I ask this because I am not your traditional hobbyist - I am a major kinkster and fetishist. I'm not talking about licking toes either, it's far less vanilla. I'm asking this because I've gone to post a couple of reviews from great fetish providers but intentionally left out all the fetish parts because I wanted to help a great provider, and didn't want other guys to be wierded out by my own kinks to the point where what was intended to be a positive reference did more harm than good. So, lacking any substance (reviews are intended here to be erotic as the name states) by reviews did not get published by admin. So, I'll give an example, and would appreciate opinions as to if it was better to post my review in all its kinkiness or if I'm correct in not wanting to kiss and tell in a session that is very alternative. (straight-laced folks should stop reading here lol)
So if I were to have provided all the detail this is what it would have said:
After communicating via email and talking once before xxx came to my upscale hotel, and we met at the bar near the lobby for a cocktail and to get to know each other. I'm into big smiles with small chests and hips and she's exactly my type. We came up to my suite, and I showed her around, while she not-so casually mentioned she was bursting to pee, having done the homework I had asked of her. I slowly took off her shirt and shoes, and ran my fingers across her flat stomach as I unhooked her bra with my other hand. Now naked except for a light blue pair of skinny jeans, I led her over to the door, where a pair of velcro handcuffs were dangling from the spring above the door.
She looked at me with doe-like yet trusting eyes as I cuffed her wrists above her head. I grabbed a hold of her and we engaged in a deep, passionate kiss. Pulling away from her I smiled, and my fingers touched down on her ribs, resulting in giggling and some cute twitching. I began tickling under her arms and she shrieked with laughter struggling against her bonds, but clearly loving the sensations. I moved down to her ribs and stomach again, tickling harder, and she was overcome with laughter. As my left hand touched down on her inner thigh she jumped and shrieked with laughter and began helplessly soaking her jeans. I eased up, smiling, tickling her slowly and gently on the ribs now as I uncuffed her and stood back to admire my work. The smile on her face said it all.
I led her by the hand over to the bed, and pulled her soaking wet jeans and panties off, and dried her off. I then pulled out a very sexy Tena Slip-Maxi diaper (I have them imported from Europe, it requires smaller hips but is my favorite on girls) and lovingly put it on her. She stood before, wearing just a diaper, as I admired her innocent and beautiful physique. I dressed us both (she was told to bring multiple changes) and we went down again to the lounge for another cocktail and to grab a smoke outside. As I had told her, no one would know what we were wearing except the two of us. She said she felt liberated, naughty, and stealthy all at the same time.
We went back up to my suite, and I stripped her down to just her diaper. Both of us in that same attire we now began making out, naked except for our diapers, like young teenagers - kissing, wrestling, tickling each other silly. When I finally pinned her down I put her in the under the bed cuffs from lovers lane, soft and velcro, now cuffed spread eagle on my king bed in only a diaper. I began tickling all over her body, underarms, belly, thighs, feet, never more than 30-60 seconds, but very erotically. After about 3 minutes I watched her diaper get soaked yet again as she just totally let herself go with laughter. "Oh my God that was awesome" she said smiling. I then took the Hitachi out of her bag and plugged it in. Still tied to my bed, I began rubbing it up and down on her pussy over her diaper -- when wet it actually makes a girl's entire pubic area vibrate like mad. She had no less than 6 major orgasms inside of 5 minutes, at the end reduced to puppy-like whimpering that she couldn't take cumming any more.
I changed her and put some new really cute shorts on her as we both had another smart water and talked about life. We did this a few more times as I always only do long multi-hour sessions, alternating giving each other diapered oil massages, tickling each other, making out, and just enjoying hanging out together, in the lounge and in the suite. The final massage she gave me was so intense I thought my cock would literally shoot off. Very fun, open minded, laid back and energetic girl, highly recommend.
------ So - if you were that girl would you be happy I provided this review or wish I hadn't? Guys - while this is "not your thing" for 95+% of you did it make you turned on or turned off to the girl in the review? That's what I'm trying to figure out. I use TER for most of my filtering so I want to give back to the community, but I don't want to have my review actually be unhelpful to the girl who I am trying to help out for being great. Thanks for any responses.
