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"Established" or not;; reviews are always needed.
BangfortheBuck Benny 1629 reads
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Giving her the option is a gentlemanly consideration; but dollars to doughnuts if you were pleased and she knows it she'll want the world to know also. A favorable review is like a no cost 60 second commercial during the Superbowl for the ladies when compared to the monthly paid for promotion on the various escort malls.
In addition it is beneficial for we hobbyists in showing that the provider is still active, as well as maintaining, improving or possibly slipping in her standard of service.

 Many providers have hundreds of TER reviews. Although some providers and hobbyists alike think that is distasteful; the fact is those who keep getting new reviews keep getting new clients and make bank doing so.;-)

Background: I just recently saw my first provider.  Very classy and upscale.  Had a great time and certainly would like to see again.

She already has 8-10 reviews from established members here on TER.  I am wondering if I should post a review, however I am curious if I should be asking permission first.  I can understand being the the first to post a review as a service to the community but if she is already established is it really needed?


If you have the time, don't mind earning some VIP status time, and like parading your thoughts out in front of the peanut gallery, then go for it.

Otherwise, you can just enjoy the site and sleep soundly with a clear conscious.

...on your first encounter, and glad to hear it went well.

It probably wouldn't hurt to run it by her if you're unsure.  Indeed some ladies end up getting reviewed, when in fact they'd prefer not to be.  

She'll probably also appreciate the fact that you were so considerate.....which is always a good thing.

Yes, by all means review her. Reviewing her is helpful for both you and her. If she is as experienced as you say, chances are she is aware of TER, and is aware that she has reviews here. If she objected to being review, she has the option to request to have them removed, and likely would have done so by now. It is safe to assume that if she has several reviews, she probably has no objections.

Just for some perspective, the phrase "well reviewed" provider is often seen on these boards. For you, 8-10 reviews is sufficient, but some gentlemen don't view a lady as well reviewed unless she has a few pages of reviews.

Not only that, but reviews help us ladies just as much as they help the gentlemen. It helps us stay visible because our names come up at the top of searches, and it lets gentlemen know we are still active. If men stopped reviewing us just because we have several reviews already, pretty soon then at some point someone looking at our reviews and seeing the last one was several months ago will think we are no longer active.

So yes, you have something to add, and yes you are doing both other hobbyists, and the lady in question a favor with your review. So by all means, write it up and share your great experience!

one occssion I have had the lady ask me to write a review to "bring her name to the top".

BangfortheBuck Benny1630 reads

Giving her the option is a gentlemanly consideration; but dollars to doughnuts if you were pleased and she knows it she'll want the world to know also. A favorable review is like a no cost 60 second commercial during the Superbowl for the ladies when compared to the monthly paid for promotion on the various escort malls.
In addition it is beneficial for we hobbyists in showing that the provider is still active, as well as maintaining, improving or possibly slipping in her standard of service.

 Many providers have hundreds of TER reviews. Although some providers and hobbyists alike think that is distasteful; the fact is those who keep getting new reviews keep getting new clients and make bank doing so.;-)

I would suggest contacting her, telling her you had a nice time (if you did) and asking her if it's okay if you post a review. Do not as her to read the content or approve it because it's your review but I would do it if I was you. It can only help your reputation with other ladies if you do.

Alyssa

My previous philosophy on reviews was if I had something to add (session was either much worse or better than expected) than I would write one and if it was as expected no matter how good I wouldn't. Then I read one of Sins posts as she has written here and understood the value of the review from a provider standpoint. Now I write a review unless specifically asked not to write one, which has happened twice.

In that old post the question revolved around should you ask the provider during the session if she wants a review, which I think and other posted may spoil the atmosphere unless she specifically brings it up. So as suggested in this post, an email after session asking if she minds a review would be a nice thoughtful touch.

Now for some etiquette suggestions on writing the review; Review the provider not yourself please, you know the old "I dove down for some DATY and made her O twice until she begged me to fuck her" crap only flies so far here. Provide information to others that you would want to know about the session i.e. what’s on the menu, was shower available, where you left donation etc.

For the sake of the provider do not reveal specifics about her location, if during the session she provides with services she doesn't normally do DFK, BBBJ etc do not include those.

Most of all have fun, relive what was hopefully a fun experience and prime your pump for the next one.

Tell it as you saw it.  If the encounter  met or exceeded your expectations, say so.  If if was not up to what you expected, say so.  Be HONEST.  Don't sugarcoat it just because the provider had a lot of good reviews.  

We guys read reviews to determine if we want to see that provider, and if you don't give us an honest review, we will wonder about her, if your review is radically different from the rest of her reviews.    Not to mention, we will probably not trust your future reviews, because we will probably go check the rest of your reviews.

Bottom line, don't review just for the free VIP days, do it for all of us hobbyists including yourself, and be brutally HONEST.  Remember, we do it for you, so do it for all of us.

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