It will be nice to filter those girls out but SA will probably not give a filter that is so explicit about the intention of the arrangement.
I avoid the girls that say no intimacy, but there are many girls who use SA as pay per date with no intimacy whatsoever, I guess there are guys out there who want that kind of arm candy. Fortunately, there are more than enough girls who are willing to go for action right from the first date
Reading the SA profiles can be awfully fun.
Yesterday I see a very cute 25 YO state "If I am clearly out of your league, please don't contact me"
Uh yeah, the rich, hansom, single young men are getting all the ass they want. The rich, hansom, married, young men are banging their wives friends. The guys on here are at best middle aged, decent looking and well off. Needless to say I didn't bite.
Then this morning I'm plating with the phone app and look at a 35 YO that is most likely a pro. She messages right away "What's your name so I can quickly Google you?"
I felt like sending back "Bill Gates" and here's my credit card number.
that make me wonder why they are even on the site to begin with. Some clearly state that they aren't interested in meeting, just want the $. I can't imagine they are having any success. A number that I have had contact with haven't thought through the entire process and when reality finally sets in, they disappear and never sign into their account again.
I find it amusing that a 20 something thinks that they are so interesting that an older man will pay just to listen to them.
I do have to give them credit for being honest. I don't waste any time with a profile that even hints that sex is not an option.
Whose profile I looked at. One states she's still in HS. Not going near that one. How the hell does she think that's gonna work? Like Mom and Dad aren't gonna notice her new found wealth.
The other clearly states no intention of meeting. I'm wondering when reality finally sets in, whether she'll change her mind or disappear.
Things that make you go hummmm
She said she was unable to do "private time" because she still lived at home and her parents had an app on her phone that allowed them to monitor her whereabouts.
Yes, that date sure worked out.
Too bad too, as she was very cute.
Can you imagine being 18 and having your parents still monitor your whereabouts via your phone?!?! WTF lol!
By age 18 I had visited over a half a dozen countries, a dozen different states, fucked hookers in four of those countries and had been taking care of myself for four years.
No, I can not relate in the least.
I have seen them in Los Angeles from time to time and they are almost always 18 or 19 yr olds.
- Pass
There are also a few profiles that say they only offer online experiences.
- Pass
Then there are the profiles (sometimes the 2 girl-profiles) that say they live in Sate X and want to move to my area. They need help with travel expense and maybe a place to stay.
- Pass
Finally, I see lots of supermodel "High" and "Substantial" profiles that are just good for a laugh. If your price is higher than Top-Shelf Porn Star PSE overnights (anywhere from $5k up tp $30K) then you are truly living in an alternate fact world.
- Pass
Like they say, you don't pay her for sex, you pay her to leave after sex. :p
I pay SB's for sex, I pay hookers to go away.
Obviously I pay SB's much less than hookers, so "going away" is more highly compensated than sex. lol
It's been said that one of the skills a guy needs to learn to be successful at this is to learn how to say "NO" and mean it. Words to live by.
Fair enough. I actually do enjoy the pre and post BCD time very much and that is why I prefer the SB path over the Provider path (lets say I'm 80% SB and 20% pro).
That last line was added really for the joke value...
-The Cat
Still remember when she showed at my place. Poor thing was petrified. After about 30 minutes of talking she said she was ready. She was very sweet and I took good care of her.
She only gave me trouble once and I gave her the option of finding a replacement. Never any issues after that. We meet on a regular basis. On occasion I wonder how she's doing. Any guy she been with owes me a debt of gratitude, showed her a lot of things.
Why can't SA include Intimacy as an option for their profile?
It would save alot of wasted time by looking at all these beautiful girls and reading through their stupid profile just to see in the last sentence that they're not interested in intimacy.
I honestly can't believe that there's 1 guy in 100 on SA that will pay a girl just to go to dinner or shopping without the hopes of some affection or intimacy?
All of those dumb ass girls should have a separate category so we can filter them out, isn't that easy for SA to do?
I do have to give them credit for being honest. I don't waste any time with a profile that even hints that sex is not an option.
I actually know a guy like this. He's not an SD on SA... just a guy I know in real life. He's single and makes good money for Lockheed designing air traffic control systems... just that he's a bit socially awkward, has never had a gf for as long as I have known him, and spends time with younger women by taking them shopping and to restaurants and I know he's not getting laid by them. I feel sorry for him actually cuz he's a nice guy. He just has no game and has never had the confidence to figure how to get a woman. I think it's def a low self esteem issue.
So, yes, those guys are out there. You would think that SA is clandestinely P4P enough that even these guys could figure out how to get laid from there, but hey, you can lead a horse to water lmao...
They would be killing their business model. Some areas might have an ample number of ladies with accounts, but filter out those for non intimacy you end up with a handful. Don't know about you, but I'm interested in getting into any "bidding" war. I'll just go back to seeing ladies in the TER world.
including "will fuck for money" would be blatantly crossing that line.
and even wording it a little (ok a lot) more judiciously would still be pushing that line very hard.
If the girl say "not interested in sex" I simply pass her by. If she say "I am not a prostitute" I don't let that bother me as I have fucked a LOT of SB's on the very first date who have that on their profile.
It will be nice to filter those girls out but SA will probably not give a filter that is so explicit about the intention of the arrangement.
I avoid the girls that say no intimacy, but there are many girls who use SA as pay per date with no intimacy whatsoever, I guess there are guys out there who want that kind of arm candy.
Fortunately, there are more than enough girls who are willing to go for action right from the first date
I'm pretty sure if I had a ripped body and deep pockets I would be getting even more pussy than I am getting with just the pockets, and I would not be sharing what was in my pockets. These girls are not on this site because of their IQ