Depends~

The best thing you can do is ask your provider what they want. It's true that some don't, but some rely on reviews for progress updates, increase in bookings, and maybe even self esteem boosts. It's different for everyone.  

After rebranding and moving to a new area, I asked my first client here for a review. She was super understanding and did that for me. Nothing wrong with asking questions. Nothing to lose c:

I used to never do reviews when I first got on TER. But you you are doing a disservice to the lady and to us who make decisions based on reviews. Reviews are a two way street, for the lady, but also for the guys to to make a decision about who to see. You probably made your choice based on other peoples reviews-so write a review.

The value of the TER community mainly stems from the reviews.  We the hobbiests use it to determine where we would get the best match and value for our spend and time.  For the ladies (specially the good ones ) it is the best form of advertising.  So I'd say post away unless the lady specifically wants to be UTR and requests you not to (in which case I do think we should honor her desire for privacy).

I have posted and not posted about experiences. I liken it to reviewing other products and services. I have ordered stuff from Amazon after searching reviews without giving my 2 cents.

Your circumstances are different. Divorce can get nasty. Somehow, in the eyes of most courts, using a sex worker or 5 is frowned upon more than leaving your wife for someone half your age.  

 Your wife learning your TER handle could hurt you more than alimony. She could and likely would tell your clients, co-workers, friends, family just to spite you.  

My 2 cents, wait to review until after the divorce is final. Then Spam us with reviews.

Have fun, play safe.

Time spent with a companion is private. So unless the lady requests it and we have seen each other a couple of times I don't write them. But to each their own.

You're either a reviewer or your not. If you feel discretion is best (and I agree), don't change or feel pressured to behave outside of yourself.  If I were a hobbyist, I would not post reviews.  Being a working provider (and touring often) meant that I "needed" reviews to stay current. Having said that, I tend be far less comfortable with (and avoid) ardent reviewers.  And personally, I find a huge percentage of the reviews written to be more penis prose than relevant input.  

A related note:  I do feel it's important to be able to screen your provider and getting a vip on TER is part of that.  Some write reviews for VIP time instead of paying the fees but the cost is little and far less hassle than writing reviews.