Jail-only had one call and that was to her "Handler/Assistant"
Has anyone else run into this problem, email provider for appointment and get one, only to have her go dark. I call to get direction to her location only to get her voice mail, twice I call and the next day and still nothing.
Cell phone stolen
Flat tire
Family Event
Accident
Eviction
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?any other predictions?
Enjoy the rationalization. You may never hear from her, but if you do, sometimes the make up sex can be fantastic Post her name, someone may provide you insight
Pass the popcorn bball
The plot. Our dear provider:
Got a sudden, unexpected visit by Aunt Flo after she...
Forgot she had double booked with another provider elsewhere but she...
Won $500 off the scratch off lottery ticket so she used that money to post an ad and...
Someone answered her Ash^&* Mad!$@^ advert only to realize that...
her S.O. just got out of prison and he's a very jealous, violent man. So she had to leave town.
See? These things just write themselves.
Sure, no one wants of Peanut M&Ms? ga_kos
what possible stories could one provider make out of those two scenarios.
I guess the Eviction man could leave a 24hr notice, she sees it and has to cancel last minute.
Family Event there's no way that story could pass. for example she books appointment same day as her sister wedding.
Cell phone stolen
flat tire
accident
pet sick
now those I could buy!
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The sick pet I had forgotten about. Great lis
Chick told me she had to take the dog to the vet lol, out of all the days the dogs could've got sick he suddenly gets sick 11am coincidently my appointment time haha.
Aunt Flo is in town
Provider forgot about the appointment
Her assistant forgot about the appointment
She double booked you
Something about you spooked her at the last minute
She had one too many adult bevvies the night before
Her cell phone died/lost/got stolen
Had to take her kids to the doctors
Along with other possibilities advisor mentioned
Jail-only had one call and that was to her "Handler/Assistant"
I'm still waiting a reply from a very well known and reputable provider to my screening info submitted. Reached out with request by way of her preferred method of contact, and got almost immediate reply with request for refs. Submitted refs and all TER and p411 ids, then cricket noises. Nothing, even on a follow up email two days later. While very respectful in my emails, and having solid refs, I'm left thinking something spooked her (can't imagine what), or she just got busy. Can't really do anything about either, so I hope for the best and move on.
Sometimes no reply means no - albeit in a non-confrontational way. It really doesn't matter what the reason is. On some occasions, it may be something in your profile that is a cause of concern, your references don't check out, or she doesn't like someone else you've seen.
Having said that, the lady may be busy with other things in her life, so to me, two days isn't a long time. I wouldn't expect a lady that hasn't seen you before to screen and schedule you the same day you contact her.
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Yes, you are certainly correct. Sometimes a no-reply means no, and it could certainly be any number of various reasons. And as for the time, shoot, I waited almost 2-weeks for one provider who finally got back to me with a thumbs up. And after patiently waiting and eventually giving up there, we ended up having a fantastic time together. None of these fine ladies are obligated to reply to us, in any particular time frame either.
Most likely set off a redflag & spooked at last minute if u still haven't heard back from her
It is all in the way they tell you - if they want to make it up and give you 2 hours for the price of one then it is legit. If they have lame stories that sound like a meth head - well they probably are a meth head and just ditched you because someone had some dope or they just forgot because they were rolling for 2 days.
The reality is you cant' count on very many providers and even the top drawer ladies have things that come up - so either have a back up plan or just bite the bullet and move on.
I have lost three previous ATF's due to this type of thing and it just comes with the territory - expect it to happen!
Happy Hunting in the New Year
Start now. Every time you get a NCNS or a last minute cancellation, put a twenty in a jar. Then every two or three years dump the jar out and use the cash for a multi-hour visit with a favorite lady, or book an out of town trip and go on a fucking vacation!