PS -- if you're an ATL provider and found this intriguing or hot then hit me up! I come to town all the time 
I think you have me beat on the kink scale... On the other hand - while this is not a session I would have gotten into - it actually increased my desire to see this woman because I have stuff I occasionally like to do that's usually not on a published menu. She sounds like a real gem - PM me and let me know who she is..... But I like to flatter myself that I am not the average customer either.
So.... ask her. It's not like you are asking her what score you are going to give her and it's not like you weren't really happy with your session - some consideration of her desires in the matter are appropriate.
If she's not OK with it - you could probably make a TER passable review without the diapers, tickling and watersports. It would be considerably less entertaining and might only be a paragraph detailing the HJ at the end - but it would get the job done in terms of giving her some props (which from the review above would be richly deserved) and giving you another 15 days of VIP.
PS - How did you avoid buying a new mattress for the hotel.....
Posted By: mongo19621954
She sounds like a real gem - PM me and let me know who she is..... But I like to flatter myself that I am not the average customer either........PS - How did you avoid buying a new mattress for the hotel.....
This particular girl is in the Midwest, she doesn't go to ATL. I have played with a couple of wonderful pro subs in Atlanta, but like most BDSM purists anything sexual toward the client is off limits, and I enjoy things like dfk and cumming too, hence expanding my friend list a bit.
No mattresses were harmed in the making of this movie -- I don't trash hotel rooms, and I always use something to protect bedding, either those large underpads, or if we're wrestling and tickling each other in just our underwear I'll have a plastic sheet under the fitted sheet, so if it gets wet no harm will come to the mattress itself. They wash the sheets nightly anyway and a good sized hotel has 5-10 people that wet the bed each night, so it's not unusual, and I always leave $10-20 for the maid in the morning as a tip after taking out my own trash so they're happy too.
I agree with the previous poster. Also you said that you wanted to help a great provider out, so that was an important detail. I think you definitely need to respect her wishes. Is she is ok with letting folks know there are specialty items on her menu that otherwise we don't know about?
Remember there is implicit consent here - that if she does something with you she is generally open to doing that thing with everyone. You have to know if that is the case or not. And more importantly will sharing that info benefit her business model?
While your specific example doesn't do anything for me (I'm not into watersports) it might be good to know for others that are. And I do like the idea of exploring things not on her "vanilla" menu. Assuming she is open to sharing whatever that is with the general public.
The fact that you're asking this questions shows you understand the sensitivity of the situation. "Kinky" is a relative term and the further off the vanilla menu we get we have to respect the conundrum that we will excite certain kinksters (whoever is into that particular fetish) but shock/offend some mainstream gents. If you are "outing" a particular provider to a new kink not previously reviewed or openly discussed make well sure that she approves of your plan first.
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And I have had a couple providers ask me to include details which I had left out for precisely the reasons the OP listed. They understand that the lurkers sometimes are looking for the less obvious information. One mans kink is another mans Monday.
If I am going to add in some of those details though, I typically mention it to the provider to ensure it's something she wants out there and not something she is doing to endulge me.
Other than that, "the truth shall set you free"...which is total bullshit, but fits well in this moment.
A provider needs to get to know you before she'll submit in a scene. Once she gains trust in you, you can pre negotiate limits and then play away. No provider who has bottomed to me wants details published for the simple reason they're not stupid enough to offer submission to somebody they don't know and trust.
Especially if she doesn't advertise this service. Sometimes we don't want every Tom, Dick and Harry asking for something we only offered to one gentleman, ya know?
I am not really one to kiss and tell in the first place, so I'd ask before reviewing even if I was vanilla anyway, especially if it was a girl who didn't already have descriptive reviews. I'd just like to be able to contribute to the community more without revealing something that a girl did not want revealed. Well, it looks like I'm making the right call.
It'd be nice to be able to more easily tell from a provider ad who might be into my kinks, as the term 'fetish friendly' doesn't really mean anything, but oh well. Maybe one of you out there will like my post enough to let me know you want to try it out
Thanks for the responses!
PS by now you have probably figured out what the 'DL' in my handle stands for........
I can't get your message, and because I only use AmEx (which doesn't work here, not TER's fault, it's the fault of AmEx for being prudes) I cannot buy an immediate VIP without mailing a money order out to another continent. Please for now email me at bj1123581321 at yahoo dot com instead until I can find another way to get VIP'd and get PMs. Thanks
