when it feels right - no rush. Or if you're already in a nice hotel, just order room service.
I think it's win-win, I get to enjoy a favorite's company during a nice meal while avoiding traffic and scheduling hassles. And I think it kind of maximizes intimate time. You can even still dress up for dinner to make it more special. Just a thought.
I have been out to eat with two ladies so far and all I paid for was the meal. It was not a "date" and we did not meet up after for anything. It is a slippery slope when you start believing that the only way a provider will sit and eat with you is if you pay her. Also, it has been awhile since I stopped posting reviews, so looking who I dated would not show who I ate with.
My friend, it is also unlikely that a lady is booked 12 hours a day, 30 days a month. There is also the safety issue that is brought up, but if the lady is smart enough to meet you there and leave without you then there is no issue. Yes, I've done it and we had a good easy chat. I have also met a third lady at Magg**** (forgot about her) before a date, because since I do not post and didn't care much to give her my "provider list", she wanted to now who I was. We ate, got comfortable, kept the talk off the industry and we agreed to a future date, but she retired a few months later. (She found a sugar daddy).
I think you would come out a lot better on the financial end. Although my first advice would be to establish a good repore with a civvie or provider you've seen a few times... you'd be surprise to know the perks that come along with having a good personality.
I won't mention her name but a beautiful brunet who post regularly on the ad board offered to buy me dinner after our second session, although I declined........ the offer spoke volumes about her. Thinking about it now I should have accepted because she sat and ate her food right in front of me lol.
And I know of guys who've taken providers out for a bite to eat without them being charged, chances are if you have a good personality, you can luck up and get some time OTC
I agree. Throughout my travels I've seen ladies advertise either no rate for the dinner (of course you pay for the dinner) or a fraction of the hourly rate for dinner portion. It's essentially the same thing as the idea the original poster had as far as cost. I personally would rather do it all with the same person. It would be much more satisfying.
I won't mention her name but a beautiful brunet who post regularly on the ad board offered to buy me dinner after our second session, although I declined........ the offer spoke volumes about her. Thinking about it now I should have accepted because she sat and ate her food right in front of me lol.
And I know of guys who've taken providers out for a bite to eat without them being charged, chances are if you have a good personality, you can luck up and get some time OTC.
and I do all sorts of things to stretch a buck - but this is just nuts. In fact, I can sort of hear Clark narrating the OP. Hope I haven't outed him but.......
The question you need to ask yourself is - after all of the hassle of dealing with two women in one evening - am I really going to enjoy this or not? Even if you do think you'll actually enjoy your evening - think about it - you are planning to book a dinner date from 7 to 9 and then make a provider date at 10..... I gotta say - that seems like lots of stuff to go wrong to me. I'll admit that it's possible that a college age girl might be on time.... but I have never actually witnessed it. I have also never been to a first rate restaurant where the evening went on time.
It also seems like it sort of interrupts the illusion that you are trying to create - which means that you just spent 6 bills for nothing plus dinner. You can get this done with a reputable independent provider within the budget you stated
I agree. Also Just having "eye candy" is overrated. Who are you trying to impress? The other people at the restaurant?
Yes, Clark Howard will help you save lol