I would say that's a no no also.
I really want feed back on this so, to be clear... Providers would you out a client if there significant other contacted you? What would be your protocol? Hobbyist, how would you feel? I understand I am to blame mostly for the situation but I feel as if there are unwritten rules we should follow. I mean it would suck if a client approached a provider in public right?I saw very top rate provider, one who hobbyist still rave about.
Appt went fine. I showed up on time, atleast 10 mins prior and waited and waited. The secretary kept putting me off, saying soon. Soon turned to 30 mins after our scheduled time. Here I am, sitting in a parking garage waiting. Kind of paranoid if any of you have ever been in this situation before.
I finally get to the door, she answers and is legit. She's hyped up but still better quality than most.
Long story short. After our appt. My two worlds started to collide if that makes sense.
Other ppl began to inquire, and I was dimed out. Not just dimed out by this provider, but minor details leaked to confirm this was me, all just confirming it all. I understand no provider has to be completely loyal or lie for their client, but what about a no comment, hang up, don't answer, even lie. I dunno.
Maybe I'm wrong, maybe my thinking is jacked up. If so, I'll be the 1st to accept that. But am I?
This provider even had the nerve to tell me she was UTR, not to review or tell anyone she was seeing new clients which I respected.
Guys please give your .2 cent. I'll add more details if needed
Long story short. After our appt. My two worlds started to collide if that makes sense.
Other ppl began to inquire, and I was dimed out. Not just dimed out by this provider, but minor details leaked to confirm this was me, all just confirming it all. I understand no provider has to be completely loyal or lie for their client, but what about a no comment, hang up, don't answer, even lie. I dunno.
I'll try and help you out.
I apologize for using my out of date phone with large fingers trying to be discreet.
The provider confirm our meeting, or arrangement our engagement along with who I was, providing minor details to ensure the person was 100% sure it was me.
I'm unsure why the provider wouldn't keep our secret and our app our business.
That's a no no in this biz, wish I knew who you were talking about.
I would say that's a no no also.
I really want feed back on this so, to be clear... Providers would you out a client if there significant other contacted you?
What would be your protocol?
Hobbyist, how would you feel?
I understand I am to blame mostly for the situation but I feel as if there are unwritten rules we should follow.
I mean it would suck if a client approached a provider in public right?
1. I would never, ever, see that provider again, obviously.
2. I would seriously consider taking a hiatus from the hobby for a while.
1st thanks for everyone's feedback.
To try and answer all questions and comments, I can positively say, from my perspective, the actual appt. Was not weird or odd, claiming UTR status was what the provider told me at the end. The session went well, she uses several sites to market. I don't know the official UTR definition, her words, not mine.
I did infact take a HUGE step back from the hobby. This is my 1st post and 1st time logging back onto this site in a couple of months. This also why I'm not pissed and fired up as I type this, I'm over it, but I've always wanted to return to ask the hobbyist and providers there thoughts.
Am I responsible? sure. Was I careless? without doubt. But I have just always thought there were unwritten rules to this game. Things we just both understood because being outed can go both ways.
The only reason I'm not outing the provider is 2 wrongs don't make a right and it's already been messy on my end.
A 100 % honest response....
As I read it, You saw a provider who is popular with the masses, she was +30 minutes late, her 10/10 scores contain some fluff....Then there is the lack of info on exactly how you managed to get YOURSELF busted/outed....You see where I'm going with this?
The provider may have given specific details that were enough to confirm it was without a doubt you, and yes I think that is a little "jacked up" but, you did something along the line that put her into a "kill or be killed situation". Most providers at some point will have to deal with a significant other making an inquiry.Why?, because we are men and we do stupid shit when we are screwing around.
As far as her claiming UTR status, well if you haven't seen an ad in 2-3 months maybe she is...otherwise, she just didn't want you to write a review of what was likely a mediocre session.
Did I translate that correctly?
nd those who do should be banned from TER, js.
xoxo
Cayle
Ding-ding-ding-ding!!!!
Yes folks...we have another big winner this morning!!!!
No matter what happens, no matter who is asking, under any and all circumstances, keep your mouth shut! I don't care if there is video tape.
"That ain't me"
Seems like you was careless with your phone. That is why you always have a burner and have it placed some where she never goes and have it turned off unless you are expecting or making calls. (For the ladies that thinks weekly I am available messages are ok)
Now for her she was careless as well and did a big NO NO. If she is top rated then she should know how to handle wife’s call and know how to screen wife’s pretending to be a provider “looking for a reference trick”
She didn’t want you to write a bad review. This is a very common practice among top rated providers to protect their “ranking” and pull the whole blacklist list you if you review me blah blah. The higher you go up the ladder the more politics you have to deal with. Something a lot of guys don’t think about when picking their lady. If you are going to run with the big dogs you better have the power, money, and lawyers to balance out what she can do to you and even then that don't always work. She knows everything personal about you. What do you know about her? Some fictional reviews. Why do you think some will not see unmarried guys or ones with mediocre jobs. They have a lot less to lose and some don't even care about being blacklisted.
If she was not seeing new clients. Why did she see you? Hummm
A true UTR has no ads, no reviews, and has contacted sites to be delisted. Word of mouth is how she gets business.
You have the Semi UTR. Where they have reviews and only advertise on one site. Which is usually a members only site and not open to the general public.
So by saying she is “Top Rated” that pretty much says she is reviewed and is not really UTR.
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What's her name?
Why is your post framed as a question? Obviously if true she's more than just wrong.
What do you mean "details were leaked" on top of you being "dimed"?
Why are you not more pissed? You come across as strangely whimsical about the whole thing.
My read of your post thus far is you are a troll.
No disrespect.
No, not a troll.
The secretary was reached, more digging was done until the provided was contacted. Later, physical appearance was described along with name confirmation.
It almost seemed as if they wanted to be helpful by giving up so much info.... It of course was not helpful for me.
As, I stated I'm not pissed because this happened at the start of summer.
The message to my story is, I only see top rated providers because I thought things were more professional, secret/discreet. Wrong! So it's my warning to all (though it's late) cross your Ts and dot you Is
Or you could just divorce your wife before playing around behind her back. That way, you're not cheating on her and don't have to worry about things like this.
Out ANYONE!! Funny thing though, a provider right here on this thread has threatened n has outted provider and hobbyist! Unfucking real!!! Some think nobody will know but everyone does lol
I think it's pretty shitty to threaten to call someones wife or out ANYONE!!
Sorry this happened to you. Honestly though guys you need to protect our info as well as we should protect yours.
I agree with Caylee that such people should be banned from Ter
So you had a session with a top rated ute pro vider and
She fucked you and sucked your cock and then contacted your
Wife??? For what ? Something doesn't add up but if this happened
As you say the bitch is a danger and crazy and should be named...
If it happened