I want to get a hotel for a outcall. But I am real...... nervous. Do they ask you why you are checking in if you live in the same area as the hotel? How far should you travel from your home area? I have no other place to go but a hotel. Please help me. I am afraid they will be able to tell why I am there.
you could say you were planning to go to a nearby bar with some friends and might not be in shape to drive home.
You don't need to give them any sort of explanation. Maybe your house is full of in-laws visiting from Mongolia. Maybe you have a terrible termite infestation and your house is being bombed with bug killing chemicals, maybe you had a water main burst that flooded the entire downstairs, or maybe you just decided to treat yourself to an evening of relaxation in a nice hotel.
There are many reasons why people check into hotels in the city they live in. Show up with a gym bag, or small carry on suitcase, check in like its no big deal, and the desk staff won't bat an eye.
Make sure to rumple the bed up as though it had been slept in, don't leave just one little piece of trash (you know what I'm talking about) behind in the trash bin to be found. Dampen a towel and leave it lying on the bathroom floor, and leave the key in the room when you leave. The desk staff and the cleaning staff will never have a reason to think anything other than a run of the mill overnight guest had been there.
If you think you are the only one staying at the Hotel doing a little hanky panky you are naive.
Hotels have seen it "all" and as long as no one else in the Hotel knows what is going on, they will not care.
When I was having an affair, I stayed at Hotel so often I eventually worked out a nice day rate with the Manager of the hotel. He never asked "why" I was there just always thanked me for my repeat business.
I have booked rooms with Cash with fictitious names and all sorts of ways to keep my identity hidden when need be.
Go about your "stay" keep anything obnoxious out of the lobby and no one will ever know and the hotel will not care...unless of course your spouse shows up banging on your room door *snicker*
Alex
We marketed weekend getaway packages to the community for the express purpose (well to draw business really) of locals escaping their home for a couple days.
I've travelled extensively for business and pleasure, and have never once been asked WHY I'm staying there. I also routinely book rooms where I live for business visitors (in my name), and it's never been a problem.
Hotels are in the business or selling room nights. Unless you cause trouble during your stay they will welcome you back gladly even if you live across the street from the place. Stick to well reviewed providers who know how to dress and act in a hotel lobby and you will be fine. Relax and enjoy!
Trust me, darling, they don't care why you are there. They are in the business to make money, too, and discretion is part of that. I would suggest you spend a bit extra and stay in a nice, clean, reputable place and call a quality provider. The staff is less likely to take note of you or your guest, whereas the "disruptable" places and "ladies" of questionable standards, well......you get what you pay for, luv, or what you don't want, sometimes.
Just act like you have "been there, done that". Walk in carrying some sort of overnight bag (sexy clothes, toys, etc.), ask for a room, give them your cc, enjoy your stay. Make the room looked lived in (shower towel on floor,), bed looked slept in, and don't leave any tell tale trash. The less said, the better.