I understand the reasons for not discussing specific acts. The problem is how are you supposed to find what you're looking for if you have specific desires? Many girls have web sites, but what about the rest?
It seems like it could be very hard to find someone if you can't discuss it until the second meeting.
Good point. What's worked for me so far has been to do my homework on TER before contacting the lady.
If you have VIP membership then you're able to get a feel, beforehand, for what services a lady offers. You can also confirm (from the juicy details in the reviews) whether those services are indeed rendered.
By the time you get in touch with her, you already know what you need to know.....and therefore don't have to make it part of the discussion during your first communication.
Yeah, but Ive found some of best ones, usually the older ladies, provide their own reviews.
Not sure where you are from since you have 0 reviews but, in my 5+ years, the TER reviews have been MOST helpful for me.