I vote for whorable
Has anyone ever ever had a sugar daddy/ baby arrangement? I currently have a 25 yr old I an paying 1500$ for 1- 2x weekly visits. Not sure how long it will last. Anyone have this arrangement before? Where do you meet others?
You are wayyyyyyy overpaying
How much would one need to pay for that type of arrangement?
thats a month- still too much?
But since you asked, what you described is a rather common price/arrangement. Whether it's sustainable for any length of time depends a lot on her wants and needs.
Obviously she can't survive on $1,500 a month, so either she is using this to augment a civvie job, OR she is by necessity going to have to have other clients.
The last thing you ever want her to do is find this board. Once the BSU's and other hoookers convince her how badly you are treating her, and how much money she could actually be making, your "relationship" won't last a week. lol
In the meantime, it sounds like a great deal for you, depending on how long your weekly sessions are of course. If you are seeing her for only an hour a week, well it's not that great a deal. If OTOH you see her for two multi hour dates a week that you thoroughly enjoy, in that case you are getting a GREAT deal.
One last thing, expecting exclusivity in an arrangement like this is probably not realistic. Unless she truly has feelings for you, she most likely either has other clients, or a "real" boyfriend, or both. My advice on that part of it is to not ask too many questions in that regard. If you are the jealous type this will fall apart in no time.
Is she hot?
Does she only sees you?
Imo you are way overpaying
Yea. Sees only me, hot, NO limits!
Does she only sees you?
Imo you are way overpaying
Why would she want to get into an exclusive relationship and only make 1500 a week?
because she is having 5 other exclusive relatinships at the same time loll chicks!
Either we're horrible people, or just plain whore-able.
You are overpaying, just my opinion...take a look at this site.
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/
That's only $18,000 a year, she would not even be considered middle class with a salary that low. And it would be even lower in places like NY, LA and Vegas.
My only concern with giving a provider a set salary is that I would expect her to be "exclusive" meaning I would have to be the only client she see's.
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its all about the mutually beneficial relationship...as it were.
as others have pointed out there are numerous sites sugarbabiesforme, seeking arrangements,
etc just keep your eyes and ears open and if you can answer yes to the question is it a good deal for all parties then you are not paying to much or too little.
Good luck and keep us posted.
If you care about her you want her to be happy....no exceptions bro
Oh YESSS!!!!!!! lol definitely an awesome suggestion
paid her rent $1000$ . got one evening each week (4 - 6 hrs) not exclusive. lost interest after 6 months (wanted more variety)
I really liked the relationship part of it and it being a lot more personal. I liked being able to seek out men that have the same kink as me too and develop trust and caring within that kink. Escorting has been a lot more vanilla for me. It was a lot of hustle though. And, since SD's are kind of unreliable, I had to hustle a lot. Especially once I became comfortable with being a slutty SB. lol I used Seeking Arrangement & Ashley Madison mostly.
You're getting a pretty good deal though. $1500-2000/mo. + shopping/gifts is fairly standard for 4x/mo. assuming those dates are actual dates with dinner, etc.
Ive had a few SB relationships and so have my close friends over the last few years...
What Ive learned....
1) There is no rule of thumb amount. If she is cool with what you're giving her -- and you're cool with it -- then its a go. Every sugar baby relationship is not about supporting someone's entire life. If you're augmenting her life with 1500 extra a month as you put it -- thats a game changing pretty significant for a lot of people working check to check (thats rent -- or both if she has a small place -- thats huge for some people. Can you imagine a young girl not having to worry about a car note or apartment -- game changing for some people -- you know how many hot girls i see in hoopties...ok im digressing but you get the point)
2) Stay away from the 'support my entire life' or 'pay my way through college' sugar babies...they only get increasingly needy and its a tough time breaking it off. What you have above is a good thing (18 grand tax free is like 25 grand of legal money out of your pocket -- people never look at it that way -- thats not chump change and you're not monopolizing her time)
3) use your big head always when discussing arrangements (stay smart)
A lot of these girls ask for too much because they saw some tv show about a guy paying someone 10-20 grand a month...it's not impossible and to each his own but its not worth that.
