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Those people are not serious hobbyists and even if they got a picture probably wouldnt see you. Real hobbyists know better.

Just want ask,when the client ask the provider send photo of face,what you will do?
I made clear I don't do that on my website,but still get some emails like that.
May i know is that common ?what other provider handle situation like that?
thanks

i wouldn't ask for, and i'm sure none of the hobbyist would give their photo to the provider they haven't met yet.

this is safety and discretion.....

Hey girl,

I do blur my face in my pictures as well because of discretion reasons.  

So if a potential client asks for your face picture and you don't want to send it, simply say no. Haha  

Don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want ! And if he doesn't want to meet with you because you don't want to give him pictures of your face then that's his lost .

Posted By: teresahorizon
Just want ask,when the client ask the provider send photo of face,what you will do?  
 I made clear I don't do that on my website,but still get some emails like that.  
 May i know is that common ?what other provider handle situation like that?  
 thanks
First: Do NOT send an unblurred pic if you are at all uncomfortable about that. You're in NY. Did you ever hear of Anthony Weiner? He's been in the news lately. :-) Once your pic is sent it is out of your control.

Some guys are just time wasters and want more pics. Do you want to send another (blurred) pic or two? Eh, your choice.

If you are not yet well reviewed and some guys seriously want to know that you are real and not using fake pics, they might ask for a pic of you holding up a newspaper or a piece of paper with a message written on it as proof of the girl in the ad. That doesn't need a face, either.  

Blurring can be TOO extreme (giant pixels, black boxes or circles) and completely remove a sense of the "hidden" face: shape (round, oval), hairline, lips (thin or thick; smile or frown), chin (pointy or square), etc. Try to keep the blurring to a point that it protects your identity but still conveys your look.  

What some providers have said that they do is offer, "My face is very pretty. If you come to see me but do not like what you see, you can leave within 2 minutes with no penalty from me  (no "envelope" or money; no blacklisting)."  Most guys will stay!  

Right now, I see -- or don't see -- two problems.  1. There are NO PHOTOS on your P411 profile. 2. Like many others, I am using a web proxy for security reasons and your webpage doesn't load at all: no pictures, no text, no links, ... nothing!  That's another reason to ask for a pic by email or text, but you don't have to show your face.  

Good luck!

EDIT: You have two reviews.  Your Profile says real pics, accurate pics (even tho' I can't see your website, so I don't know now many pics or what they show).  The two reviewers do not complain about your appearance!! A few more reviews like that and there will be fewer requests for more pics, except from the time wasters. Put some pics on P411!  

You posted an ad to the NY Ad board but there is no pic. You should include a pic! Many guys skip right past ads with no pics and do not click on links. Do you know how to include a pic in your posts?

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Those people are not serious hobbyists and even if they got a picture probably wouldnt see you. Real hobbyists know better.

Odds are even if you did send a photo they will not see you any way. Most of these guys are just dicking around with you and are not serious about an appointment. Why send face shots if you are blurring your photos. He knows this is not okay.  

In the beginning I had a few people doubt my authenticity and would send some photos doing certain things, but never of my face. This was only for a few very doubtful people I ended up not enjoying my time with.

thank you,I am also think that way

Posted By: ElspethSin
Odds are even if you did send a photo they will not see you any way. Most of these guys are just dicking around with you and are not serious about an appointment. Why send face shots if you are blurring your photos. He knows this is not okay.  
   
 In the beginning I had a few people doubt my authenticity and would send some photos doing certain things, but never of my face. This was only for a few very doubtful people I ended up not enjoying my time with.

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