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It kind of related to the question below. I have seen in past times ads that says that no AA or Black Men or no Hispanic as well and etc.... I don't understand why providers that post it on their page make the distinction. Is it because they are afraid that they would be rob or what. Can anyone help me understand because it baffles me sometimes.
Just do a search. They are all the same, with the same answers month after month, year after year after year, after year.
Yea but after I read the post about the mixed guy looking for a provider that brings the same question about it.
If you see an ad on back-page that says Caucasian only respect her decision, it's her pussy.
Damn you're already paying for pussy, why beg to pay for pussy.
To me men who bitch and moan why an escort won't see them are pathetic, there are 50 million escorts in Atlanta if one won't see you move on. Buying pussy ain't that complicated
I agree with what you said. However, there are some who wondered about this. If a person puts this topic on Google then a person would discover the amount of people that ask this same question. Personally, I feel like you such that there are plenty of fish in the sea. If one won't see you, another eventually will.
When I first became a provider, the very first woman I contacted for client verification had this policy. I was looking her up and found her on BP. She had this policy stated in her ad. When I called her, we got to talking for a long while, and I asked her what was up with that. She said she's found Black men to be cheap hagglers, and she also found that they respected her body less than men of other races.
Though she provided verification to other providers, she never has called another provider to GET verification. She basically has no screening method at all. Screening weeds out a lot I think.
I'm going to be a bit ageist here, but I found young men to be this way, not a particular race. Only two gentlemen my age (both from TER not BP) have been great to me. Every other young man that has contacted me or been with me either haggled the rate or I felt that he just viewed me as three-holes and not a person. I'm wondering if this provider's bad experiences were with young black men, and if it had more to do with their age than their race.
I agree with that maybe their experience had caused them to do this. However, I would say that it is not good to judge people basically from the few of them that cause them mistreatment. I practice that do unto others as you would want them to do unto you. I do think that it's the modern culture of media perspective that paint a negative stereotype of minority culture. However, i don't like how the modern culture dress with their pants halfway down through their butt and etc.. I feel image bring a negative impact on race.
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DISCLAIMER - I am an ethnic minority (and an obvious one) .. so, while not AA, I have experienced some of the same issues ... but don't think it's a big deal
We all have life experiences and make certain decisions (rather biases) based on that. So certain providers meet a few minority men and have a bad experience, so decided (based on learned behavior) to avoid them. Nothing wrong with that ... Ultimately in a free society each person has a right to interact with folks they are comfortable with ... and avoid others. No different than us hobbiests who like spinners, BBW, Blonds, redhead etc and choose only to interact with them. So why be offended? If a provider has a bias against people like me, based on my ethnicity, body style, age or whatever, I respect that and put it down to her personal choice and look for another provider.
So to answer your questions, I think they post that because they (or someone close to them) has had a bad experience with that type of individual, and rather than take a chance, they play it safe by avoiding that demographic. I may think that is stupid from a business perspective, but still respect their prerogative to choose who to interact with.
(DANG 4 drinks and I get on my soap box 
I agree. From a business outlook you eliminate a market that has good potential. I mean any successful business you target a market and capitalize on it. However, there are several untapped market that has a potential for growth. Like she said previously, you have to screen to make sure that the person is good.
Considering that most hobbyists are white and over 30. Some ladies think by stating "No AA men" it makes them more attractive to their targeted demo.
I think ladies are more turnoff by age then race. It is more important to most ladies that you are over 30 or 35. I do know of some ladies we prefer married men.
If you are both marry and 30 then you should be good to go because it shows the lady that you are mature and unlikely to do something crazy because you have a wife.
I see. However, does it work? What happened if the demographic that the provider seek doesn't want to see her? Will she tried to reach back to those she alienate?
For me when I see "NO AA men". I lose interest because the provider has some wrong ideas even through I am white.
I definitely understand that. I guess they try to reach for the high bucks then lol
If I see "no AA men", then I think, GOOD thing I'm not black! Then I think, that's a smaller market, I'll probably have an easier time booking her!
