for the massage and happy ending. Since you're going to be the only "customer," I would think that the answer will be what you're most comfortable with and what works best for you.

Prefer spit if she can muster some up! I just think it's so much more sensual and erotic.

I dont know what she was using at the 5:20 second mark in this vid but by the 9 min mark I am convinced this is what I am looking for!!! The consistency of that lube might be what I want and another bottle of massage or nuru oil for the other parts of the body.  Funny I googled the best oil for Handjobs and it indicated Johnson and Johnson baby Oil 0.

...are often my main go-to's as lube. For massage I use NURU (especially with hj's but i've had fun with it during sexytime as lube) or oils like grapeseed, sunflower, almond, coconut, jojoba etc.

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Platinum Wet for hand job and Kama Sutra for massage.....smells so nice!

You are just using it for hjs and massages. Seriously, oil based are best for that activity, however if you plan for an other activities then do not use oil. If a cover is on the agenda Dont use oil it will seriously increase chances of breaking. Unless you use non-latex covers.  
If you are strictly massages- coconut oil, which is great for the skin and reminds me if the beach
Vaginal- stick with water based - fave liquid silk, but astroglide is still one of the best. If it ain't broke why fix it?

One more thing not relevant, but is while I am on the topic of lube. Anal- always use lube. Saliva not going to cut it. That part of body is not naturally lubricated at all, and it absorbs moisture a lot quicker than the vagina. Therefore, if you can the best for that is silicone... It lasts so much longer and is thicker. But Dont use silicone toys there if you do. So, if you are using latex you need a water based.  The closest to silicone without being silicone is Maximus.  

Have fun!
Xox

Preferably with some gagging and DT in the mix.

Son, always date a lady with small hands......it'll make your dick look big.

saliva

I'm a big fan of alternating between gagging to produce slick saliva and using my hands.

I think somewhere back in the day I used to hear so many guys complain about a lady using her hands during a BJ that now I usually don't do so by default, in case someone hates that?  But I actually love alternating the two and using my natural saliva as lubrication.

Getting sloppy is hot & fun!  

I even have a special herbal portion that I can rinse my mouth with that makes it *extra* sloppy.  This is something special that I offer that I don't think anyone else does that I know of.  It's made from a flower that was traditionally used to treat tooth pain, and has the side effect of making the salivary glands produce spit profusely for several minutes when chewed or when an extraction of the flower is swished in the mouth.  So I keep that concoction on hand for when I notice that someone is extra enthusiastic about the sloppiness.