With SugarBabies you get
- Extended time (spend the entire day or night...take a trip/etc). It's a full wonderful date experience with a super hot lady on your arm.
- Extreme GFE if there's a mutual attraction (even in public if you want that in terms of having her on your arm going to a nice restaurant/ext)
- Higher likelihood of true private sector ladies (me and my friends have met a lot of college students, professional models, sports team cheerleaders, working professionals, and waitresses who were more than down)
- A somewhat untraveled flower who is highly curious about experiences (best kind)
A lot of my single friends have had SB's that converted over to dating status and the payment arrangement stopped being so formal. Im still great friends with a few of the girls who were SBs of mine
If she's hot and she's cool with the arrangement -- then there ya go -- enjoy it -- milk it -- enjoy it more -- it wont last forever. Leave your jealousy at the door -- try not to catch too many feelings (hard not to if they're beautiful and know how to lay the schmoozing on thick)
It takes more time to truly vet and secure a super hot one -- but its so nice when you do. Happy trails
Having done the sb thing for the last 6 years I have to agree with everything you've said. I've been fortunate to have 3 insane relationships and yes they are relationships. Funny thing is it took me a year to adjust to the fact there was no clock.
What Ive learned....
1) There is no rule of thumb amount. If she is cool with what you're giving her -- and you're cool with it -- then its a go. Every sugar baby relationship is not about supporting someone's entire life. If you're augmenting her life with 1500 extra a month as you put it -- thats a game changing pretty significant for a lot of people working check to check (thats rent -- or both if she has a small place -- thats huge for some people. Can you imagine a young girl not having to worry about a car note or apartment -- game changing for some people -- you know how many hot girls i see in hoopties...ok im digressing but you get the point)
2) Stay away from the 'support my entire life' or 'pay my way through college' sugar babies...they only get increasingly needy and its a tough time breaking it off. What you have above is a good thing (18 grand tax free is like 25 grand of legal money out of your pocket -- people never look at it that way -- thats not chump change and you're not monopolizing her time)
3) use your big head always when discussing arrangements (stay smart)
A lot of these girls ask for too much because they saw some tv show about a guy paying someone 10-20 grand a month...it's not impossible and to each his own but its not worth that.
With SugarBabies you get
- Extended time (spend the entire day or night...take a trip/etc). It's a full wonderful date experience with a super hot lady on your arm.
- Extreme GFE if there's a mutual attraction (even in public if you want that in terms of having her on your arm going to a nice restaurant/ext)
- Higher likelihood of true private sector ladies (me and my friends have met a lot of college students, professional models, sports team cheerleaders, working professionals, and waitresses who were more than down)
- A somewhat untraveled flower who is highly curious about experiences (best kind)
A lot of my single friends have had SB's that converted over to dating status and the payment arrangement stopped being so formal. Im still great friends with a few of the girls who were SBs of mine
If she's hot and she's cool with the arrangement -- then there ya go -- enjoy it -- milk it -- enjoy it more -- it wont last forever. Leave your jealousy at the door -- try not to catch too many feelings (hard not to if they're beautiful and know how to lay the schmoozing on thick)
It takes more time to truly vet and secure a super hot one -- but its so nice when you do. Happy trails
Everytime I see a SD/SB thread, you are the first person that comes to mind.
One further thought about sugar babies. Don't try to "catch them" cheating on you. Just enjoy your time with her, and try not to fall in love. If she is only spending a day or two out of the week with you, most likely she is filling the rest of her time with either a BF or another client. I subscribe to the "don't ask, don't tell" philosophy.
So it's just part of the deal.
One further thought about sugar babies. Don't try to "catch them" cheating on you. Just enjoy your time with her, and try not to fall in love. If she is only spending a day or two out of the week with you, most likely she is filling the rest of her time with either a BF or another client. I subscribe to the "don't ask, don't tell" philosophy.
I'm somewhat reluctant to bring that discussion here. I am sensitive to the fact that the SB thing has cut into the hobby greatly. Although there are certainly a fair share of escorts on the SD sites.
I used to see a lady (long retired) who used to brag about the multiple numbers of sugar daddys she had. You know - one bought the boob job, the other the car etc.
I think we are inthe midst of a paradigm shift.
Perhaps a hobby renaissance. Lol