Yes, some providers are just plain flaky. Some are great in the activity department but lousy business people. Some have real world situations that prevent them from answering the phone or returning email on a regular basis.
It is also possible that you did something that made her uncomfortable. If a gal is busy enough she will pick and choose who she wants to repeat with(It's not her job to critique your performance by the way).
In any event, if it were me I would just move on...
I just had my first ever encounter with a provider last weekend and really loved it!! I told her I was very interested in becoming a regular client (which I am) and I was very generous towards her. I treated her well and I gave her every reason to believe that I represented a good business opportunity (which I do.) Now she won't return my calls. [Also, my first two phone calls trying to set up the first encounter went unreturned as well--I was going to to a different way, but decided at the last minute to give her one more chance and she happened to pick up...] WTF??? Is it custom and practice for providers to ignore phone calls under these circumstances? Is this just the way it goes or should I just move on? I'm really disappointed...
This kind of behavior isn't typical of well-reviewed providers - if your one review is the person your speaking about.
You have to keep in mind that providers have lives outside the hobby and she might be going through something that's affecting her availability. If she ever does get back to you, it's not wrong to ask, but don't accuse her of anything.
In the meantime, broaden your experience and look for other providers. I think you'll find there are a lot of great ladies who will be able to accommodate you at reasonable rates.
I hate to say this, newbie, but sometimes your perception of the session won't jibe with the providers.
I had a session a while back like that. The guy stank of cigarettes, had rough hands he insisted on rubbing on my tender parts, and kissed like a cold fish. I did my very best to make him happy, because that's my job. He went away raving about what a great a time he had.
Will I see him again? No. And will I tell him why? Also no. I hope that something like this isn't the case with you, but sometimes it's a good thing to go over your own behavior in your mind and think-- could I have missed any signals the provider was putting out?
Just a word from a senior member of the Provider class!
Maybe he'll make the effort to do better. Is it because you don't think he'll listen or it's just not worth the risk of offending him?
I've never had a provider tell me outright that I'm not doing something well, but I do ask them to tell me. I'd rather make the effort to please a provider so we can both have a good time, than to irritate or bore her.
Just goes with the hobby. Some people are prompt and some are flaky. Its most likely not personal. She may have limit avaiblility or she might be lazy about returning calls. Just chill and try to wait and call. Do not go nuts and call all day everyday, that reaks of stalker problem
Yes, some providers are just plain flaky. Some are great in the activity department but lousy business people. Some have real world situations that prevent them from answering the phone or returning email on a regular basis.
It is also possible that you did something that made her uncomfortable. If a gal is busy enough she will pick and choose who she wants to repeat with(It's not her job to critique your performance by the way).
In any event, if it were me I would just move on...
No, it is not her job to critique his performance but that's not to say she isn't entitled to an opinion of it. If a provider has 10 appointment requests for one day, she will pick her favorites, which may or may not even have anything to do with performance. Also, summer is an especially busy time of year in our personal lives (especially if she is a mother or finally has a break from school, is taking a vacation, etc.) Also, many guys don't realize that this isn't a full-time venture for most ladies and not our top priority ALL the time. It could just be that his dick is too big!
Not likely but thanks anyway...
This happened to me with a provider I had seen several times and I thought we'd be together for ages.
Then she NC/NS on an appointment and wouldn't return calls or emails. I was crushed.
Then about a week later she emailed me. She got into an auto accident on her way to see me. Her cell phone got demolished, so she didn't have my number, and she was in the hospital for a week, so she couldn't email me.
When she finally did, I was so relieved (also very sad about what happened to her, but she did heal up and is fine now.)
We are still together and as happy as can be.
I hope your situation turns out similarly,(except for the car crash part, of course.)
Thanks for your encouragement! It's much appreciated!! I hope so too. We'll see...
Many thanks to all who replied to my post. Your wisdom and insights are much appreciated!!!