More and more men are using performance enhancing drugs even when their not needed. I have been surprised at how many younger men contact me to get together and of course being an inquisitive lady i'll spend extra time getting to know them. Many are taking the little blue pill to last longer and to stay hard as possible. If you can use a pick-me-upper why not at any age.
I love oral ; giving and receiving which makes me find intercourse second best. Oral can heighten your sensual journal till the last minute or can make a grand finale. You'll never age out of oral foreplay even in your 90's There are ladies of all ages interested in meeting gentlemen in all age groups. I think you have many good years of experiencing all that your looking for and enjoy with just a little research. Kisses HaleyMy Friends,
I'm currently 55 years young. I'm fit, financially secure and happy. I have the most stamina of my entire life AND I know how to please a woman with techniquece, patience, and understanding.
I love the hobby and have met some absolutely wonderful people.
However, I wonder how my Hobbying experience will be as I get to 60 and above. I'm hoping it will be just as enjoyable, but I wonder...
I'd love to hear the perspective of my fellows. What has your experience been?
All positive insight will be appreciated.
By the way...I intend to ask a similar question of the ladies on the General Board and if the gentlemen on the Hobbyist Only Board.
Thanks
.... you wouldn't say you want only positive insights. There might be some negative experiences out there from which you can glean some value.
I already gave my view on the GD. That was before I knew this question would be repeated in 3 places. As Steve Martin used to say.... "Well ex-CUUUUUUUUSE me!!!"
I'm currently 55 years young. I'm fit, financially secure and happy. I have the most stamina of my entire life AND I know how to please a woman with techniquece, patience, and understanding.
I love the hobby and have met some absolutely wonderful people.
However, I wonder how my Hobbying experience will be as I get to 60 and above. I'm hoping it will be just as enjoyable, but I wonder...
I'd love to hear the perspective of my fellows. What has your experience been?
All positive insight will be appreciated.
By the way...I intend to ask a similar question of the ladies on the General Board and if the gentlemen on the Hobbyist Only Board.
Thanks!
I thought I was clear on each board that I would be asking the question on other boards to get the most responses. Also, the question was asked on boards with very different participants.
Finally, "positive" was intended to deter smartasses and idiots.
All other perspectives are welcome.
Thanks.
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Just look at the threads below.
Second, ladies are eligible to participate in the Reviewers board. Lopaw for example has enough reviews to qualify. Not sure if she or other female hobbyists look in there though.
And third, it's common for both men and women to participate in any/all threads on the GD, even if the OP asks for opinions form ladies or guys. It's a GENERAL discussion.
Question for you: why not simply post this question once, either here or on GD, and get opinions from everyone? Why the overly complex and repetitious segmentation of responses?
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The limits on my hobby have to do with: 1) I am working harder and longer hours and with more diverse responsibilities than ever. Scheduling is tough
2) many grandkids want my free time
3) friends with benefits and wife take uo some slack
4) I have a longer refractory period so longer time between climaxes. I still have ay least two in two hours but used always to have three. I find the use of Cialis gets me back to three.
5) I used he keep my consulting work funds separate and traveled more for my consulting work, now my spouse and I mingle funds and I travel less so if I see someone for say $750 and someone else is suddenly available two days later, I offen need more time to accumulate unexplained money. This was an unseen consequence of mixing her side income funds with mine. (benefits for stashing tax free retirement funds,)
So far circumstance rather than age has had the most effect on my activity.
(I am also no longer wanted in the "over forty" hardball league since over forty is full of men in their forties, my eye sight has gotten worse, my reflexes a bit slower and no one wants me as their second baseman.)
funding are my biggest obstacles, especially time.
2) many grandkids want my free time
4) I have a longer refractory period so longer time between climaxes. I still have ay least two in two hours but used always to have three. I find the use of Cialis gets me back to three.
5) I used he keep my consulting work funds separate and traveled more for my consulting work, now my spouse and I mingle funds and I travel less so if I see someone for say $750 and someone else is suddenly available two days later, I offen need more time to accumulate unexplained money. This was an unseen consequence of mixing her side income funds with mine. (benefits for stashing tax free retirement funds,)
So far circumstance rather than age has had the most effect on my activity.
...and save your energy for that 3rd shot!!
i used to cum all night..now it takes me all night to cum..
I`m 71 and just starting in this game. I didn`t know it even existed until recently. I`d been dormant too many years and I now feel happier than ever. Biggest boost for me was Viagra and the sweetest young girl I could ever ask for.
It`s so nice I`m considering going back to the gym and quit smoking.
At 55 (wanna trade?) you`ll have many more years of fun
It`s so nice I`m considering going back to the gym and quit smoking.
At 55 (wanna trade?) you`ll have many more years of fun.
I will continue seeing the young ladies as long as they will see me whether I can perform or not. After all they don't care, it's mostly a job for them. If you treat them well they will treat you well.
I saw a 25 year old yesterday, she told me I was a providers dream client, stating that I was all shaved, face and pubes I was clean, treated her right, on time and the donation was right. After all that is all they want from me. If they want more their boyfriend will provide that for them. Keep on poonin'
I entered the hobby when I turned 60 and my wife said she was no longer interested in sex or anything sexual for that matter. That was about 5+ years ago. I use Cialis that I buy from Canada. I find that I enjoy being with these ladies and I no longer resent my wife for not caring about my needs.
