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Would you give this man a free session?

Im not sure if thats appropriate to ask but ill try to explain my issue.
Im kind of on the edge but not sure if providers would take it normally. Or would make a deal out of it.
The question is, If I'm visiting a provider will it be appropriate to bring bouquet of flowers? I mean I'm not trying to get anything extra nor I'm looking for any kind of relationship, only as an appreciation and gentleman gesture.

Will providers take it as I'm in love with them and i will look stupid or will they just be happy and wouldn't make a deal out of it?

How many of you guys actually brought flowers? Was it for some special provider or random?

The only thing to consider regarding this is if the provider is allergic to flowers or not. You can research her website or ads for an indication of what type of flowers she will adore. Some women love flowers, some do not. It is a matter of preference. At the end of the day, its the thought that counts and I think that your generosity will be greatly rewarded.

Darlina Dane

I think it is very sweet (and not inappropriate at all!) to show up with a bouquet. It's thoughtful gestures like this that make you stand out as a client.

Carrying a bouquet around a hotel or apartment building can attract undesirable attention. Nosy hotel staff and nosy neighbors who might already be suspicious don't need more evidence. If she told her neighbors that she is an "art consultant" or "makes custom jewelry" or whatever, why are some customers bringing flowers to their business appointment??

When a lady leaves a hotel, what do you think happens to your expensive bouquet?
1. Leave behind Victoria's Secret articles to make room for flowers in suitcase.
2. Toss flowers in garbage can.

Posted By: photomoto
Im not sure if thats appropriate to ask but ill try to explain my issue.  
 Im kind of on the edge but not sure if providers would take it normally. Or would make a deal out of it.  
 The question is, If I'm visiting a provider will it be appropriate to bring bouquet of flowers? I mean I'm not trying to get anything extra nor I'm looking for any kind of relationship, only as an appreciation and gentleman gesture.  
   
 Will providers take it as I'm in love with them and i will look stupid or will they just be happy and wouldn't make a deal out of it?  
   
 How many of you guys actually brought flowers? Was it for some special provider or random?

..especially if she is from out of town. Always well received.

And each will probably have a different reaction. I was surprised with flowers upon arrival once (in a restaurant) upon our meet and while it caught me by surprise, I thought it was a sweet gesture on his part to go out of his way. He was a complete sweetheart so I could tell it was a normal thing for him to do. This is definitely a YMMV kinda scenario. It's really up to you. Good luck!

Posted By: photomoto
Im not sure if thats appropriate to ask but ill try to explain my issue.  
 Im kind of on the edge but not sure if providers would take it normally. Or would make a deal out of it.  
 The question is, If I'm visiting a provider will it be appropriate to bring bouquet of flowers? I mean I'm not trying to get anything extra nor I'm looking for any kind of relationship, only as an appreciation and gentleman gesture.  
   
 Will providers take it as I'm in love with them and i will look stupid or will they just be happy and wouldn't make a deal out of it?  
   
 How many of you guys actually brought flowers? Was it for some special provider or random?

And I can not even to think to charge  him 5 K for overnight..  
He normally gave me 2500 and yes nice flowers every month with a note of love - as " from your Gardner @@@+chka" Even when I am chaging country - he is contacting me and asking where he should send flowers..  
Tell you true - I would see him and for less then 2500.  
And I told him that - however he feels himself more comfortable to keep it business like  - so and I as well - yet.. special feelings we have for each other..and he lives in CA and I met him in Denver and when I am In NYC or Germany and flowers and he keep coming..  
Amazing when man is a Gardner and loves roses as much as we women love them  
Kisses to all gardeners

as min you still remember that heart can bleed.

 
You have a hope.

Would you give this man a free session?

I denied dozens inquires when  
- language used was as yours - session..
 incall, outcall, services, abbreviations , and so on - you got the picture how johns do hire service providers.

it was time when I was giving them back a lecture that man would not approach woman for adult date in such manner ..
 Now I even do not bother to answer.
I do answer to you here just because I do know well as well that even nice gentlemen here by some reasons  do adopt to low le el customs  
instead of establishing own rules and live by them and treat people by those decent rules and not vulgar language - even nice men here do follow customs of the people their normally do not want to know.

