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Isn't Greek the safe word?
happycamper109 7 Reviews 553 reads
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i'm so confused

Tried to ask this earlier but only got responses about prepping for greek and appropriate comments that "shit happens," which I sincerely appreciate.  

My real question is how do I let a lady know that I want greek or whatever other activity when we're not supposed to discuss activities ahead of time.  Is there a safe word(s) or phrase, i.e., "I hope all of you will be available during our time."

Thanks in advance again,

Z

jimbeam#7834 reads

What I suggest if she has reviews and it states anal, you can discreetly ask her if her if her reviews are up to date and have her to look or just ask if there are options on the menu.
Just my 2 cts worth

Posted By: Ziggy
Tried to ask this earlier but only got responses about prepping for greek and appropriate comments that "shit happens," which I sincerely appreciate.  
   
 My real question is how do I let a lady know that I want greek or whatever other activity when we're not supposed to discuss activities ahead of time.  Is there a safe word(s) or phrase, i.e., "I hope all of you will be available during our time."  
   
 Thanks in advance again,  
   
 Z

ATLDAWG667 reads

Why don't you go thru the normal process of screening etc....then at a time that appears to be appropriate-raise the question?

From personal experience.....a gal can say yes or no....but it all depends on the size of your unit....you can't just expect a gal to take something that is super huge...so,  it really depends on your session and as the other gents said,  profile and when you get there.....there are gals that have a limit on what they will take....speaking from previous experience.....there were some ---NO WAY'S!   LOL!   Then there is the question is she "prepared".......it's just such a touchy subject.....no way in really knowing either way....you seem to be really into anal...LOL!   :)

I personally quit...hurt too much.....

 

good luck my dear....  xo

Khori

can get deeper into the subject,  no pun intended,  but I won't....lol....

As if the condom broke?  UH OH!!!!

At times doing anal, can "tear" or "rupture" the inner tissue and be very dangerous with a broken condom and "fluids"....just another uh oh....you can take it from there........

Sorry to be a downer...but,  I find it dangerous for ME...NOT speaking for anyone else.....just my thoughts.....

take care....

Khori,  

Thanks for your comments. I appreciate the insight not just for your position about Greek but also about the process. I am fascinated with it and have had a couple of really fun times with butt play- rimming (giving and receiving) as well as fucking. Is it a requirement for my dates?  No, not at all but I'd like to have the option and wanted to know how to communicate that when booking.  

Thanks again,

Z

I enjoy giving and receiving rimming....  :)  That to me is fun....

Just say,  like TL said....is "Greek" an option?  I think,  I'm pretty sure......most gals won't mind that question.....(I think)?   LOL....happy hobbying Baby.....

After a gentleman is screened I have no problem with him just asking. Besides I NEED to know if I am going to be properly prepared. If the lady is uncomfortable with you asking after screening is done then maybe just phrase is like "are you up for a trip to the Isles" or "is your back door unlocked?"  I would think most ladies that advertise greek would be OK with you just asking, just so long as you are screened.. but I could be wrong. I can only really speak for myself on this though so hopefully this will help :)
Hugs and kisses
The but slut lol
TL

... if some don't have it ads or on their websites or ter or p411 profiles they are into this I probaly would wait until the date to ask and if you plan on seeing her again ask at the end of that date about doing it on the next. BUT some providers after proper screening might not mind you asking about it ... sometimes it's not what you say/ask but how. Might need to play it by ear.

My opinion is that the term "greek" has become so commonly know for butt fucking that you might as well say butt fucking!!

Z

Ask for what u want its no problem discussing details especially with repeat clientele

For example, "I want to you to f*uck my *ss, m*mmy" will probably not get a response you would like, if you ever hear back from her at all even after screening.  Whereas, after screening, "I would like a three hour session with SO/PM starting at 9 AM at your incall. Dress like a librarian", should get a reasonable response.  It might or might not be a response you would like but it should be reasonably civil if it's on her menu.  If it doesn't get a civil response, well, you are honestly better off not dealing with a woman who isn't a professional.  After all -- it ain't like you are talking to a nun here... well, not a real one, anyway.... though she might dress up like one.....  the fabled leather nun... but I digress.

If she doesn't advertise it, and it's a deal breaker if you don't get it, I wouldn't bother calling her in the first place.  There are a ton of ladies in this town in all sorts of price ranges who will do all number of things to and for you for a fee - and, more specifically, advertise that they do.

My opinion based on a VERY small sample size of some wonderful ladies is that these girls really are professionals and just want to know what the customer wants.  My issue has been knowing what I really want versus what I think I want.

Everyone,

Thanks for the advice.  It seems that the best answer is to be polite, respectful and diplomatic and I'll probably get and the answer I want - an honest one!  

Z

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