I can't control what a provider does outside of my presence..... if she's fucking someone without a condom on video that's her choice, however when I'm fucking her I will be using protection (my choice).  

I don't get involved in these ladies personal life's, what providers do with their clients and outside of my presence with their BF's and husbands, frankly it's none of my business.  

Furthermore I'm not naive these beautiful ladies go home every night to a guy who doesn't pay them and he's fucking them bare.

The only thing I request from providers is, "good hygiene", "don't NCNS me", and deliver a quality session for the time I've paid for.  

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If I was a guy, I wouldn't. HIV can take six months to show up in a test. That's the one that scares me.

I will refuse to give a whitelist if he so much as asks for bbfs.

Eddie Murphy covered this in his standup in the 1980s.  Once upon a time, you got sick from unprotected sex and you got a shot.  Then there was a time you'd have to take some pills and everything would clear right up.  But then unprotected sex got dangerous.  His punchline, "what's next, you put your d**k in and explode?"  It still makes me laugh, but but it's also very sad.

There's lots of celebs who have naked selfies or sex tapes. There are many Porn Starlets, and Pro-Am PornStars (the one who have done less quality cinematography porn, usually a frat party, a POV, or simply a tripod/third person with a camcorder) who have now become escorts. Even non-celebs are sexting.

So, in a way, there's little difference between escorts and laypeople/celebs with sex tapes. The number of people who recognize the people in the sex tape has changed, that's all.

Having seen 'real' Porn Starlets in the past, No... it didn't bother me that SHE had BBFS or BBA with BBBJ and various money shots from Ron Jeremy and/or Peter North, etc. on camera for rent money. To me, So What? if SHE escorted instead of/in addition to Stripping at the Pony when she toured - lucky me!

In a way, with the advent of the camcorder, porn/ sex tapes are almost like tattoos. At one time, getting a tattoo meant going to the shady part of town, risking Hep B/C exposure, etc. and thus tattoos were distinctive and rare and a sign of someone who was lower class. Then tattoos became mainstream to the point that now more than half of the people I know have at least one tattoo, often hidden under their business suits and dresses, so it's not a big deal.

So your view Khori of sex tapes might be like other people's views on tattoos.  
To Each, Her Own - right?

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I would not feel comfortable with that, and in fact, I took a provider off my list of women I wanted to see recently, just for this reason!

Another anomaly.....

WHY  would a provider post a video of her having sex bareback on TER?  IS this something that men love/like?  Just curious...thanks! Would that make you want to see her?  Delving into the idea of videos.....NOT bare back though....too many questions....any answers???  I  really want to know...LOL!  Thank you guys!

It's no different than ex porn stars going town to town doing appointments.  
Or a lady going home and fucking her boyfriend/husband and he has no idea what she has been doing all day. I have heard many stories of bb, diseases, all kinds of nasty shit, involving top providers to backpage girls...I have asked the board about it in the past. I got blasted..lol so I indulge with caution.. the reality is that it exists on and off camera. On and off the clock. If it concerns you, then don't do this stuff. If you do, this get tested regularly no matter what.  
But maybe its like the Ray Rice elevator video. Domestic violence exists every where, but you don't know how serious it is until you see the girl get knocked out.

I would still see them but like someone mentioned I would still use protection. Right now, in Georgia especially Atlanta. There are a high risk of STD going around that a person has to be cautious whenever a person be with. Do you know in statistics that there is a small town in Georgia according to Georgia statistics (Fort Valley) that has a very higher level of STD percentage rate than Atlanta alone. A Person has to be very careful in the hobby. Even without hobby still got to be careful. To me showing me about having intercourse without a condom is like looking at porn on the internet or tv whatever is better for the individual. It might be exciting for a 5 minute thrill min but a lifetime of headaches and heartaches. Is it worth it?, unless you desire to take chances on an unknown. However, even though a condom isn't 100% effective for STD, it is better than nothing. Safe Wild Sex is better than a life time of turmoil. Enjoy and be safe because your life is worth it.

The problem is, you will never know the true disease profile about anyone you see. So holier than thou is never the way to go.

Every dude you've ever done BB anything with creeps me out!

Seriously, all of them.  Your ex, your first boy friend, those random bar dudes, that time you got so fucked up you can't remember the evening (I'm just assuming you party, maybe you don't), all of them dudes.  All that bareback sex, with those disgusting dudes, creepy. All those BBBJ, they've been in your mouth and you're gonna DFK me?  No thanks.  

That's why I only see providers that don't drink, and have no kids (seriously, I'm not a motherfucker, that's proof those bitches did bareback).  

Actually, I've seen porn stars, and they do bareback all the time.  And they don't do bareback with me, but have mentioned that if I desired such a thing, I would need a recent STD panel from a reputable testing agency.  

And yes, I hate to see condoms in porn, and I would not like to see condoms in a provider advertisement.  Condoms suck, why would that be a good advertisement; that would be like a Ferrari car commercial where they intentionally showed the car going exactly the speed limit, while on the way to pick up groceries, with your kids in car seats in the back.  Just reminding me of reality, I'm not interested in that.

I would want to see bareback so that I know she's into it, and that she doesn't run.  I hate YMMV, and work hard to reduce the risks of YMMV BS.  And that is really an exercise in getting into the provider's history to decide if she's a flaky unprofessional loser or a consistent professional performer.  I would watch such a video and pay careful attention to the money shot, to see her reaction, because that is the window into her sexual soul  In fact, now that you mention it, ALL providers should make porn video advertisements.  Think of them EXACTLY as compliance tapes, for a job interview.