I'm a new hobbyist and looking for my first encounter. I've found a couple possibilities but they require referrals. What's the best way to start and get referrals??
TIA
just a suggestion.. there are some ladies who are non-full service providers ie. sensual massage therapists, erotic massage, and such. many of them don't require referrals but can give referrals based on their session with you, and probably know lots of the full service girls in the industry. might be a good way to get started as they are a less expensive but a great way to get your foot (or many other body parts) in the door.
write to them and explain your situation as sincerely and openly as possible.
It really helps to give as much personal information as you can (only do this with a very well reviewed provider, not a non-reviewed CL escort).
In time you'll get hooked up, have a reference and you'll be on your way to hobby heaven.
On some of the regional boards, you occasionally guys in your position posting asking if there are any gals willing to work with him. I know it varies by location, but on the Phoenix board (my former home), they are generally well received, and some interesting options are suggested.