I commend him for posting. Lol
I see a lot of posts about providers hanging out together. Are a lot of providers friends with each other, outside of "work"?
And, ladies, do your non-provider friends know what you do for a living?
EOM...
Sorry, I thought this was a discussion board.
I kinda agree with Troy.. seems like a stalker gathering info..lol
If you ever wonder why these isn't much participation on these boards, you guys are being great examples.
Cuz these questions are easy to answer without asking. Blurred face, usually means that what she does is a secret. Face shows, usually means everyone knows.
I mean"providers" are people too what the hell do you think dude. The discussion doesnt happen because it is as if you think these ladies are robots and dont have real lifes
I can appreciate a well thought out question that doesn't intrude on the personal lives of others.
For instance: Stevie, you have been in the Hobby since about 2003...-FACT
You didn't write a review for 6 years- FACT
Why didn't you write a review for 6 years?
This is an example of a question that you just don't really need to answer, I really don't care why...
Because I got out of the hobby for 6 years. Was that so hard?
For instance: Stevie, you have been in the Hobby since about 2003...-FACT
You didn't write a review for 6 years- FACT
Why didn't you write a review for 6 years?
This is an example of a question that you just don't really need to answer, I really don't care why...
Remember, there is always that one newbie that just may be scared to ask a certain question. This may have been one of them.
And yes, assholes like that are exactly why there isn't much participation on the boards.
It's ridiculous. Go get laid!
I'm keeping note of all the assholes. I'd never spend a second of my time with people like that.
Stevieisme, please keep asking questions, we need more participants like you.
-Nina
but I am rarely rude to the newbies. I save my rudedness for guys (and girls) who have been here a long time and should know better.
Or the posters who REALLY deserve it, like AnnoyingFungus who is quite easily the grumpiest poster on all of TER.lol
That just makes me frightened for my future in this hobby!
Bring it!!!!
It might pop my bubble, so I don't know.
Then again, is there a good asshole vs bad asshole list?
Thanks for post Nina
lol actually, there is!
I call them the "Hell No" and the "I'd still hit it" Lists lol.
Keep all the notes you want sweetheart...My well being doesn't depend on it.
Before you make a post, Please do some research...He ain't a newbie babe. In fact he's been doing it longer than I have.
If your gonna defend then answer his questions..
I wasn't calling him a newbie. I was referring to the fact that there may be other newbies on the board who are probably wanting to ask the same questions, but are afraid to. There for it is actually helpful to them as well as the board.
And, yes, I will keep aaalllll the notes I want.
Also, I did, in fact, answer a number of his questions.
Keep em coming Stevie!!
-Nina
Before you make a post, Please do some research...He ain't a newbie babe. In fact he's been doing it longer than I have.
If your gonna defend then answer his questions...
Besides the encouragement for you to do more research (which sounds like a great idea) what mmale and the airman are reflecting is the kinda creepy, voyeuristic, free cyber, peculiar little cries for help, embedded in the body of some of Stevie's stranger posts.
Thank you Krunchie.....
Glad to know somebody else gets it..
I have the right to remain silent, not the ability.....
Lets review the OP's last 3 posts..
What time of day......
Relationships.....
Friendships.....
None of which are topics of vast knowledge to anyone.
I'm not angry, not being a smartass. I'm just saying those questions aren't keeping folks awake at night...
I think Steveishe is truly fascinated by a woman's ability to compartmentalism their lives and means no harm.
I commend him for posting. Lol
I commend him for posting. Lol
They might not be topics you're interested in (maybe boob and ass pics would be better?), but why do you care what he asks?
I mean, seriously?
These are questions a Grad student asks when writing a paper on sexual deviation, such as hobbying.
There was an episode of CASTLE with a Dom who was murdered... lol
You get my point.
My friends know what I do for a living. All of them. Just a life choice for me. I don't want to live my life hiding what I do. Luckily they are pretty much all supportive!
