Ask her for STD comprehensive panels early detection testing.
That all
better to ask and manage YOUR way then seat and freak out. I am sure - if she is clean and healthy and motivated to meet you - she will comply. Gentlemen - when they do pay money have rights to ask what they want .
yet is you are asking something - be sure you be able do the same. 14- 21 days no dangeroues sex activities - as sex with high volume sex workers / high volume johns STD testing for both and have fun. But as you say here in states
"do not write checks your ass can t cash" So be ready to undergo all what she will ask you to do as well she may be asking the same questions about you - as you are known to see sex workers.
How she would know you are STD free
There is a provider who I was scheduled to see for a second time. First time went great no issues.
A couple days before our appointment I got an email from her saying "apologies but something urgent has come up that will take me out of the game for a couple weeks or months" and she had to cancel our appointment.
Two weeks later I got an email from her that she will be visiting NYC and asked if I wanted to reschedule.
I rescheduled but asked her if it was health related, to which I got no response, just a response to the reschedule date. What is a nice way for me to ask if she is healthy and STD free? That would be the main concern. She is a great provider and would love to see her.
Any advice would be appreciated - thanks in advance!
[You are a client scheduled to see a provider] for a second time. First time went great no issues.
A couple days before our appointment [you sent her an email] saying "apologies but something urgent has come up that will take me out of the game for a couple weeks or months" and [you] had to cancel our appointment.
Two weeks later [you sent her an email saying that you] will be visiting NYC and asked if [she] wanted to reschedule.
[She] rescheduled but asked [you] if it was health related.
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Um, there are a lot of reasons she'd need to take a break. Other job opportunity, a romantic relationship, school workload, stalker, divorce case, child custody case. A sick relative, impromptu travel, burnout.
How would you feel if she asked/assumed the same thing?
It's really none of your business why she took off. If she wants to tell you about it when you two meet, then she will. If not, don't press her to explain her personal life or you'll likely put her on the defensive.
If you really feel that you can't trust her, or won't relax enough to enjoy the session...then don't book with her... but please realize that she likely found it insulting that you automatically assumed that it was STD-related.
Personally, that wouldn't be one of the top 5 things that would occur to me if I heard that a provider was taking a sudden break... Besides, what STD necessitates a break for a few weeks/months
"Hi Provider XXx. I'm so looking forward to seeing you during your next visit at this date and time:XXX. I just wanted to touch base with you about your health. #1 Are you okay? #2 Is your health issue/scare in any way able to effect the time we spend together? You don't need to share many details, just safety of course is my number 1 priority. Can't wait to see you, and let me know when you can.
Ask her for STD comprehensive panels early detection testing.
That all
if you both enjoyed each other and have basic human connection - you are very willing to resolve it/
better to ask and manage YOUR way then seat and freak out.
I am sure - if she is clean and healthy and motivated to meet you - she will comply.
Gentlemen - when they do pay money have rights to ask what they want .
yet is you are asking something - be sure you be able do the same.
14- 21 days no dangeroues sex activities - as sex with high volume sex workers / high volume johns
STD testing for both and have fun.
But as you say here in states
"do not write checks your ass can t cash"
So be ready to undergo all what she will ask you to do as well she may be asking the same questions about you - as you are known to see sex workers.
How she would know you are STD free
You either accept her request or decline. Her health is something you judge when you get there. If you have reason to feel uncomfortable with seeing any lady, best advice is not to.
"What is a nice way for me to ask if she is healthy and STD free? "
How would you verify her answer?