for use on tolls roads that have exact change booths...
But seriously, just follow whatever instructions are on the providers site regarding this. The envelope seems to be the tool of choice in over 90% of the cases.
In my case, if I've seen a person a number of times, I just slip the cash into their hands during the last hug and kiss before we go. It has a certain "Je ne sais quois" about it.
I've learned that providers want the client to leave the envelope somewhere in plain view and in some cases I've read providers prefer it left in the bathroom. I understand that counting money in front of a client could not only be risky but rude as well. My question is do providers count the money discreetly or in private prior to the end of the session so they know they received the correct amount? Or is it a matter of being sure you use proper screening to meet trustworthy clients?
Many ladies won't even touch the envelope until on the way out. Some will count it, some won't. Some will do it in front of you, others...
I just visited with my first provider a couple days ago and she didn't even touch it until I had left her hotel. I know this because she called me as I drove out of the parking lot and she said I was much too generous with the additional gratutity and felt she "owed" me and would make it up on her next visit. I told her she shouldn't feel she owed me for anything. She was so sweet and I hope she does remember to contact me when she's back in town so I can see her again.
Most of my clients will just leave the envelope on my counter next to the door either when they arrive or before they leave. It's discreet and I never have to worry about counting.
I had one gentleman recently that stepped in the apartment we started kissing...he literally hops up, reaches in his pocket and pulls out a wad of money. He proceeds to count it right in front of me then shove it at me.
Of course I took it but I will not be seeing him again. Not only was that rude it was very inappropriate.
The envelope is one of the necessities of the date but try as hard as you can to make it as innocuous as possible. I normally would suggest just reaching in your pocket and laying it on the nearest table. Or when you wash up leave in in the bathroom and mention to her that you've left her something in the washroom.
I personally dislike the white envelop, although I don't discourage it. Many girls want it at the beginning of the date so they can discreetly count it while you are in the bathroom or while they are before the activities begin. I don't acknowledge or discuss the money in the presence of the client. The more discreetly it's handled, the better, due to LE.
Am I to understand there are other ways to leave the donation....other than in the white envelope, that is?
for use on tolls roads that have exact change booths...
But seriously, just follow whatever instructions are on the providers site regarding this. The envelope seems to be the tool of choice in over 90% of the cases.
In my case, if I've seen a person a number of times, I just slip the cash into their hands during the last hug and kiss before we go. It has a certain "Je ne sais quois" about it.