I have helped some of my friends get into the industry so I do hang out with those ladies regularly since we were already friends to begin with. I don't have enough in common with most ladies in the industry to make many friends within it, but I'm open to it if that ever happens. I have a very full social life already and mostly need to get paid for providing my companionship to folks who fall outside my friend circle or I just don't have the free time. But of course I do make time for social networking and helping other ladies out, because that just seems like smart business and safer for everyone. Yet that feels different to me than personal friendships. Usually when I meet ladies from the biz, we talk business. 
I'm still kinda new, so I haven't made any close provider friends yet. I'm sure I will though, lots of really nice ladies in Atlanta.
My close circle of friends and my mom know I'm a provider. They're really supportive, and my friends even help me with my business...taking pictures, getting supplies from the drug store, bringing food to my incall when I don't have time to run out, helping with my hair or make-up, etc. My mom got a gym membership for me for my birthday. lol ok, mom I can take a hint.
Some of my dearest friends are Tantrikas. We study and practice together, sharing wisdom and knowledge.
As a sacred sexuality teacher, I find that my work is very easy to talk about in my community. My close friends know what I do, including my Mom and family.
However... were I simply offering my body up to the highest bidder, I would find other "providers" to be a threat, and I would be afraid of anyone knowing what I do.
With that said, I'm not suggesting at all that every provider "offers her body" up to the highest bidder.
But you men know that you often feel taken advantage of and manipulated by providers.
No woman is proud when she makes her money off of another person's addictions.
I do know most providers like to stick together, so yes, a lot of them hang out and stuff. It's great to have a friend in the business who experiences the same things as you. As opposed to someone who doesn't work in the hobby.
Like Miss Stina up there, I'm pretty new as well so I have yet to form friendships with many ladies. Plus, I'm a student, so most of the time, I haven't had any time to even form friendships. But I keep associates!
As far as friends outside of the Hobby. I literally have one friend. She knows and is very nonjudgmental. I can tell my bestie anything! As far as my associates go. Frankly, it's none of their business.
My mommy is a whoooooole different story. I haven't told her directly, but I really get the feeling she knows, or has an idea. The funny thing is, I really don't think she wants to know for sure. She would die! lol I'm the baby of all my siblings so she worries about her little ladybug. I choose not to tell her because she tends to beat herself up over things and she'd be more disappointed in herself than me. She doesn't see it in a way that this is my life and is a choice. She sees it as something she failed at.
So yea, it's weird with her and I, but she's just happy that I keep a good head on my shoulders and is still holding an "A" average in school, and is using "whatever I do" as a stepping stone and not a career.
Stina, you're so lucky!!!!
but, it's nice to have that openness. I like the safety aspect of it because she always knows where I am and who I'm with. She bought condoms for me once when she was grocery shopping because they were on sale. It was kinda weird. She said it was worth it to see the look on the cashier's face. They were Magnums. My mom is a free love feminist type that believes women should have sex as much as we like with however many men we like and getting paid is just a plus as long as we're having a good time. I do, and I believe the same now.
I hope someday your mom will be at peace with it. It's so much better than her worrying and you having to keep secrets. I remember what that was like, and it was really hard on both of us. Telling her was hard, but it was worth it for both of us. Her first reaction was a broken heart and anger at my XH for leaving and causing me "to turn to prostitution." While that is true, it turns out that I really like it. And, that made all the difference in how she felt about it next. She also saw that the dog days were over for our family. Do you think your mom would be supportive if she knew you liked it and were happy with your choices?
But as long as she knows I'm safe, happy, and not falling into bad habits or bad crowds, she would be content with that and that only. If I knew she wouldn't be so hard on herself, I more than likely would've told her already.
She's supportive with everything else. But I'm pretty sure she's going to be very hands off with this part of what I do. lol Which is kinda what I want. I can't talk about anything remotely sexual with my mom. It creeps me out! Let alone talk about my sex life with her! Agggh! lol
I wish her and I could have that "mutual sexual openness." Who knows, maybe we will in the future...
I agree with you and your mom. A woman taking control of her sexuality is a great thing. It's actually quite liberating. To know me is to know I'm a feminist TO THE CORE!
I'm so happy you are in a better place than you were then. It's a blessing.
Girl Power.
*fist bumps*
My dad would probably feel the same way. Fortunately he's 3000 miles away, so it's a little easier to hide.