I've only come across two problems:
1. I just don't have the stamina I used to. I'm fine in the sack but sometimes, when I consider everything I have to do to get there and come up with the money, etc. I just don't have the energy. If I do have the energy to go and get laid 2 cups is just a vague memory.
2. I've been battling skin cancers of various sorts and some of the medication I have to take makes my soldier reluctant and slow to come to attention. So the ladies have to really earn their pay by showing him lots of attention.
I am currently seeing only one girl, a 28 yo delicious provider on a regular basis and that`s fine with me. I have come to learn at 71 that the "pseudo" love BUT real affection, bonding, laughter and genuine friendship we trade is priceless and as welcome and necessary as the porn-star performances of the old days. Since recently getting into this game I no longer live vicariously in the fantasy world of porn and yesteryear's trysts. Reality is sweet again and I`m lovin' it!
I said to myself not too long ago "enough of this fake life asshole, you're deep in the homestretch, man up and just go for it!"
And so I did and I feel re-born and am a happy camper... WTF was I thinking!?
Remember this my fellow seniors, screw the boners and O`s, if they happen (and they will) fine. Either way, the affection and bonding will keep that smile on your face. Rock on dudes.
You aren't 21 so don't try to perform like you are. I'm 61 and I learned that along time ago. Enjoy the moment, savor it and remember as much as you can about the experience, it'll be the only thing you'll have. Take a deep breath and suck in as much as you can.
I learned as time went on to explore other "fetishes" and to find ladies that will enjoy what I'm curious about, and so far it's working out great. So being 55 is great to be now, enjoy it
That was 14 years ago! The improvement in my entire outlook on life that playing with all these sweet angels has made has been enormous. As for my physical changes with age, I find it more difficult to achieve an orgasm. I do use Viagra and some report that can be a contributing factor. But since I also have more difficulty getting off thru masturbation, which I do without any drugs, I think it's just a matter of aging. Anyway, I don't consider it a problem at all. It allows me to keep going as long as I like and boy do I like!
More and more men are using performance enhancing drugs even when their not needed. I have been surprised at how many younger men contact me to get together and of course being an inquisitive lady i'll spend extra time getting to know them. Many are taking the little blue pill to last longer and to stay hard as possible. If you can use a pick-me-upper why not at any age.
I love oral ; giving and receiving which makes me find intercourse second best. Oral can heighten your sensual journal till the last minute or can make a grand finale. You'll never age out of oral foreplay even in your 90's
There are ladies of all ages interested in meeting gentlemen in all age groups. I think you have many good years of experiencing all that your looking for and enjoy with just a little research.
Kisses Haley
Haley -
You remain a lady after my heart although I only was with you one time. I absolutely love oral both ways too and as I have gotten older it has evolved to be my favorite activity. Nothing is more of a boost to my ego than to provide a long session of oral to a lady that truly enjoys it and shows it.
...so I try to stay fit & healthy so I can keep going and I'm way over 60. If anything it just keeps getting better.
....just not as fast, not as hard, and not as often! (old joke but it seemed to fit this thread)
I'm sure it's different for each guy, but for me my peak hobby years were between the ages of 57 and 59. Excess cash was flowing, and sessions happened often. When circumstance permitted, hobby benders were the norm. From 60 on, the partying has decreased with each successive year. Since all atfs eventually move on, especially if you can't marry them, it's harder to maintain atf status when playing less frequently. That's what I miss the most. When you're an atf, many ladies stay in contact in between sessions. Another contributing factor is the choice of ladies. In my area, back in the day, I had a two page list of ladies I wanted to see. Now I look through the local ads, and rarely stop. If I'm going to pay Pebble Beach rates, I expect a Pebble Beach party. Now I can look at an ad, and tell right away it won't be a Pebble Beach party.
Nevertheless, even though I don't party as much, thinking about the hobby gets me through some tough work days. It was just more fun when you had several emails waiting when you got home from work.
In no particular order:
1. As you get older you may want to see a urologist once a year to be sure that your prostate is in good shape. If you start to have problems with BPH, be compliant with whatever medications your physician prescribes. They work.
2. There is no shame in using Viagra or other ED medications. Just be sure to find the right dosage by trial and error.
3. I find that foreplay is more and more enjoyable - and spend more and more time on it. My father taught me 50 years ago that just as a gentleman opens the car door for a lady, the lady comes first. And twice or more if she wants to. The older I get, the more I see his wisdom.
4. Feel free to explore any kinks or fetishes that you have rattling around in your head. I have always had a thing for ladies in thigh-high stockings and heels - now I have no problem asking them to wear that to bed.
5. If you are used to having two pops in a session, you may find that as you get older it is more difficult to reach the second one. There is a solution: have a second girl. FFM threesomes are alot of fun!
6. Enjoy life. Every time I spend $ on a session, I think of all the times my children were obnoxious teenagers and said nasty, horrible things to me. Now I am now leaving them less and less - serves the little brats right.
6. Enjoy life. Every time I spend $ on a session, I think of all the times my children were obnoxious teenagers and said nasty, horrible things to me. Now I am now leaving them less and less - serves the little brats right.
BTW, no idea what I posted before this, as it went off before I really could check it!!