You may be just nice normal way - yet you again asking about some kind of session.. You mean lovely evening with me?  

I do not count  ever time by hours.  
Yet I do not ket anybody to take advantage of me and my time.  

I do spend  a lot of nice time with true gentlemen.  
We are friends and lovers and sharing a lot.  
I do aim for such adult dates.  
I never accept "bookings" Sessions"
I do love flirt and to be a woman. . do not mind to talk to my date  by emails and do love travel together and have romantic travels:)
and not only romantic.  

and you are  
"free session"
That is all what is on your dreams?  
What you are dream about ?

I think it's a very nice gesture.  
I would not think it's in appropriate at all.  
It's very sweet and thoughtful .

Xoxox Vanessa

And that is what makes it super special. I would never see the gesture of flowers in a negative way. I think it is so thoughtful, gentlemanly and the flowers probably would be from someone I imagine wanting to see again and again.

I realize it's not preferred to let someone know of a gift you're planning, especially if you wanted it to be a surprise, but in the case of flowers for a provider, I think the best protocol would be to check with her if you're planning to take them to her incall.  

Someone else in this thread mentioned that it may bring undesired attention.  This is so true, especially in the case of us providers who also work out of our residence; while I almost never see my neighbors, I wouldn't want to increase the likelihood of them seeing seemingly "random" (for lack of a better term) gentlemen bringing gifts all the time.  

Because of these realities we must consider in this hobby..... I think it would be a great idea (and also show a tremendous amount of respect to the provider) to simply ask, "I'd love to bring you some fresh flowers.  Would it be okay to bring some over for you when we get together?"  It could also be a good opportunity to ask if the provider is allergic to any sort of flower.

Hope my 2 cents were helpful.

xo, Mia

Such a great way to lay out the pro's and con's!

I was fantasizing about sending a dozen roses in a vase to a beautiful companion over the next two weeks somewhere in NYC, and as I was unfolding the logistics, they seem overwhelmingly attention getting, almost every single step of the way. I have even figured out the date/day/time and a favorite dependable florist which will deliver directly into New York City, after calling the florist.

I have decided against it.

Perhaps I could demonstrate to beautiful lady in other ways

Thanks Mia
I actually thought the same about asking and i really appreciate your thought about it.
Hope to meet you on my November trip to NYC :)

I'm happy to help :)  

It would be lovely to meet in NYC; I plan to be visiting again in November.

Wishing you a wonderful weekend,"

Mia

 
 

Posted By: photomoto
Thanks Mia  
 I actually thought the same about asking and i really appreciate your thought about it.  
 Hope to meet you on my November trip to NYC :)

So when she visits NYC, she could enjoy some trips to nice restaurants which are already paid for; or maybe if I were to have access to Broadway tickets, maybe a pair of Hamilton tickets for Mia Martel and Colette Deevon, could be an option  

I guess the possibilities could be endless with the fund$ diverted from flowers!

I love flowers, I love gentlemen/clients that do little special things to us. Sometimes I have few clients that brought me flowers and I LOVE it!.... but, to be honest I rather to have a small gift card, starbucks?! or something that doesnt get too much attention in a hotel lobby.  
Flowers and chocolates and big items like that can draw attention and that's exactly what I don't want.  

Just my .2 cents.  

:)  

Posted By: photomoto
Im not sure if thats appropriate to ask but ill try to explain my issue.  
 Im kind of on the edge but not sure if providers would take it normally. Or would make a deal out of it.  
 The question is, If I'm visiting a provider will it be appropriate to bring bouquet of flowers? I mean I'm not trying to get anything extra nor I'm looking for any kind of relationship, only as an appreciation and gentleman gesture.  
   
 Will providers take it as I'm in love with them and i will look stupid or will they just be happy and wouldn't make a deal out of it?  
   
 How many of you guys actually brought flowers? Was it for some special provider or random?

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