I'll see any hot chick that will see me! She could be KKK, once she takes off the hood, I'm getting some of that! She could be some crazy liberal Obama lovin hoe, or a tea party right wing nut job, but as long as she's hot with skills, I'd fuck her . . . MSOG if she'll let me! I could care less if she believes in Buddah, Allah, Jesus, Mitt Romney, or the Flying Spaghetti Monster . . . but don't let her be old, fat, or ugly . . . I'll only put up with so much! :
I often wonder if possibly the provider is either dating or married to a black guy and that might be the reason. It's ok as long as it is not another black gent.
That is a good question. I know one that moved was in a relationship with a black guy. Maybe its a threat to him I guess.
So by that reasoning, a white dude is so dickless that he's practically a woman! And why would a guy be worried about another woman having lesbian sex with his woman, after all, a lesbian can't give her dick, QED white guys are equivalent to lesbians...
Does that about sum it up?
I'm dead center of this demographic. Old married dude with kids, not AA.
But no AA does not make them more attractive to me, what do I care if a woman I'm going to meet for 1 hour of my life won't have sex with black dudes? Fuck them all day, or don't; just when it's my turn fuck me.
I actually plan to see a black girl that doesn't fuck black guys, I could care less. What I care about is that she will take a fist up her ass (I can cross that one off my bucket list)!
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The age thing I never thought of as a safety thing. I just assumed either a) she's older or fatter and older guys don't hold these things against her as much (seriously, I'm still not into old, fat or ugly, but I have caught myself looking at older women that I would never have thought twice about before . . . still wouldn't fuck'em though OR b) They figure that you won't be as physically demanding and lacking stamina, so an easier lay.
Maybe it is a safety thing? What I do know, is that it sucks. There was this provider that I was waiting to see and she had a no under 40 policy . . . by the time I turned 40, she left the business
Believe it or not many provider also enjoy their work (at least in my experience). It could be that AA clients don't "do it" for them. We all have our preferences. I tend to see a type of provider and I will say I have never been with a AA provider. This is NOT to say I have not seen many such ladies that have raised my interest but it seems every time I decide to "take the plunge" I find another provider in my comfort zone and I get distracted. It has nothing to do with any dislike. I have never visited a Asian / K-girl either but I do want to try out those a waters also. I also am not a big agency user , preferring indys.
Anyway since many ladies want to enjoy them as much as they can they limit their availability to what they like. As was stated above there are some who won't see below 30 years and even some that raise that bar to 40.
While I am not saying that all ladies who list no AA are doing this for the enjoyment factor many are.
The one thing thing about the hobby is both sides can pick and chose. It is all about comfort and enjoyment.
$0.02
I can definitely understand and respect that. I look at this as there are many angles that could cause this.
So you are suggesting that there are providers that get off fucking white dudes, asian dudes, indians, hispanics, american indians, Polynesians, and middle eastern dudes, AND all of those dudes can be any combination of fat, old, or ugly, but she just can't get an orgasm from a black dude? And therefore, they prefer not to book with them?
If you are searching for a reason not to attribute racism or the thoughtful application of stereotypes to the provider, then I would expect her ad to be much more restrictive. Like limits on age (and not that you have to be OVER 40, but rather under 40) or weight as well. For example: no AA men, no Indian men, no middle eastern men, no fat men, no bald or balding men, no men over 45, and no ugly men (please attach full body nude selfie). That I would buy, she's looking for a type; but just no AA men . . . nah, that probably isn't a he doesn't turn me on rule.
BTW, you need to see an Asian girl, they are awesome. Get focused and fuck one! Philippinas are phenomenal too! I haven't seen K-girls, but when I find one that has a more open menu I would be interested.
And you should see an AA provider, one with an amazing ass
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Since it's the same week as the National Black MBA Association convention in Atlanta guessing it's really two threads about those who do since it's the same names as always .
Clever ladies , clever indeed .
Oh , and my favorite are tiny AA and or mixed spinners under 25 . Hooray !
It is a re-occurring topic on the DC board. Seems like a Donald Sterling effect lol.
My advice....keep it moving. This is a lady's choice and it really doesn't matter what you think. Instead of focusing on why a particular lady won't see you, find one that will gladly make your acquaintance. As many have pointed out, there are a million threads on TER about this. Some ladies won't see older guys, younger guys, guys that write a lot of reviews and so forth.
Dude - you live in Atlanta. There are so many available options, it doesn't pay to get hung up on any one girl.
Enjoy this great weekend!
...just because there are so many on this with probably every reason for their anti-xyz minority policy. *EO lover btw*
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