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what is wrong with making that request with an alias?
souperman 7 Reviews 538 reads
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Sounds like you may be the kind of douche bag being referred to in the post.

GaCurious1359 reads

If someone, whether a provider or fella PMs you about details in regards to what specific piercings they have, what their tattoos look like, where they are from etc.... or any markers please do not tell them.  

We would greatly appreciate it.  Anonymity is very important to most of us and we take this very seriously. We don't put this out there to protect ourselves.  Please and thank you!  

If you are curious just ask the provider themself!

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souperman539 reads

Sounds like you may be the kind of douche bag being referred to in the post.

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mongo19621954413 reads

If you PM'd me and asked if she had any tatts, for example, I would say yes she does - they aren't real noticeable or yeah,  - full sleeves - the whole nine yards - she can walk around buck naked and you'd never know or whatever in pretty general terms.  Some guys have a thing about tatts pro or con - so it's not unreasonable to ask.

If you asked me to specifically ID a few of them - you'd never hear back.  First - my powers of observation are just not that good.  I had a double last month with two providers that I know have tattoos (and that I have seen a half dozen times) - but I'll be damned if I can remember exactly where they are or what they are.  I know they aren't many or real noticeable but...  Honestly wasn't on my mind at the time.....  

Second - a specific tattoo and location really isn't information that anybody could use in a positive manner.  I can think of a half dozen ways that information could be used in a negative manner (LE, stalkers, Exes, whatever) - and the women I know really don't deserve that

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TheOFace468 reads

why on earth would you have an issue with it?  

As for what the OP was saying, no doubt, sharing TOO MUCH info BC could put a person at risk on either side.

Discretion is good for all.

Related Link: TER Accetable Reasons To Use An Alias

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GaCurious628 reads

So, yes I am using an alias as this is not trying to single out anyone online.  It was posted with any malicious intent just as a public service announcement knowing that is happened to me and have heard it has happened to others.  If I were to not use an alias one could assume I was singling them out and I am not trying to start any drama like that on a discussion board.  

If you feel differently ... we all have opinions and it is what it is.

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ToniLove621 reads

Thank you! !!! I really appreciate you posting this!  :)  
Hugs and kisses
TL

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GaGambler430 reads

It's almost impossible to be less classy than that moron.

but yeah, I agree with his OP as well. The fact that he posted it under an alias does nothing to change the truth of what he posted.

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TaylorLeighxxx642 reads

I have a note in my directions that I send to new clients stating that all of my personal info, including location, phone #, any details pertaining to my identity be kept private. There's a discretion note on my site as well. I can't even run the numbers in my head of how many clients there have been who've actually told me another providers real name, apt location, type of car another gal drives, etc, etc.. Just to seem cool or like they're in the hobby world know of all? No one is getting brownie points for that. I don't get it. Thank you for posting this! This is a very private community where most on either side need and want to protect their privacy and anonymity. Everyone needs to respect that.

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NatalieKisses399 reads

So true. I dont know how many times Ive been told of other providers locations, day jobs, and whatnot. The LAST thing I want out there for the world to know is my location. One reviewer put my street as my "location" on a review. Of course, I had it removed. I always love your comments Taylor Leigh. Xoxo

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TaylorLeighxxx393 reads

Thank you:)
And omg don't get me started on day jobs, kids and the whole nine! A guy last year literally forwarded a ridiculously long email thread between himself and another provider to me because he thought there was a chance I was her. Nevermind my website was completely different, email addy completely different. He could have simply asked me if I was her via email. They had obviously seen each other quite a bit, so the emails were very candid and detailed a lot about her civvie life. I forwarded to her so she would be aware and basically ripped him a new one for being so retarded. He even the audacity to request an appt with me. Hells no! Dudes spreading private info like it should be public knowledge.
I think one of the top lessons any provider needs to get asap before it's too late, is that if a guy comes to see you and spouts off private info about anyone else, they'll do exactly the same with your info.
I think the op was concerned more with identifying markers (like tattoo specifics) being chatted about via pm with the guys?  
Hopefully you all understand that the man behind the pm could be an ex looking to hunt her down, stalker who thought maybe he'd seen her somewhere. Sharing private personal info and details could put gals at risk! Please be considerate with private info ppl.

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kramer318367 reads

Definitely agree and hopefully everyone will honor that.

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